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KEVIN GITHINJI: The brave little boy fighting cancer

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Nine-year-old Kevin Githinji is a jovial and active boy. He wears a woolen cap at home and in school to cover his baldhead – a side effect of the cancer treatment he is undergoing. His classmates often tease him, some forcefully removing the cap and laughing at his baldhead. Kevin has learnt to laugh it off and humorously says he is as unique as detective Kojak in the popular TV series. Kevin has learnt to cope with his disease, thanks to his doting family. His father, Joseph Runyora, narrates to MWAURA MUIGANA their struggles in search of a cure for their ailing son.

Kevin Githinji is the darling of his family. His parents, Joseph Runyora and Esther Njeri, admit they dot on him so much that initially they were apprehensive his siblings Edwin Kaniaru, Jane Wamuyu and the last-born Erick Muhoro would be jealous. Luckily, they equally dot on him and understand why their parents focus a lot of attention on Kevin, who requires special care. Sometimes, when Kevin is down and can’t go to school as often happens, his younger brother Erick, refuses to go to nursery school preferring to stay home and take care of Kevin. The two are inseparable.

Kevin was not born with any special needs. His predicament began in June 2012 when he was eight years old and up and about like his other siblings. His mother noticed a swelling on his neck and another one on the leg. She squeezed them expecting the boy to flinch but he didn’t. They were painless. She monitored them for a while hoping they would clear but they didn’t go away. Gradually Kevin lost appetite and at times couldn’t swallow solids.

This worried his parents who took him to the nearby Kiamariga Emmanuel Hospital in Nyeri for a check-up. After examination they were referred to Karatina District Hospital, where a chest X-ray and blood tests were done. The doctor recommended a biopsy (removal of a sample of tissue or cells so that they can be examined under a microscope for signs and extent of disease) from the swellings. It would cost them Kshs 6,000, money that they couldn’t afford at the time.

“We are peasant farmers with less than a quarter acre piece of land and we had recently spent Ksh 80,000 raised through a harambee to enroll our daughter, Jane Wamuyu, at Ngandu Girls in Nyeri country. Friends and relatives discouraged us from having the biopsy done using all kinds of scary myths and old wives’ tales. One parent told us her son died six months after undergoing a biopsy. Though we got the money for the procedure to be carried out, we put it on hold as we didn’t want to lose our son,” says Joseph.

The swellings would at times subside, giving the couple false hopes they would clear, and then flare up again. By November 2012, in addition to the swellings, Kevin experienced muscle and joint pains, often finding it difficult to walk. This interfered with his regular school attendance. Swallowing food became a problem and he could only feed on liquids. He was also became quite selective on what he ate, dropping out all his favourite foods. He lost weight drastically.

On December 29, 2012, Kevin developed a high fever and his father consulted a doctor friend at the Embu Provincial Hospital. He was advised to take his son to the hospital for examination. Several tests were conducted including an X-ray and an ultra sound scan of the swellings. Kevin was diagnosed with anaemia and put on drugs but the doctor still wanted a biopsy from the swellings. This time, Joseph called his relatives and friends for financial assistance and the biopsy was performed.

When the results were out, Kevin was diagnosed with Hodgkin’s lymphoma. The doctor didn’t tell the family what it was and instead referred them to a specialist at a clinic at the Kenyatta National Hospital’s Doctors’ Plaza. After analysing the results the specialist indicated that Kevin required treatment for six months. This would cost them Ksh 400,000. He also referred them to the Aga Khan University Hospital for another test.

“At the time I only had Ksh 300 on me for our bus fare back home. The specialist had prescribed a certain drug that cost Ksh 900 and again I called relatives to send me money and bought the drug in a chemist shop. The figure of Ksh 400,000 mentioned by the doctor as the cost of treatment felt like a death warrant for my son since I could not raise that kind of money. And so I held Kevin’s hand and trudged to the bus stop to take a matatu home,” Joseph relives the psychological and financial challenges he faced.

Joseph and his wife borrowed money severally from the women groups where his wife was a member, until they couldn’t be advanced any more. With medication, the swellings cleared and Kevin’s appetite was back to normal. However the swelling around the neck recurred and Joseph sought assistance from friends and relatives to raise Ksh16,500 to take him to the Aga Khan University Hospital for the test earlier recommended by the specialist. The test re-confirmed the Hodgkin’s lymphoma diagnosis and since none of the doctors clearly explained what it was, Joseph turned to the Internet from where he learnt it was a rare type of cancer.

“I didn’t know much about cancer at the time but I just couldn’t sit around and watch my son die. I planned to seek for cheaper medical treatment from public hospitals but at around that time, the doctor from KNH called me to plan for Kevin’s treatment after receiving the results from the Agha Khan Hospital. I didn’t even have bus fare to travel to Nairobi and told the doctor as much. Realising my predicament, she connected us with Cancer Care Kenya that runs Faraja Cancer Support project,” recalls Joseph.

A cancer specialist at the institution examined an emaciated Kevin who weighed only 24 kg at the time. Further blood tests, X-ray and an ultra sound scan needed to be done at the MP Shah Hospital before treatment could begin. The cost of Ksh 13,500 for these tests was another major hurdle.

“My daughter had been sent home to collect a school fees balance and here I was expected also to raise money for my son’s tests. As a born-again-Christian and a church elder, I could only hang on the hope that God would come through for us. The school allowed my daughter back on the promise I would pay later. I was able to raise Ksh 6,000 from family and friends to get the tests started and the doctor at Cancer Care Kenya scheduled to start treatment immediately after he noticed how sickly Kevin was. God had come through for us,” recalls Joseph.

The treatment plan included eight chemotherapy sessions followed by six radiotherapy sessions. The total cost of treatment would be Ksh 270,000. Joseph and his wife asked a friend to house them in Nairobi’s Embakasi estate to be close to their son as he underwent treatment.

Joseph stayed in Nairobi for a few days and left his wife to take care of their son while he returned to Nyeri to take care of the other children and also do casual work to raise money for the escalating hospital bills and also feed the family. After the first three sessions Kevin was scheduled for a session every two weeks for four months and this eased the family’s travel burden a little.

Joseph says they were lucky to get their son’s chemotherapy treatment sponsored by the Faraja Cancer Support at a cost of Ksh 25,000 per session. With treatment, Kevin’s appetite started to improve although he had a hard time after each chemotherapy session, as he often got sick with nausea. His hair started falling off and skin colour also changed to black charcoal soon after he started treatment. The chemotherapy sessions are now over and he is now undergoing radiotherapy.

“Faraja has become another home for Kevin and I wish there were more such institutions to assist cancer victims who are not financially endowed. I also wish such institutions could be more supported by the government, corporate organisations, NGOs and individuals. I recall when Kevin was diagnosed with cancer, we thought how would die and were distressed about it. It didn’t help that we had many financial challenges and my wife and I often quarreled and blamed each other. However, when we began to re-look at our relationship with a sober mind, we realised we had to work in harmony for the sake of our son, our relationship and our other children. We are happy that God continues to answer our prayers and we cannot thank the cancer center for making our son’s treatment possible,” says Joseph.

“With prayers and understanding, we’ve now grown even closer as a family. Failure to support each other especially when faced with such a crisis can be disastrous not just for the couple but also the ailing child. I thank God because my wife is calm even in times of crisis hence more reasonable and balanced. The doctors now say Kevin is doing fine and we have very high hopes that he will soon be okay,” concludes Joseph.

What is Hodgkin’s lymphoma?

This is a type of cancer of the lymphatic system. The lymphatic system is part of the immune system and includes lymph vessels that branch into all the tissues of the body. Lymph vessels carry lymph fluid that contains white blood cells. The lymphatic system also includes lymph nodes – small, round masses of tissue that are found in the neck, underarms, chest, abdomen and groin, that store white blood cells and trap and remove bacteria or other harmful substances that may be in the lymph.

Because the lymphatic tissue is in many parts of the body, Hodgkin lymphoma can start almost anywhere. Usually, it’s first found in a lymph node above the diaphragm, the thin muscle that separates the chest from the abdomen. Hodgkin lymphoma begins when a lymphocyte (usually a B cell) becomes abnormal. A person with Hodgkin lymphoma usually has large, abnormal cells known as Reed-Sternberg cells.

The most common symptom of Hodgkin’s lymphoma is a painless swelling in the lymph nodes in the neck, underarm, or groin. Other symptoms include fever, night sweats, fatigue, itching or weakness. Among the risk factors is a weakened immune system, HIV infection and a family history of the disease.

Treatment includes radiation therapy and/or chemotherapy. Chemotherapy uses drugs to kill lymphoma cells. The drugs travel through the bloodstream and can reach lymphoma cells in almost all parts of the body. Radiation therapy (also called radiotherapy) uses high-energy rays to kill lymphoma cells. It can shrink tumors and help control pain.

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

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Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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