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ALL THINGS HAPPEN IN God’s perfect timing

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Sometimes we try and fail, not because God does not wish that we succeeded but because we do not do things in God’s time…

If you try something you thought was God’s will but it fails, does it mean that it was not God’s will in the first place? For instance, you enroll into Bible school believing God wants you to be a preacher but other issues come up that force you to drop out prematurely. Would you say it wasn’t God’s will? That’s what we always say, isn’t it? And it is because we find it easier to explain our situations with God – who we cannot see and whose thoughts are higher than our thoughts – than to place the blame on ourselves. “I did everything possible but… clearly it wasn’t God’s will.” Really?

Have you ever stopped to think that your timing could be the problem? Because timing determines a lot of things; it determines whether a farmer will get a good harvest or not; it determines whether a woman gets pregnant or not, and even whether an animal on heat is fertilised or not.

I will give an example. We can now say without doubt that God willed that His Excellency Uhuru Kenyatta should be president of the Republic of Kenya. But Mr Kenyatta vied in 2002 and failed, even though God had ordained from his birth that he would rule Kenya one day. Why didn’t he succeed? Timing! He came before his time and the mood in the country was not in his favour.

Come 2013, a whole 10 years later and he got it. He seemed to have learned the importance of waiting because during the 2007 elections, he decided to shelve his ambitions and support President Mwai Kibaki’s re-election bid. When asked what made him drop his bid, he said he could not enter into a race he knew he could not win. Timing! Mr Kibaki himself had attempted twice before he won in 2002.

Timing is everything. But you also have heard it said that ‘God’s time is the best.’ You might even have said it to others. When President Moi said “Uhuru ndiye anafaa” (Uhuru is the most suitable) in 2002, he was using his own timing. Mr Kibaki too was using his own timing when he vied in 1992 and 1997. But their timing corresponded with God’s timing on the year they won.

Sometimes we try and fail, not because God does not wish that we succeeded but because we do not do things in God’s time. You must learn to get your timing right. Of course you must anticipate God’s blessings, but you must not jump in before your time. The farmer has learnt to work with God’s time. He knows planting in the dry season will be futile. And he knows to time so that the first raindrops find his seeds in the soil. A day late and he gets everything wrong. Not a day earlier and not a day later. Have you heard it said that God does not rush and he never arrives late?

If God is going to bless you, you must get ready. And pray to know his timing. Failing to get it the first or second time does not mean God does not want it for you. It could be that you are not ready, or even if ready, you are not aligning yourself with God’s time.

Remember Jesus telling Peter and company to cast their nets and catch fish only for Peter to exclaim that they had been trying to catch fish the whole night without any luck. But Jesus, being God, has His own timing. He tells them to cast their nets still and what follows is described as a miracle. They could not believe their eyes. They were in the very spot they had spent a whole night and caught nothing. And here they were struggling to keep balance under the weight of the fish.

Mary tried to argue with Angel Gabriel about how she wasn’t ready to give birth; she was a virgin and could not meet a man in bed before formal marriage. But Mary was thinking about her own timing and not God’s. But the moment she aligned herself with God’s will and timing, the moment she said: “Let it be done to me according to thy will,” everything changed. She immediately discovered and accepted the fact that even if she hadn’t slept with a man before, God was able to make her conceive. And so it happened.

Published in November 2015

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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