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Deuteronomy 28:3-6
“You will be blessed in the city and blessed in the country; the fruit of your womb will be blessed, and the crops of your land and the young of your livestock… Your basket and your kneading trough will be blessed. You will be blessed when you come in and blessed when you go out.”

I have lately been involved in community work: meeting men and women, visiting homes, talking to the youth and so forth. I have learnt a lot by just visiting people’s homes, seeing how they live and work. One thing struck me though; the sheer number of people who live in extreme poverty. People who wake up each day and wonder why they are alive because they have no hope of anything; they don’t know when they will get their next meal or money to take a sick child to hospital. They are always playing hide and seek with the landlord, the shopkeeper and the water vendor, for they do not know when they will next get money. And it is not because of January, no. This is their every day state.

On the other end of the spectrum, is another group of especially men from the same community who are seemingly doing well. They are in business and have a lot of time in their hands. They have an informal group that meets at a local joint every day to drink beer among other things. There are those who make it to the joint daily and those who visit three or more times a week. But on every sitting, they don’t spend less than Ksh1000 each. The better off buy meat and rounds of alcohol for others. It’s one jolly party.

The most striking thing about the first group – mostly comprising single mothers – is that many of them are born-again Christians.

They pray for God’s intervention every day, they fast and pray without ceasing, but nothing good seems to come out of their supplications. And while they are praying and attending church service, the second group of men is “eating the fruit of their labour” with abandon. And even as they are eating, their businesses are creating more money and wealth for them. They don’t go to church unless there is a harambee or a friend’s wedding or funeral service. They can’t remember when last they prayed out of their own free will. They usually come across prayers when they are at a function and the master of ceremony asks the members to “begin with a word or prayer.”

And the question that bogs me down is; why are God’s children living in squalor while those who do not even keep the “Sabbath holy” are living in plenty? Where are the blessings of God that come upon those who call upon Him, those who deny themselves for the sake of the kingdom? Where is their portion?

Hear this from Deuteronomy 28:1: “If you fully obey the Lord your God and carefully follow all His commands… the Lord your God will set you high above the nations on earth.”

Could it be that these people give God lip service? That they do not obey Him? For the promises of God are clear if you obey him. Deuteronomy 28:3-6 says; “You will be blessed in the city and blessed in the country; the fruit of your womb will be blessed, and the crops of your land and the young of your livestock… Your basket and your kneading trough will be blessed. You will be blessed when you come in and blessed when you go out.”

In the same chapter, consequences of not obeying the Lord have been spelt out. Deuteronomy 28:15 says; “However, if you do not obey the Lord your God and do not carefully follow all his commands and decrees, all these curses will come upon you and overtake you.”

Are Christians disobeying God to the point where the fruits of their wombs are cursed? Until their basket and kneading trough are cursed? For it is one thing to go to church and fast for forty days and another thing to truly live as God intends us to live.

And God intends us to obey him by working on the earth, not sitting in the house the whole day gossiping about the pastor, the church choir, and so on and so forth. If you find pleasure begging, complaining how things are hard for you instead of solving them, God can never be pleased with you no matter how hard you worship him. Many people (I have concluded from my interactions with the said community) are poor not because they cannot make it, but because they find pleasure in displaying their poverty; they will spend 30 minutes telling you how bad things are and ask you for help, but not a single minute to ask you for a job.

Isn’t it any wonder then that a lot of Christians are living like children of a poor God? Unlike the children of the Father who made the universe – the sea and sea creatures, the dry earth and its creatures, the gold and copper and diamonds – by his word. It is because too many Christians are praying and not working; they are seeking for pity and not employment.

Hope you resolve this year to truly obey God “…through painful toil…” (Gen 3: 17). For that is the only way man, after the fall of Adam and Eve, can regain his stewardship of the universe.

Published in February 2016

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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