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God is not a Christian!

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Before you call me blasphemous and prepare to cast the first stone, these are not my words. This is the title of a book I am currently reading by South African Nobel Peace Laureate Desmond Tutu.  God is not a Christian – Speaking truth in times of crisis is a compilation of speeches made over the past 40 years by the fearless Archbishop Desmond Tutu, the first black Archbishop of Cape Town. He was awarded the Nobel Peace Prize for his leadership role in the South African anti-apartheid struggle. Desmond Tutu is one of the world’s most prominent advocates of faith-based social justice and religious tolerance, a man who does not shy from speaking his mind and has a fierce and uncompromising determination to tell the truth as he sees it.

This book has inspired me to pen this column this month at a time when I am reflecting on the birth of Jesus Christ and the Christian faith, which I subscribe to as a believer, and the turmoil the world and our country continues to experience, some arising from religious beliefs. I have heard it repeated several times from the pulpit that unless you are a born-again Christian, you would not enter heaven, nor see the face of God. I also know of Christians whose sole mission is to convert Muslims, Hindus, Buddhists and people of other faiths to Christianity, condemning those who do not renounce their faith and become Christians to eternal fire. I never enter into faith-based arguments and will not attempt to in this article, but instead will share Desmond Tutu’s words of wisdom from his book.

Desmond Tutu advocates for tolerance and respect of people’s faith, arguing that God is not a Christian. His first argument is that the accidents of birth and geography determine, to a very large extent, to what faith we belong. He says, “The chances are very great that if you were born in Pakistan you are a Muslim, or a Hindu if you happened to be born in India, or a Shintoism if it is Japan, and a Christian if you were born in Italy.”

His second point is not to insult the adherents of other faiths by suggesting, as sometimes has happened, that for instance when you are a Christian the adherents of other faiths are really Christians without knowing it. “We must acknowledge them (people of other faiths) for who they are in all their integrity, with their conscientiously held beliefs; we must welcome them and respect them as who they are and walk reverently on what is their holy ground, taking off our shoes, metaphorically and literally,” says Desmond Tutu in a speech he delivered during a mission to the city of Birmingham, England in 1989.

He continues to say that we must hold our particular and peculiar beliefs tenaciously, not pretending that all religions are the same, for they are patently not the same, and be ready to learn from one another, not claiming that we alone possess all truth and that somehow we have a corner on God.

Desmond Tutu reminds all Christians that God created us all, not just Christians, in his image, thus investing us all with infinite worth. He reminds us all that the eternal word enlightens everyone, not just Christians, but everyone who comes into the world; that what we call the Spirit of God is not a Christian preserve, for the Spirit of God existed long before there were Christians, inspiring and nurturing women and men in the ways of holiness, bringing them to fruition, and bringing to fruition what was best in all.

He says as a Christian you would be doing scant justice and honour to our God if you, for instance, deny that Mahatma Gandhi was a truly great soul, a holy man who walked closely with God. He says the Christian God would be too small if he was not also the God of Gandhi; “If God is one, as we believe, then he is the only God of all his people, whether they acknowledge him as such or not.”

Desmond Tutu is on the side of those who contend that Christianity does not have an exclusive and proprietary claim on God. He is emphatic that God is clearly not a Christian and his concern is for all his children. He says Christians do not have a monopoly on God. “To claim God exclusively for Christians is to make God too small. God is bigger than Christianity. God is not confined to one place, time, and people. He is the God of the entire universe, the God of all,” he says.

He adds that we must not make the mistake of judging other faiths by their least attractive features or adherents. We should deal with other faiths at their best and highest, as they define themselves. It is to do God scant honour to dismiss other religious insights such as those found in Buddhism as delusions. When we do that we bring our faith and the God we claim to be proclaiming in disrepute. He says the Buddhist greeting – “the God in me greets the God in you,” is a greeting Christians could make their own more truly since they believe that every Christian is a tabernacle of the Holy Spirit, God-carrier.

Archbishop Tutu says that to acknowledge that other faiths must be respected and that they obviously proclaim profound religious truths is not the same thing as saying that all faiths are the same because they are patently not the same. He tells Christians that they must proclaim the tenets of their faith honestly, truthfully, and without compromise, and they must assert courteously but unequivocally that they believe that all religious truths and all religious aspirations find their final fulfillment in Jesus Christ. But at the same time they must grant to others the right to command their faith, hoping that the intrinsic attractiveness and ultimate truthfulness of Christianity will be what commends it to others.

 

 

 


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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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