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Why are men more prone to accidents?

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Injuries are a leading cause of death in the world. And it’s you, men, who are far more likely to die as a result of an accident, than women. Men are also prone to violence leading to early death or disability. The statistics don’t stop there. Evidence from several countries around the world shows that compared to a woman, a man is two to five times more likely to be admitted in hospital as a result of an injury.

Accordingly, men are significantly more likely to sustain bone fractures due to cycling and sporting accidents; three to four times more likely to suffer spinal cord injuries leading to greater levels of disability and several times more likely to be injured by machinery.

You don’t have to go far to find the reason why men are likely to participate in risky behaviour – the attitude that men are ‘hardwired’ to be reckless or foolish as part of being male! In other words, you are biologically predisposed to behave recklessly and to risk death. Your willingness to take unnecessary risks cuts your life expectancy by nearly five years shorter than that of women. A more ignored fact is the powerful influence of social pressure and gender expectation when it comes to being male.

Be a man, is a pointed phrase, often offered as a rebuke, which means the same thing worldwide – Be strong. Don’t back down. Show some courage. Thus, for many men, backing down from a challenge is a major problem and this makes them more prone to engage in risky behaviour that sometimes leads to injury or death.

Fortunately, you don’t have to go by the flow; it is possible to avoid these fatalities and casualties. Let’s start with motor vehicle accidents that claim many men’s lives. All it takes is the use of common sense. First, speed kills as most safety road signs hasten to warn. It makes sense to observe speed limits. Second, if you wear your safety belt then observe the speed limit, you’re over the main hurdle of safety.

It may appear over-used but the caution not to drive under the influence of alcohol or any other substances is cardinal to your safety. You could be a long distance truck driver who spends hours on the road or any other driver. You have no excuse of driving when you’re feeling sleepy. Pull up at the next petrol station and nap in your truck or car before resuming driving. It takes only a fraction of a minute or seconds during a sleepy moment to find yourself in a ditch. Worse still, you might not have time to see your final moments on earth.

Flouting traffic rules is a risk not worth taking. You may not make it to your destination. You also need to have your vehicle checked regularly to ensure it’s in good condition at all times.

UNINTENTIONAL INJURIES…

When you’re using a machine, appliance, equipment or a gadget that has the potential to cause accidental injury, practice common sense safety precautions. It pays not to venture into the swimming pool or in an unfamiliar body of water alone. You might just find you need help to avoid drowning when you least expect. Make a point of using safety ladders and wear closed-toe shoes when mowing the lawn.

To avoid accidental injuries, make sure your home has fire extinguishers. Those fuel-burning appliances like gas cookers and kerosene stoves should be inspected annually.

If you’re on medication, make sure you understand clearly how your prescription should be taken as directed by your doctor or pharmacist. It pays to read the label carefully to make sure it doesn’t differ from the verbal instructions your doctor or pharmacist gave you. Also, if you use chemical cleaning products, make sure to keep the working surface well ventilated.

THE BEAUTIFUL WOMAN…

It has been proven that men participate in activities that involve greater physical risks in the presence of an attractive member of the opposite sex. There’s a very real scientific reason for the behaviour. According to a recent study in Australia, the change is triggered by a quick burst of testosterone that causes men to take more chances and throw caution to the wind. This is all part of man’s inherent inner self. He wants to display physical risk-taking as a competitive strategy to outdo other men and win the beautiful woman. It’s an open display of health and vigour that signals strength, fitness, and daring intended to intimidate rivals.

However, this risk-taking can have negative consequences. According to the study, other cases of physical risk-taking that contribute to men’s early mortality, such as dangerous driving and physical aggression, could also be influenced by increase in testosterone brought about by the presence of attractive women.

Well, do you need to pay such a high price to win a fine woman! Be the judge.

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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