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John Hirbo Aftiyes Using religion to change lives

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John Hirbo Aftiyes, 43, was born in a devout Muslim family with his father being a sheikh (Islamic scholar). However, a miraculous healing saw him convert to Christianity. Today Hirbo is a pastor and is using this calling to do humanitarian work in Marsabit County where he works as the Marsabit County Program Director for Partners for Care a non-governmental organization. He shared his captivating story with HENRY KAHARA

When John Hirbo Aftiyes converted from Islam to Christianity, his family members renounced him. According to Hirbo he has tasted Christianity and not even his family’s drastic move would make him rescind his decision. Hirbo first heard about Christianity at the age of six.

“I had an accident when I was six years old, which led to paralysis of my lower limbs. I couldn’t stand let alone move. My parents were worried. My father shared my predicament with a missionary who was based in Marsabit. The missionary prayed for me and I miraculously got healed,” narrates Hirbo.

It was a profound experience for young Hirbo and desired to know more about the missionary’s religion, which was different from his. The missionary became a newfound friend for Hirbo and followed him wherever he went. He would keenly listen to him as he preached the gospel of Christ and Hirbo was soon convinced he wanted to be a Christian. His friendship with the missionary did not go to naught as he was also enrolled in school, something that his siblings missed out on.

Meanwhile, his folks thought his change of religion was a childhood obsession that would soon go away. After finishing his secondary education, Hirbo continued holding on to the Christian faith and this worried his parents. They asked him to revert to Islam but he refused.

This saw them renounce him. “Deep inside my heart, I felt I had a calling to serve as a pastor and renouncing Christianity was not an option. It was either my family accepted me with my Christianity or we part ways. It wasn’t an easy decision to arrive at but my mind was made up and my heart was at peace. That was all the nudging I needed to walk out of a place I called home,” he says.

To satisfy that burning fire in him for pastor hood, he enrolled at a Bible school and thereafter opened Bethsaida International Church in Marsabit. It is here that Hirbo has thrived not only in pastoral duties, but also reaching out to the communities in Marsabit. Together with his wife who is also an employee of Partners for Care, Hirbo has helped over 100 orphans.

“It’s our duty to ensure that orphans and widows are well taken care of. The book of James in the Bible defines a pure and undefiled religion as one that cares for the orphans and widows who are suffering and we are simply following these instructions,” he notes.

Furthermore, Hirbo has planted more than 16 churches while spreading the gospel to both Muslims and Christians alike. In the process, he has seen many Muslims convert to Christianity.

During his outreach missions, he realised that many Marsabit residents, especially those that live in remote areas, were infested with jiggers. So much so that many children had impaired toes and fingers, making it difficult for them to walk or use their hands.

“We had more than 10 villages infested with jiggers, with women and children being the most affected,” he notes.

Currently Hirbo together with some of his followers are in the process of eradicating jigger menace.

“We are teaching residents how to maintain cleanliness in their manyattas as this will help to keep jiggers and other diseases at bay. Everyone deserves a good life,” he points out.

Hirbo also acknowledges that illiteracy has held many residents from his home county captive hence denying them the chance of realizing their full potential. He points out illiteracy as the main reason why residents are still wallowing in poverty.

“It’s unfortunate that locals still treat children like wealth hence the more the better, yet this is retrogressive thinking. It’s normal to find a woman with more than 12 children and the family is unable to provide basic needs to them, not to mention education,” says the father of six.

Need for education…

Having been privileged to taste education and enjoy its fruits, Hirbo knows only too well it is what his people need to get out of the challenges afflicting them.

“Education is important in life because it gives people the skills and tools they need to navigate the world. The world is changing and we cannot allow ourselves to be stuck in our old ways in the name of culture,” he posits.

Hirbo clarifies that his main concern is not the certificates that comes with education but the change in perception and thinking that one gets.

“Education also allows one to interact with other people outside one’s locale. Once they start associating with people from different communities, their eyes will open up,” observes Hirbo.

The Samburu and Rendille, are majorly nomadic pastoralists, dominate Marsabit County. This makes it hard for their children to get education and therefore the cycle goes on and on. To address this, Hirbo has started evening classes for morans (young men aged between 15 to 30 years) which start at 8pm and end at 10pm. Currently, we have 42 morans who turn up for the classes,” he says.

According to Partners for Care President/Founder, Connie Cheren, it’s risky for the community not to get educated.

“They will be disadvantaged. Access to education means more opportunities and a better life,” notes Connie.

Hirbo remarks that although he has put a spirited effort to enlighten residents, the project is faced with a pile of challenges.

“We only have one teacher. It would really help if we got more teachers so that we can be able to start day time classes to include girls and women in the programme,” he notes, adding that a woman’s duty in the community is to rear and raise children and look after the family, something that needs to change.

Besides shortage of teaching staff, the programme also grapples with lack of space, books and reliable power for lighting. When they are lucky, the get to use community halls for studies while using rechargeable torches to illuminate the room. It becomes even harder during the dry season as thousands of residents reel in famine. Education is thus put in the back burner as search for food, water and pasture for livestock takes centre stage.

In light of the above challenges, Hirbo believes that lifestyle change is key in breaking the perennial cycle of hardship facing his people.

The Partners for Care vision is to see every child to have the opportunity to live, have enough food to eat, attend school and grow up healthy.

“Educating the residents of Marsabit County and other arid and semi arid regions is a wise investment, as this will help them look for alternative economic activities. With the climate change and what have you, pastoralism that depends on the weather is not sustainable. This explains the perennial unrest in parts of the country that practice pastoralism,” he concludes.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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