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Beware of greedy pastors in our midst

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A father and mother figure are very important aspects in children’s developmental psychology. Children brought up under the loving care of a mother and the provident concern of a father, are believed to be balanced in their upbringing. They are rarely affected by the traumas some children carry over into adulthood when one of these figures is missing. This figure doesn’t need to be a blood relative of the child. Bishops, pastors, reverends and preachers are the parent figures in the Church. They are teachers of faith. They take us through the worldly journey to ensure we enter the Heavenly kingdom. “Verily I say unto you: Whatsoever ye shall bind on earth shall be bound in heaven: and whatsoever ye shall loose on earth shall be lost in heaven,” as exemplified in Matthew 18:18. That is the immense power of Church leaders. They are shepherds of faith. They cannot afford to defile or devour the children of God.

And yet they are doing it, unrepentantly. Just as a father who threatens not to pay school fees for a form one girl unless she goes to bed with him, the fathers and mothers of faith are using their position to take advantage of their flock. And because she wants to have an education, the vulnerable girl gives in; and because the worshipper is desperate to end his or her misery they are gullible. And the pastor knows that.

Thomas was not de-flocked from among the 12 disciples for doubting Jesus. He was being cautious, for even Jesus had Himself warned them that many would come in His name. The times we are living in brethren, call for the faith of Thomas – a questioning faith, and this is because when pastors stand in the podium and quote from the Bible with sweat soaking their clothes, you cannot tell who is for the earthly and who is for the heavenly Kingdom. The “generation of vipers” talked about in Matthew chapter 12:34 is here with us.

You need to have faith. But you need to question because blind faith will be no defence on judgement day. Why is it that early Christian leaders lived and died poor while becoming a pastor is the easiest road to wealth today? Why do you have to buy healing, anointing and blessings? Why do you have to “give to God” so he can make you rich? Do you think God created all the wealth in the world for the highest bidder?

Matthew chapter 10:1 says: “And when he had called unto Him His twelve disciples, He gave them power against unclean spirits, to cast them out, and to heal all manner of sickness and all manner of disease.” The disciples were not given the power so they could make money but to heal people free of charge. That is the truth. They cannot heal or cast out demons in exchange of money, unless of course they too bought that power from somewhere. The things pastors do to eradicate suffering from the world are supposed to be free, because that power is given to them free.

And those who are healed, those who receive miracles can only give after the miracle, not for it. Remember Jesus asking the leper: “Were not ten of you cured? And only you came back…” That is how it should be between pastors and the faithful. They should do what God empowered them to do whether or not those cured come back to give thanks (or donations).

Recently, I heard a preacher on TV begging for donations: “Wewe nakuona hapo nyumbani hebu nitumie kakitu hata kama mia mbili tu kwa hiyo namba unaona hapo” (Hey you there at home send me something even if Sh200 to the number on your screen), he said, promising a miracle if he received kitu kidogo. It is evil for pastors to take advantage of God’s children to enrich themselves.

And they always feature testimonies to prove their “miracle” really works. Did Jesus need to prove His miracles were for real? Did He need to display beneficiaries of the bread and fish miracle to testify that He is the real deal? Unlike the Church fathers in the Bible who “left mother and father and land” for His sake, many of our pastors have left nothing. Actually, they are so rich they compete with the thieving politicians. And they quote the Bible to justify their greed, saying a man of God must have his reward. That is true, but it is given freely, and not demanded in exchange for a miracle: “Heal the sick, cleanse the lepers, raise the dead, cast out devils: freely ye have received, freely give,” Jesus told His disciples as narrated in Matthew chapter 10:8.

Brethren! I have not asked you to stop tithing or giving for the course of the Gospel. I only ask that you should be careful lest you give your children’s bread to “the dogs”.

Secondly, you need to question why pastors fall over each other to offer prayers at political rallies yet none shows up when the internally displaced people (IDPs) walk from Gilgil to Nairobi demanding for resettlement. Are pastors not supposed to be a thorn in the foot of a politician and a consoler of the afflicted? Do they get paid to attend political rallies?

Finally ask yourself why, so unlike Jesus, your pastors are so keen on adding titles to their names – Reverend, Doctor, Bishop X. Is it so you may fear them the more and stop questioning their actions? Ask Catholic and most traditional church priests how many years they spend in Biblical studies and theology school yet many die before they attain a doctorate. Ask any university lecturer how long it took them to get a doctorate! Some of these pastors who have not seen the inside of a university lecture room or even a secondary school classroom call themselves doctors. These fake doctorates, which only add personal pride, cannot be for the promotion of the Gospel brethren. Think about it!

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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