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HOW TO HAVE A BEAUTIFUL WEDDING On a shoe-string budget

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We get it: weddings are expensive and the cost keeps skyrocketing. The trend has seen people either putting the wedding on hold and instead co-habiting or taking a loan to finance it, which is not a good idea. But it doesn’t have to cost an arm and a leg; here’s how you can a have beautiful wedding on a shoestring budget.

Think off-season: In Kenya, April, August and December are the preferred months for weddings. As a result, the cost of provisions goes up due to demand. If you are looking at a budget wedding, go for the other months, as it is way cheaper. Also, choosing a day to get married other than Saturday can drastically reduce your cost. For example, you can cut the cost of reception venue by up to half if you do the wedding on a Friday or Sunday, and even more on a Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday or Thursday. Of course, fewer guests will attend the wedding if you pick a weekday, which will help keep costs even further down.

Have your wedding and reception at the same venue: Instead of hiring different venues for church service and reception, it is beneficial in many ways to do both in one spot. Not only will you be able to negotiate for a better price, but also reduce transportation cost.

Create ‘wants’ and ‘needs’ list: Separate your wants from your needs. The needs list consists of the items you cannot do without, for instance, affordable venue and caterers, while the wants are the items you can do without. For tents, chairs and tables, there are different packages to suit one’s pockets. For instance, you can opt for theatre style of seat arrangement as opposed to restaurant (seats round a table), which is more expensive.

Make it simple: An elegant wedding requires money. If you are working with a tight budget, go for simplicity; it always works. Reduce the cost of décor by using hooks and pompom balls instead of pillars and flowers; for catering, make the menu as simple as it can be.

Plan your own wedding: Don’t leave the planning to the committee or wedding planner. Yes, it is a lot of work but it is also a huge cost saver and incredibly rewarding if you are involved. Planning the wedding yourself allows you to shop for affordable service providers.

Opt for affordable wedding attire and jewellery: You do not have to buy a wedding gown or suit, as you can hire or get a good tailor who can do the job hence saving you a lot of money. Also purchasing the wedding attire at discounted rates will save you cash. For jewellery, you don’t need an 18-carat gold ring if you don’t have the finances; there are cheap, beautiful rings available. After all, you can always get the ring of your dreams when you don’t have honeymoon, food or décor to think about.

When people offer to help, let them: Don’t be afraid to take or ask for help. For instance, if you have a friend who can bake a cake or do photography at a cheaper rate or for free, let them do it provided they offer quality services. Get cars from friends instead of hiring. At the same time, you can ask friends and family members to help during the big day by taking responsibilities such as ushering.

Limit your wedding guest list: This is the hardest decision to make but also the most crucial because majority of your total expenses are dependent on it. You need to limit your guest list in order to have an affordable wedding.

Get second hand items: You can loan/borrow some of the things you need in your wedding from a friend who got married recently.

Finally, as you plan to walk down the aisle, make sure the expenses for your big day don’t outweigh your budget. You have a whole life ahead of you, whereas a wedding is a-few-hours affair. Plan wisely.

May 2016

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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