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How Can I Identify a Good Pre-school?

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My child just turned three and I am thinking of putting him in a playschool. With daycare and pre-schools mushrooming everywhere and curriculum options growing and varying everyday, how can one identify a good preschool from a bogus one?

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A teacher is sitting on the floor with her preschoolers and day care students – they are playing with plastic blocks together.

Choosing your child’s playschool (pre-school) should not be a random exercise. A good learning foundation can make or break your child’s attitude towards education in the future and setting a good precedent will go a long way in setting the tone to a positive life-long learning experience. A good pre-school should teach your child to explore and develop their sensory, social and motor skills. This is what you should look out for:

Safety and health measures: 

According to kindergarten teacher Janet Nzilani, a dirty school should be a red flag to the school’s low standards. Apart from high standards of cleanliness, clear and concise health and safety measures should be in place as well. “A good school should have a plan on how to handle injuries or emergencies. Do they work with a particular hospital? Are they prepared for any safety hazards such as fires? Are they well lit, ventilated and with clearly marked exit points in case of danger?” poses Nzilani. Parents should also ensure that feeding areas are clean and far away from rubbish piles, stagnant water or bathrooms.

Are the minders well trained?

Trained early childhood teachers are your best bet in getting not only high quality programmes, but also great learning experiences for your children. Inquire what level of training the teachers have, ongoing training opportunities, and if any are trained on first aid, child abuse detection and positive guidance techniques. Children should also be under adult supervision at all times.

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Learning programmes:

The whole idea of playgroup is to allow children to develop their skills through exploration, investigation and experience. This helps them to create, think and plan. According to Nzilani, a good school should not only have adequate and well designated play areas and times, but should also afford your child the opportunity to develop and practice tasks for daily living such as setting and clearing the table, feeding themselves and so on.

Work sheets, though not bad, should be minimal unless it is an art project such as colouring, painting and so on. Steer clear of a curriculum that concentrates on drills and practice skills. Ask about the discipline methods as well. Positive behavioural re-direction or positive reinforcement not only encourages children to try again, but also builds their confidence and self esteem.

Group size and child to staff ratio:

Ample individual attention for students by teachers is the hallmark of a good school. A good school should also take the cognitive skills of the child into consideration. Children experiencing a hard time adapting or blending in should not be ignored. Once you have enrolled your child, watch his body language when going to school. Is he excited or bored? Cranky or terrified? Be keen as to how they also react to their teachers when you drop them off. A safe, loving, stimulating environment is important.

A teacher is sitting on the floor with her preschoolers and day care students – they are playing with plastic blocks together.

Room for guardian participation:

Regardless of the fact that your child is now spending some hours away from you, you are still their primary guardian; not the teachers. That means aside from basic needs such as paying school fees and buying provisions, you have to actively participate in their learning process. A good, open and working relationship with your child’s teacher is important. Find out to what extent you can be involved in the curriculum or programmes such as chaperoning during trips.

If you are interested in a popular school, inquiring about the admission process early enough is recommended. Consider other basics such as your budget and the proximity of the school to your home and flexibility in terms of how early or late your child can be dropped or picked from school.

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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