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ABORTION? Not the way to go

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“If we accept that a mother can kill even her own child, how can we advise people against killing each other? Any country that accepts abortion is not teaching its people to love, but to use any violent means to get what they want.”
~The late mother Teresa of Calcutta.

The Google Zeitgeist 2012 report released recently indicated that the number one trending topic on their search engine in the “how to” category was by Kenyans who wanted more information on how to abort. In Kenya, abortion is illegal unless under strict medical conditions where the lives of a mother and baby are in danger. The Google Zeitgeist report also revealed that Kenyans also wanted to know how to conceive which was ranked as the fourth most searched topic on the ‘how to’ category.
Abortion refers to a termination of pregnancy by the removal or expulsion from the uterus of a foetus. Although there is no documented information on the number of women who die annually through abortions, it is alarming that most Kenyans major search topics is how to abort. This could be linked to a high number of abortions taking place. Again, since abortion is illegal in Kenya, most of the abortions done are in the backstreet clinics.
According to Dorcas Marwa, a woman who admits to having many abortions, abortion procedures in Kenya are now done in several hospitals and clinics countrywide. “Some respectable clinics and doctors carry out abortion privately because the hospitals do not officially allow it. However, there are some clinics where you walk in and the abortion procedure is carried out without any feelings of remorse,” says Dorcas.
According to www.abortion.com, an estimated 44 million abortions are performed globally each year with slightly under half of those performed unsafely. In the recent Kenya’s deputy presidential aspirants’ debate aired by several TV stations and radios on February 14, 2013, when asked about how they would handle the issues of reproductive health, all the deputy presidential aspirants agreed that abortion was morally wrong and they would not encourage it once they ascended into power. One of the candidates said that it is sad that so much pain is inflicted on an innocent child, while another said that abortion is an abuse to a woman’s body.

Why then do so many women procure abortions? There are several reasons that make women go through abortion according to several researches done over time, some of which include the following:

One of the social reasons why some women go through abortion is the aspect of feeling psychologically unprepared to take care of a child, since a child comes with several demands including financial. Others are feelings that one cannot afford the baby, or that one has the number of children she wants and does not want additional family responsibilities. Being a single mother or one who is in a relationship that is uncertain are other reasons given.

A woman may also feel not of age to be a mother and therefore opt for abortion. For some, pregnancy interferes with their careers and education plans and they choose abortion, while for others it’s their parents or partners who push them to do it. Others may abort a child who is as a result of rape or incest. Many others do it for selfish reasons – they want to have fun in a relationship without the disturbance of a baby.

However, some genuine reasons in Kenya that allow a woman to undergo an abortion is when the life of the mother and baby are in danger, or if the baby has a health problem that would make him incapacitated in life.

Abortion methods

There are various abortion methods used by health practitioners where the law allows abortion. While they sound brutal and cruel, they are safe when handled by trained health practitioners, but sadly, they are also used to procure illegal abortions in backstreet clinics and other unauthorised facilities. They include the following:

Suction aspiration.

This is where the cervix is stretched open. A suction curette (hollow tube with a knife-like top) is inserted into the womb. A strong suction (like that of a vacuum cleaner) tears the foetus into pieces, drawing it into a container.

Dilation and curettage.

This is similar to the suction method, except for the use of sharp loop-shaped knife (curette). The knife cuts the foetus apart. The pieces are then removed through the cervix. All of the dissected and crushed parts of the foetus are removed using ring forceps.

Saline injection. A concentrated salt solution is injected into the sac surrounding the foetus. The foetus inhales and swallows the solution, has convulsions and dies one to two hours later from salt poisoning dehydration and haemorrhage of internal organs. The mother goes into labour. A dead or dying baby is delivered within 48 hours.

Prostaglandin abortion. Prostaglandins are hormones that induce labour. They are injected into the sac surrounding the foetus or given in a shot or vaginal suppository form. The mother then goes into labour, giving birth to a child either dead or too young to survive. Sometimes poisonous salts are injected with the prostaglandins’ to kill the baby.

Hysterectomy abortion. This is some form of a caesarean section; the abdomen and the womb are opened surgically. In the hysterectomy, however, the baby who is lifted out is usually too young to survive without immediate medical treatment. The baby is simply put aside to die.

Partial birth abortion. This occurs when only the baby’s head is left in the birth canal; the body is turned so that the head is face down. Surgical scissors are inserted into the back of the scull, and a suction apparatus is passed through the hole. The baby’s brains are suctioned out of its head, collapsing the skull. Then the dead baby is fully removed from its mother’s body.

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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