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You are highly likely to experience changes in your body after childbirth.  These changes are different in every woman and their lasting time may differ. Some of the postpartum changes are permanent while others take a short period of time to disappear.

For some women, it can be hard to come to terms with some of these changes but be encouraged that you brought a whole human being into the world. Therefore, you need to give yourself a break and keep these in mind:

1.You might experience weight loss

The few pounds gained during pregnancy will be shed during the first week since most of it was from the placenta, amniotic fluid and blood, not forgetting the baby’s weight. Don’t be shocked if you drastically loose 10 pounds after you just left the hospital.

2.Post-belly bump will still be there

Even if you shed most of the pregnancy weight few months after giving birth, you can still have a baby bump. But don’t worry because the human body is elastic therefore, it will go back to its normal size after a while after a few tummy-toning exercises. However, consult your doctor before you embark on any exercises, especially if you had a C-section pregnancy.

Image: A mother holding her baby. (Source; guardian.ng)

3. Your breasts grow bigger and fuller

You may have noticed that your breasts are bigger, tender and feel swollen. The hormone prolactin helps with milk production hence your breasts may feel fuller and painful. The pain may last until you breastfeed. For those not breastfeeding, the pain may last for up to five days. Buy a supportive bra to balance the breasts or use a cold compress because warm ones tend to worsen the pain.

4.You will experience vaginal discharge

After your baby arrives, you experience blood and and excess mucus from the uterus. The blood is usually from where the placenta was attached. This bloody discharge called Lochia lasts for about four to six weeks after delivery.

5.The swelling from your pregnancy may still be there

Most pregnant women experience swelling on their arms, face and feet. This is caused by the fact that cells in your body hoard extra fluids. It may take a while for the swelling to go away even after the baby arrives.

6.Urinary problems may happen after delivery.

The first few days after giving birth, you may notice pain when you urinate or fail to urinate. Worse still, you may not be able to control the urine. This is referred to as incontinence. It usually goes away as your pelvic muscles regain their strength. Drink lots of water or soak in a warm bath to reduce the pain. You can also do kegel exercises to strengthen the pelvic muscles. Consult your doctor if the pain persists.

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7.You may experience hair loss

Don’t be worried when you condition your hair or comb it and a chunk of it remains on your comb because it is normal after child birth. When you are pregnant, the extra estrogen contributes to hair growth and more lustrous curls. But after delivery, the estrogen levels reduce making the hair lesser and weaker. Your hair will go back to normal in a year or nine months.

8. The stretch marks begin to fade

The purplish stretchmarks on your thighs, hips and bottom may turn to silver or to a lighter colour than that of your body. They may not completely fade or disappear after giving birth. They however become less prominent. You can use lotions and creams that help with the appearance. Consult your doctor first before using any of these.

9.You may sweat more

The body is in the process of losing the water retained during pregnancy. Therefore, you may find yourself sweating more than usual. To regulate the sweat, wear lighter clothes and try sleeping with less clothes on.

10. Some changes are permanent

You may find that after you got pregnant your shoe size rose to a slightly bigger one. This may not change even after birth. Your hips may broaden slightly because they expanded during child birth. Embrace your sexy curves and figure. They are there to stay and have no harm at all.

Feature Image; A mother shows off her postpartum belly after delivering twins. (Source, parents.com)

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

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She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

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Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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