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WHY WORRY WHEN YOU CAN PRAY?

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I came across this quote recently: “We relax in a bus without knowing the driver; we relax in a ship without knowing the captain; we relax in a plane without knowing the pilot…” Then it concludes: “Why don’t you relax in the knowledge that God is in control of your life?”

This hit me hard. How many times have I placed my hopes in my own abilities? How many times have I believed promises of other human beings and placed my hopes in them? And yet, how often do I doubt that God will do for me what He has said he will do?

Worry is sign enough that we have lost trust – that we do not expect any help or any solution to our problems outside our own powers or from the promises of others. So we worry about where we will get the next meal; we worry about school fees, rent, health, family and so on. What this says about us is that we have come to the conclusion that our limitations are the end of the world; that if we cannot extricate ourselves out of our troubles then no one can.

And yet, what does Jesus say about worry in Luke 12:25? “Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to your life?” Jesus is simply telling us that we are not in charge. We cannot determine the hours of our life nor even predict the next minute of our life. We are not on this planet out of our own choosing but by a force beyond us. Why then do we take things in our own hands and give in to worry instead of placing our lives in the hands of the one who is in control of our minutes and seconds? Aren’t we told in 1 Peter 5:7 to cast all our anxiety on Him because He cares for us?

The reason there is so much corruption and theft and even murders over property is because people have stopped trusting in God. I remember how we believed in the power of prayer when we were sitting our Kenya Certificate of Primary Education. We used to pray. We were literally on our knees the week before the exams. We believed God could intervene and help us pass even though we had not prepared well enough. And people then, our parents and neighbours, used to pray for everything and anything. And God used to answer most of our prayers in our favour. Where that trust went to after we became adults still puzzles me. Or is this the reason Jesus says in Matthew 19:14, “The Kingdom of Heaven belongs to such as these little ones.”

Yes. Children trust wholly. And we should cultivate again that childlike trust in the goodness of God our Father – the provider of everything that is good. No matter what you are going through, no matter the hardships and the missiles being thrown at you, just know and live in a manner that declares that God is in charge of your life. Get back to that point where you proclaim that “Even though I walk through the darkest valley I will fear no evil for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me” (Psalm 23:4).

What shall we eat? What shall we drink? What shall we wear? How shall we meet our expenses? All these worries do not solve our problems. If anything, they add to our misery as they cause disease and even death. As Jesus would say, you cannot add an hour to your life by worrying.

So, what are we to do? How are we to live? “Be content with what you have because God has said in Hebrews 13:5-6, ‘Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you’; so we say with confidence ‘The Lord is my helper; I will not be afraid. What can mere mortals do to me?”

Yes. There is God who created Heaven and Earth. He created the ants and he provides for them; he created the fish and he supports them in the ocean. How much more is he going to provide for you, having said you are his best creation, and that you are created in his very image and, therefore, dear to His heart? Do not worry then; instead, submit your petition to God in prayer.

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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