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Cheated death by a whisker in Garissa attack

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When Josephat Kihonge was posted as the lead pastor of the African Christian Churches and Schools (ACC&S) in Garissa town, all he wanted to do was to serve the Lord and fellow mankind. With zeal and zest, he headed to Garissa ready to start his five-year mission in the remote town. Little did he know that his mission would be abridged by an attack that saw him return to Nairobi on a stretcher. He tells of his near death experience that completely changed his life to WANGARI MWANGI.

I had the pleasure of attending one of Josephat’s morning services at the ACC&S churches in Kariobangi South a few years back. His small frame is complemented by his husky voice that keeps you glued to the message he delivers when he stands on the pulpit. He has a comical way of delivering powerful sermons; one that includes a few jokes here and there interspersed with brief singing, just to make sure you get involved. I would understand why ACC&S sent him on a pastoral mission in Garissa seven years ago.

His appointment to Garissa in 2007 came immediately after he had completed his theological studies and after he had served for a few months as an assistant pastor in ACC&S Zimmerman Parish in Nairobi. At just 25, he had caught the eyes of the church leadership for his zeal and ambition and that is why they picked him to shepherd their branch in the remote town.

However, the fear of what to expect in a land that was unknown to him was more than he could bear. Growing up, he had heard of the infamous Shifta war and later the daunting stories of how the remnants of the gang terrorised Garissa residents.The incumbent pastor had also informed him that life in Garissa bordered on many extremes; food was expensive, the heat obnoxious, and that the area was predominantly dominated by Muslims making Christianity a minority on the religious front.

“After so much soul searching and consultation with my parents, I took up the position and left for Garissa in July 2007. When I landed, I confirmed that the weather in Garissa was indeed harsh and unwelcoming especially because the city life had not prepared me adequately. During the early weeks after my arrival, I would at times be challenged to defend my faith by some Muslims but I took up the challenge in good faith and with time I adjusted well,” says Josephat.

Part of his routine involved traveling back to Nairobi once in a month to check on his parents and siblings. Come November 2007, he received an invitation to attend the ordination of his Anglican friend at the All Saints Cathedral in Nairobi. The invite had also been sent out to three other pastors from different churches in Garissa and it extended to members of their congregation to attend the December 7 event. Josephat, together with 30 people from the three different churches in Garissa, planned to attend the ordination and make their way back to Garissa after the event on the same day.

It takes approximately six hours to drive through the 367 kilometres from Nairobi to Garissa. The group departed from Nairobi at 7 p.m and anticipated that they would be in Garissa a few hours after midnight. Being in the company of friends, the journey was an exciting one. However, there was a turn of events when they reached Mororo area about 10 kilometres from Garissa town.

“Our vehicle was flagged down by a group of young men carrying torches. It was very unusual because police did not operate at such hours. All the same, the driver complied and stopped the bus but after realising that the men were armed, he veered off the road to a nearby thicket and started to drive fast,” he says.

The men then shot at the tyres, forcing the driver to come to an expected halt. Everyone in the bus was ordered out and the pastors, who were still wearing their collars, were asked to kneel in a different queue. “We tried to protest and two men were killed on the spot. That is when I realised that our lives were in danger. I was kneeling at one end of the queue when one of the attackers approached me and remarked at how young I looked for a pastor. Before I could respond, I felt a sharp sting on my forehead accompanied by screams,” he recounts.

The next time he opened his eyes, he was on a stretcher in an ambulance making its way to Kenyatta National Hospital (KNH). Military officers who had heard the gunshots had come to their rescue. During the incident, two men were killed and several women escaped with minor injuries. They were not able to steal anything from the passengers as soldiers rushed to the scene when they heard the sound of gunshots.

Josephat’s head was bandaged and his hand and feet had been fastened to the stretcher to restrain his movement. “They said I had a hole on my forehead and also warned me against raising my head. They however reassured me that I would get better,” he explains.

It is believed that the attackers had aimed at his head but the bullet only hit the edge of his forehead making a hole on the right side of his skull before bouncing to the ground. Josephat says that it is only by God’s grace that it did not kill him or get lodged in his head.

When he finally arrived at KNH, he was immediately booked for a grafting surgery to block the hole and also to prevent further bleeding. They also removed bone particles that had stuck in the frontal lobe of his brain. “I had to sleep on my back for the one month that I was admitted at KNH to allow the graft wound to heal. It was tiring and uncomfortable, but my friends and family made it bearable by their constant hospital visits and words of assurance,” he says adding that after being discharged, he remained home for three months before he could sit up.

By January 2008, Josephat’s life had started to regain some normalcy. ACC&S accorded him an opportunity to serve as a youth pastor at Kariobangi South; a position he held until 2012. He was also lucky that his then girlfriend, Martha Wambui, accepted his wedding proposal despite having a scarred face.

“We had dated for a while but I feared she would leave me after the incident. Surprisingly, she declared that she had chosen to stick by me even in the face of adversity. We got married in November 2008 in a small ceremony in Thika,” says Josephat.

In July 2009, Josephat underwent a bone cement surgery to artificially cover the hole on his forehead. During the nine-hour operation, doctors at the Nyeri Provincial General Hospital placed a disk-like substance between the skin and the hole. Today, the disk forms a round mass that he comfortably rotates without experiencing pain.

With the rising cases of religious extremism and high insecurity in the Northern part of the country, I am curious to find out whether he would take up another opportunity to serve as a pastor in Garissa. In response, Josephat says that he would, but his only concern would be the extreme heat that is likely to give him headaches. Notably, he never followed up on the case since he has forgiven the young men who had attempted to cut short his life.

Published in January 2015

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

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Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

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Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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