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Reflecting on the People who Impacted your Life

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When you look back at the year gone by, it’s often the people who stand out the most. Some walked into your life like a warm breeze, bringing light and laughter, while others may have taught you lessons, even through painful experiences.

Connections shape us, and reflecting on them offers a chance to grow, heal, and celebrate the bonds that matter most.

This reflection isn’t about keeping score; it’s about gratitude, understanding, and intention. Which relationships brought you joy? Which challenged you to be better?

Here’s how you can reflect on the people who impacted your life and carry the lessons forward:

Celebrate the good connections

Think about the people who made your year brighter.

Was it a friend who checked in during your tough days or a colleague who supported your career growth? These connections are treasures.

Take a moment to express gratitude. Send a heartfelt message or make plans to catch up. Relationships thrive when nurtured, so don’t let these moments pass unacknowledged.

Acknowledge the lessons

Not all connections are easy, but even the challenging ones hold value. Maybe you had a falling out with someone you cared about or dealt with a difficult colleague. These experiences can be painful, but they also teach resilience, patience, and the importance of having boundaries.

Instead of holding onto bitterness, focus on the lesson. What did this relationship teach you about yourself? How can you apply that wisdom moving forward?

Recognise your role

Relationships are a two-way street. As you reflect, think about the role you played in these connections.

Were you a good friend, partner, or sibling? Did you offer support, or were there times when you could have done better?

This isn’t about self-criticism but about growth. Identify where you can improve and commit to being more intentional in your relationships.

Reconnect where it matters

Is there someone you drifted apart from this year? Life gets busy, and sometimes, even meaningful connections can fall to the wayside. If the bond is worth saving, take the initiative to reconnect.

It could be as simple as sending a message or scheduling a coffee date. Often, the other person is waiting for the same signal from you.

Let go where necessary

Not every connection is meant to last forever, and that’s okay. Some people are in your life for a season, and holding onto them too tightly can do more harm than good.

Letting go isn’t about anger or blame—it’s about recognising when a relationship no longer serves either party. Release it with grace and move forward with an open heart.

Recommendations for strengthening connections

Practise active listening: Truly hearing someone strengthens trust and understanding.

Show appreciation: A simple thank-you can go a long way in making someone feel valued.

Be present: Whether it’s a conversation or a shared activity, being fully present deepens the bond.

Invest time: Relationships require effort. Prioritise the people who matter to you.

As you reflect on your connections this year, take time to honour the people who impacted your life. Celebrate the joy they brought, learn from the challenges, and carry these insights into the new year.

In the end, it’s the relationships we build and nurture that make life truly meaningful. So, as you step forward, remember to cherish the connections that matter and let go of those that no longer align with your journey.

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Heartbreak as Body of 12-Year-Old Blessed Claire Muthoni Arrives Home from India

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Kenyans are mourning the loss of Blessed Claire Muthoni, a brave 12-year-old girl from Kihuri in Othaya, Nyeri County, who passed away while undergoing specialised cancer treatment in New Delhi. Claire had been fighting stage 4 cancer for over three years.

The aggressive disease took a heavy toll on her young body, eventually leading to the amputation of one of her legs. Despite the pain and the many challenges she faced, Claire remained hopeful and courageous throughout her journey, inspiring many who followed her story.

On January 19, 2026, she travelled to India with her mother in search of advanced treatment aimed at saving her remaining leg and managing the cancer that had spread to her lungs. The journey was filled with hope, supported by Kenyans from all walks of life who contributed towards her treatment and kept her in their prayers.

A brave fight

While in India, Claire underwent several chemotherapy sessions. Unfortunately, her condition worsened after developing complications, leading to her admission to the Intensive Care Unit. She passed away in hospital last week, leaving behind a grieving family and a nation that had stood with her.

On Monday, March 30, 2026, her remains arrived at Jomo Kenyatta International Airport. The atmosphere at the airport was filled with grief as family members, friends and well-wishers gathered to receive her. Her mother returned home alone, carrying a loss no parent should have to endure.

Claire will be laid to rest in her home area of Othaya in the coming days, as her family begins the difficult process of saying their final goodbyes.

Her story touched thousands across the country, many of whom followed her journey through updates and fundraising efforts. She became a symbol of strength and resilience, and her passing has deeply affected those who had hoped to see her recover.

Beyond the grief, her story has once again brought attention to the challenges families face when dealing with childhood cancer in Kenya. The high cost of specialised treatment, limited access to advanced care locally, and the emotional and financial strain on families often force many to seek treatment abroad.

Read our March issue here 

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Heartbreak as Body of 12-Year-Old Blessed Claire Muthoni Arrives Home from India

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Kenyans are mourning the loss of Blessed Claire Muthoni, a brave 12-year-old girl from Kihuri in Othaya, Nyeri County, who passed away while undergoing specialised cancer treatment in New Delhi. Claire had been fighting stage 4 cancer for over three years.

The aggressive disease took a heavy toll on her young body, eventually leading to the amputation of one of her legs. Despite the pain and the many challenges she faced, Claire remained hopeful and courageous throughout her journey, inspiring many who followed her story.

On January 19, 2026, she travelled to India with her mother in search of advanced treatment aimed at saving her remaining leg and managing the cancer that had spread to her lungs. The journey was filled with hope, supported by Kenyans from all walks of life who contributed towards her treatment and kept her in their prayers.

A brave fight

While in India, Claire underwent several chemotherapy sessions. Unfortunately, her condition worsened after developing complications, leading to her admission to the Intensive Care Unit. She passed away in hospital last week, leaving behind a grieving family and a nation that had stood with her.

On Monday, March 30, 2026, her remains arrived at Jomo Kenyatta International Airport. The atmosphere at the airport was filled with grief as family members, friends and well-wishers gathered to receive her. Her mother returned home alone, carrying a loss no parent should have to endure.

Claire will be laid to rest in her home area of Othaya in the coming days, as her family begins the difficult process of saying their final goodbyes.

Her story touched thousands across the country, many of whom followed her journey through updates and fundraising efforts. She became a symbol of strength and resilience, and her passing has deeply affected those who had hoped to see her recover.

Beyond the grief, her story has once again brought attention to the challenges families face when dealing with childhood cancer in Kenya. The high cost of specialised treatment, limited access to advanced care locally, and the emotional and financial strain on families often force many to seek treatment abroad.

Read our March issue here 

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Shock as Section of Gikomba Shoe Market Demolished Overnight

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Traders at Nairobi’s bustling Gikomba Market are counting heavy losses after a section of the popular shoe market (mitumba shoe section) was demolished overnight by Nairobi City County enforcement teams. The operation took place in the early hours of Tuesday morning.

Videos and photos circulating on social media show destroyed merchandise and devastated traders who arrived at the market this morning to find their businesses in ruins. According to reports, the county government carried out the demolition after an eviction notice lapsed. This happened even though the High Court (Environment and Land Court) had earlier issued and extended conservatory orders in March 2026, halting mass demolitions and evictions at Gikomba and surrounding areas along the Nairobi River.

Repeated demolitions

Demolitions at Gikomba are not new. As far back as 1977, the original market was brought down by the government to pave the way for light industries. In recent years, attention has shifted to the riparian land along the Nairobi River, with authorities proposing to expand the buffer zone from 30 metres to 50 metres in a bid to control flooding.

Many traders have raised concerns over what they describe as poor consultation, shifting relocation plans and the lack of a clear and secure alternative site. There are also growing fears that the process could open the door to land grabbing and cartel involvement.

Impact

For most traders at Gikomba, the market is more than just a place of business. It is their only source of livelihood. Repeated fires and demolitions have created a cycle of uncertainty, financial strain and constant rebuilding. Many small business owners say they struggle to recover after each loss, only to face another setback months later.

Calls for improved fire safety measures, fair relocation plans and meaningful engagement with authorities continue to grow louder. Without long term and sustainable solutions, Gikomba traders will continue to bear the high cost of operating in one of Nairobi’s busiest yet most vulnerable markets.

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