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Forgetfulness during pregnancy: Myth or reality?

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As a woman’s body undergoes physical changes during pregnancy, there are certain psychological changes that one may also begin to notice such as memory loss, which can be a daunting experience. Find out more about memory loss during pregnancy also known as pregnancy brain and how you can beat it.

If you are pregnant, you may have, on a few occasions, entered a room and forgot why you went there in the first place or found it hard to focus at times. Naturally, it is likely to drive you nuts wondering why your brain feels a little foggier than you are used to. However, this is quite common during pregnancy and it certainly affects how mentally sharp you feel in what has come to be known as ‘mumnesia’, ‘baby brain’ or ‘pregnancy brain’.

Pregnancy brain is a term used to refer to the forgetfulness or momentary loss of focus, which many women go through during pregnancy. Although this can get frustrating, pregnancy brain, thankfully, does not affect well-practiced memory tasks. Simply put, it tends to affect your short-term memory, for instance, forgetting where you left your keys.

Like with many other pregnancy-related conditions, pregnancy brain is also thought to be as a result of the flood of hormones, which trigger both psychological and physiological changes. Several studies show that pregnancy does cause memory loss in 50 to 80 per cent of mums-to-be and progresses for the duration of the pregnancy. In some cases, this condition can last up to two years after delivery.

While the exact memory loss-triggering hormone is not known, some research show that pregnant women, especially as they near delivery, have a significantly worse memory compared to those who are not pregnant. According to other studies, the surge of hormones during pregnancy is believed to affect the brain’s neurotransmitters, affecting how they relay messages and therefore making memory more difficult to form.

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However, psychologists opine that pregnancy brain is caused by this major lifestyle change, that is, the woman’s body and mind preparing for the baby. This school of thought holds that it boils down to the worry or excitement that mothers have as they wait for the baby. As such, this stress and anxiety interferes with concentration, making it harder to remember things.

Additionally, the fatigue caused by difficulty in sleeping while pregnant may also induce such memory loss as studies have established that sleep deficiency can disrupt thought processes.

How you can improve your memory

Fortunately, if you have been affected by pregnancy brain, you can make a few changes and add a few strategies to help you remember things:

Write things down: Keep a planner or diary for all your planned activities or download an app which can notify you of your activities or can help you with simple reminders during the day. This will ultimately make things a lot easier.Get plenty of rest: Undoubtedly, you need enough sleep to have energy to grow and carry a baby. However, sleep also helps to refresh your memory and keep you mentally alert every day.Exercise: Working out, with the approval of a doctor, not only keeps you healthy during pregnancy, but it can also sharpen your memory and help you sleep better at night, increasing your alertness during the day.Ask for help:     Having too many things on your plate could worsen your memory loss. Ask for help from your family or friends when it comes to chores or other errands, as this will considerably put you in a better space mentally.Simplify your routine: Make things easier to remember by simplifying aspects of your daily life such as putting things like keys in one place every day or taking photos of things you need to remember. Also keep a written to-do-list to remind you what needs to be done.

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This article was first published in the January 2020 issue of Parents.

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

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Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

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Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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