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Head Butler at Hemingways Nairobi – SHEILA TONUI

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It’s a chilly Wednesday morning as my team and I make our way to Hemingways Nairobi for this interview. Located at the heart of Karen, Nairobi, the hotel’s serene ambience is complemented by the trees that surround it. As we walk towards the reception area, the spacious hallway with different designs of furniture reek of class and luxury. From a distance, I could see Sheila Tonui waiting on us with a warm smile

As the head butler at the Hemingways, Sheila’s job entails ensuring that the guests’ expectations are met and exceeded from the moment they check in to the moment they check out. Hemingways is one of the very few hotels in Kenya that offer butler services to its guests.

Her Work

“A hotel butler looks after the needs of guests within and without their room. Inside the room, a butler offers the guest an orientation of the guest room and facilitate garment pressing, shoe shine service, in-room dining, complimentary coffee or tea with wake up call, as well as packing and unpacking service and sometimes iron their clothes. Services are discreet and personalised. It is thus a very critical component of a hotel,” Sheila says.

Sheila also trains the butlers to ensure they are familiar with all the hotel services. Being the head butler, leading a team of 15, she works closely with other departments to make certain that the Hemingways butler service is a cut above the rest and an unforgettable experience.

“Once I check in for work, I check with my team of butlers about the previous evening’s arrivals as well as check-ins and check-outs for the day. We also update ourselves on the events scheduled in the hotel. I get informed of the guests we are expecting and their time of arrival. I also seek to know of any special occasions such as birthday/ anniversary/ honeymoon celebrations and so on. I then plan with my team on how best to make their stay at the hotel comfortable,” she explains.

She then works with the different departments within the hotel to ensure they meet their clients’ needs. For Sheila, teamwork is important. She works closely with the kitchen department to ensure the guests’ dietary needs are well taken care of. She is also keen on working hand-in-hand with the house keeping department, who ensure that the rooms are ready before the guests arrive. “I usually supervise and make sure that the rooms are up to standard,” says the 28-year-old who has worked at Hemingways for five years.

“After completing my college studies in hospitality, I interned at the Nairobi Serena Hotel as a management trainee for a period of six months. I thereafter applied for the butler position at Hemingway’s,” she expounds.

Sheila joined the hotel as a butler after undertaking a butler service course at the Novusluxus R Hospitality Ltd in the UK and has since worked her way to the top.

“As the head of butler department, the comfort of our guests lies squarely on my shoulders. I have gotten a lot of exposure courtesy of the position as I get to meet new people daily. My leadership skills have also been molded and I am a more effective leader. Being a leader also means I have to train people a lot, therefore I have to do a lot of research in order to equip those in my department with the current trends in the industry,” Sheila explains.

Like any other profession, Sheila experiences challenges as well. “Different clients have different needs. Some may exceed what was expected but I have learnt to ensure that they are met regardless by going out of my way to execute – no request is too much,” she elaborates.
Sheila desires to keep growing. “In the next five years, I see myself as a general manager or in a senior position in the hospitality industry,” she says.

Her advice to people who would like to join the industry is: “The hospitality industry is very dynamic and rewarding. Many people narrow it down only to food and beverage but there is the accommodation, entertainment and recreational side as well. So, with the right training, attitude commitment and passion, there is room for everyone.”

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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