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Why Giving Your Child A Gap Year After High School Makes Sense

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The move from school to university is one of the biggest turning points in a young person’s life. Taking a year to pause, rest and explore could help your child make decisions with clarity and confidence.

You have watched your child move through years of assignments, early mornings and national exams. Now on the brink of making choices that will shape the rest of their lives. The decision of what course to pursue in university is as big as it sounds, and it deserves the space to be thought through.

This is where a gap year comes in. Instead of rushing straight from high school to campus, a short pause allows young people to rest, breathe, and experience the world around them before locking themselves into a career path.

Why a gap year matters today

The CBC has placed more emphasis on specialisation earlier than the old 8-4-4 system. That means students are pushed to think about careers much sooner. Yet many teenagers are still figuring out who they are and what excites them. A gap year gives them time to bridge that gap-between what they think they should pursue and what truly fits.

What makes the year count

A gap year does not mean doing nothing. Done well, it becomes a period of growth and direction.

  • Rest and reset: After years of schooling, your child may be mentally drained. A season of structured rest helps them recover and return stronger.

  • Testing interests: Short internships, attachments or volunteer roles in areas like health, media or technology let them try fields without a lifelong commitment.

  • Practical skills: A short computer course, financial literacy class or even cooking lessons add skills they will carry into adulthood.

  • Perspective: Travelling to another county, working with a community project, or engaging in farm work can expose them to opportunities they had never considered.

  • Building a portfolio: From writing reflections to creating a small project, they come out with evidence of initiative, something future universities or employers value.

The parent’s role

Parents often feel the urge to guide every decision. You have walked closely with your child all their life. But at this stage, support works better than control. Ask them questions. Let them outline their interests. Help them set a budget and a timeline for the year. Be present, but allow them to lead.

Think of the gap year as a rehearsal space. It is safer to experiment now than to spend two years in a degree they regret because it was the path you strongly recommended.

Concerns parents raise

  • Losing momentum: Many worry that a year away from textbooks might dull academic focus. Yet research shows students who take a gap year often return more motivated and do better in class.

  • Time wasted: It is better to spend twelve months reflecting than to realise halfway through a degree that it was the wrong choice.

  • Cost: A gap year does not have to mean expensive travel abroad. Local internships, family projects, community volunteering or online courses offer plenty of growth.

  • University placement: Check deferral rules early. Most institutions allow students to hold their place for a year if the request is made formally.

Making it practical

  • List together three things your child wants to explore.

  • Identify local organisations, companies or mentors who can offer short-term opportunities.

  • Create a flexible plan—rest, learning, exposure, then course decisions towards the end.

  • Keep university paperwork in order to avoid surprises when it is time to return.

The move from high school into university is too significant to be rushed. A gap year is not a wasted year, it can be the year that shapes the rest of your child’s path. Give them room to breathe, to see more of life, and to make choices they will not regret two years into a course they never wanted.

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Heartbreak as Body of 12-Year-Old Blessed Claire Muthoni Arrives Home from India

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Kenyans are mourning the loss of Blessed Claire Muthoni, a brave 12-year-old girl from Kihuri in Othaya, Nyeri County, who passed away while undergoing specialised cancer treatment in New Delhi. Claire had been fighting stage 4 cancer for over three years.

The aggressive disease took a heavy toll on her young body, eventually leading to the amputation of one of her legs. Despite the pain and the many challenges she faced, Claire remained hopeful and courageous throughout her journey, inspiring many who followed her story.

On January 19, 2026, she travelled to India with her mother in search of advanced treatment aimed at saving her remaining leg and managing the cancer that had spread to her lungs. The journey was filled with hope, supported by Kenyans from all walks of life who contributed towards her treatment and kept her in their prayers.

A brave fight

While in India, Claire underwent several chemotherapy sessions. Unfortunately, her condition worsened after developing complications, leading to her admission to the Intensive Care Unit. She passed away in hospital last week, leaving behind a grieving family and a nation that had stood with her.

On Monday, March 30, 2026, her remains arrived at Jomo Kenyatta International Airport. The atmosphere at the airport was filled with grief as family members, friends and well-wishers gathered to receive her. Her mother returned home alone, carrying a loss no parent should have to endure.

Claire will be laid to rest in her home area of Othaya in the coming days, as her family begins the difficult process of saying their final goodbyes.

Her story touched thousands across the country, many of whom followed her journey through updates and fundraising efforts. She became a symbol of strength and resilience, and her passing has deeply affected those who had hoped to see her recover.

Beyond the grief, her story has once again brought attention to the challenges families face when dealing with childhood cancer in Kenya. The high cost of specialised treatment, limited access to advanced care locally, and the emotional and financial strain on families often force many to seek treatment abroad.

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Heartbreak as Body of 12-Year-Old Blessed Claire Muthoni Arrives Home from India

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March 31, 2026

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Kenyans are mourning the loss of Blessed Claire Muthoni, a brave 12-year-old girl from Kihuri in Othaya, Nyeri County, who passed away while undergoing specialised cancer treatment in New Delhi. Claire had been fighting stage 4 cancer for over three years.

The aggressive disease took a heavy toll on her young body, eventually leading to the amputation of one of her legs. Despite the pain and the many challenges she faced, Claire remained hopeful and courageous throughout her journey, inspiring many who followed her story.

On January 19, 2026, she travelled to India with her mother in search of advanced treatment aimed at saving her remaining leg and managing the cancer that had spread to her lungs. The journey was filled with hope, supported by Kenyans from all walks of life who contributed towards her treatment and kept her in their prayers.

A brave fight

While in India, Claire underwent several chemotherapy sessions. Unfortunately, her condition worsened after developing complications, leading to her admission to the Intensive Care Unit. She passed away in hospital last week, leaving behind a grieving family and a nation that had stood with her.

On Monday, March 30, 2026, her remains arrived at Jomo Kenyatta International Airport. The atmosphere at the airport was filled with grief as family members, friends and well-wishers gathered to receive her. Her mother returned home alone, carrying a loss no parent should have to endure.

Claire will be laid to rest in her home area of Othaya in the coming days, as her family begins the difficult process of saying their final goodbyes.

Her story touched thousands across the country, many of whom followed her journey through updates and fundraising efforts. She became a symbol of strength and resilience, and her passing has deeply affected those who had hoped to see her recover.

Beyond the grief, her story has once again brought attention to the challenges families face when dealing with childhood cancer in Kenya. The high cost of specialised treatment, limited access to advanced care locally, and the emotional and financial strain on families often force many to seek treatment abroad.

Read our March issue here 

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Shock as Section of Gikomba Shoe Market Demolished Overnight

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March 31, 2026

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Traders at Nairobi’s bustling Gikomba Market are counting heavy losses after a section of the popular shoe market (mitumba shoe section) was demolished overnight by Nairobi City County enforcement teams. The operation took place in the early hours of Tuesday morning.

Videos and photos circulating on social media show destroyed merchandise and devastated traders who arrived at the market this morning to find their businesses in ruins. According to reports, the county government carried out the demolition after an eviction notice lapsed. This happened even though the High Court (Environment and Land Court) had earlier issued and extended conservatory orders in March 2026, halting mass demolitions and evictions at Gikomba and surrounding areas along the Nairobi River.

Repeated demolitions

Demolitions at Gikomba are not new. As far back as 1977, the original market was brought down by the government to pave the way for light industries. In recent years, attention has shifted to the riparian land along the Nairobi River, with authorities proposing to expand the buffer zone from 30 metres to 50 metres in a bid to control flooding.

Many traders have raised concerns over what they describe as poor consultation, shifting relocation plans and the lack of a clear and secure alternative site. There are also growing fears that the process could open the door to land grabbing and cartel involvement.

Impact

For most traders at Gikomba, the market is more than just a place of business. It is their only source of livelihood. Repeated fires and demolitions have created a cycle of uncertainty, financial strain and constant rebuilding. Many small business owners say they struggle to recover after each loss, only to face another setback months later.

Calls for improved fire safety measures, fair relocation plans and meaningful engagement with authorities continue to grow louder. Without long term and sustainable solutions, Gikomba traders will continue to bear the high cost of operating in one of Nairobi’s busiest yet most vulnerable markets.

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