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NDUNG’U NYORO The brother’s keeper on social media

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Ndung’u Nyoro is a gifted mobiliser. No doubt. When a situation arises, he doesn’t start wondering whether he has the money or the muscle to provide a solution. His secret weapon is his social media presence. His Facebook and twitter handle are enough to mobilise the nation to find solutions to pressing problems. Simply put, he is the redeemer of the disenfranchised. He shares his heroic deeds with MWAURA MUIGANA.

Early last year as Ndung’u Nyoro was going through his Facebook page, a Facebook friend from Kenya living in Saudi Arabia sent him an inbox asking for assistance. Margaret said that a Kenyan girl, Mary Wanjiru, who was then working as a househelp in Saudi Arabia, needed immediate rescue.

Ndung’u was psychologically devastated. He had read cases of Kenyans being subjected to inhuman treatment or even death by hostile employers in the Middle East. For Ndung’u, it wasn’t the first time a Facebook friend had asked him for such help. He understood the urgency of the matter but didn’t exactly know what to do except that once he got to his Facebook page, a solution would be in the offing. It was his secret missile to assist the disadvantaged and put a smile on many sad faces.

The first thing was to establish whether the case was genuine. After confirming that indeed it was a genuine case, he sent a video recording that Mary had sent him to a friend working in the Office of the President, Edith Fortunate, and requested her to help by instigating government’s intervention.

After verifying the information was genuine, she handed it over to the Ministry of Foreign Affairs. A week later, there was still no response. Under pressure from the desperate girl, Ndung’u enquired from Edith. She maintained that the government works meticulously in such cases so as not to jeopardise the subject’s security.

The girl’s daily cry for help overwhelmed him and he took a step of faith. He leaked the information to active social media activists by tagging them on the video recording. The girl’s desperation spread like bushfire with many social media enthusiasts talking about it. As a result, the government acted fast. Within a week, the girl had been rescued. She was flown back to Kenya and re-united with her family in Limuru.

“I thanked Edith and the government for the magnanimous act. It was a confirmation of my conviction that social media can be used for a noble cause. This prepared me for other calls of help,” says Ndung’u, a pharmacist by profession.

In December 2014, an anonymous person sent him an inbox with details about a primary school boy in Molo, Erastus Kinuthia, who had been suffering from a kidney condition, nephritis, for five years. His face, legs, and entire body were swollen while his stomach was full-blown. Mobility was a major problem and he missed school most of the time. The same problem had claimed the life of his mother in 2009. His father, David Migwi, could not afford to take him to hospital.

“I posted the same information on my Facebook page and explained that the condition was serious and challenged my followers to help. However, I cautioned them not to send any money until I had established the case was genuine,” recounts Ndung’u.

Through investigations, he established it was a genuine case. Moreover, the boy was very bright in school. Indeed, in spite of the condition and missing school intermittently, he scored 310 marks in the Kenya Certificate of Primary Education in 2014.

Ndung’u posted a photo of the boy on his Facebook page showing his piteously swollen body with an appeal for medical help. Needless to say, it touched many on social media. Within four days, donations to the tune of Kshs 260,000 poured in through Mpesa. Ndung’u and several other people visited the boy’s home and helped his father make arrangements to take Erastus to Kenyatta National Hospital (KNH) in January this year. He was put under the care of Professor J. Kayima, a nephrologist.

Erastus is on his way to complete recovery and attends clinic at KNH every three weeks. He joined form one at a local day school recommended by Ndung’u and his team and is performing well.

“I continually encourage him. I thank God for touching the hearts of the social media family. They are just Facebook friends who have believed and trusted in the cause. I’m in daily contact with Erastus’ father and update the good friends on the boy’s recovery journey,” explains the father of two girls – three-year-old Adiah Nyokabi and one-year-old Adriah Wanjiru.

Do good and move on…

The tragic story of 22-year-old Margaret Njeri from Mpeketoni in Mombasa was covered in the media for the better part of January and February this year. Maggie, as friends and family fondly call her, was a motorbike passenger when a policeman waved her rider down. The rider ignored and rode on. The policeman allegedly threw his gun at him but it hit Maggie on the head, knocking her down unconscious. She underwent a series of unsuccessful surgeries at Pandya Memorial Hospital in Mombasa and remained in a coma fighting for her life.

Ndungu’s Facebook friend in the US, Njeri Mwangi, sent him newspaper captions of the story in early February. She asked him to help the desperate family. The girl’s mother, Mariam Njeri Njuguna, had lost her husband to cancer and was taking care of her family single-handedly. At the time, she was required to raise one million shillings deposit for another life-saving surgery, which they couldn’t.

“It took me a week to get to Maggie’s family. Unfortunately, she died on the same day I got the contacts. I blamed myself for not acting fast. If I had gotten the contacts earlier, I could probably have mobilised my Facebook friends to raise the one million shillings deposit required for the final surgery. That surgery could have saved her life. I sent a text to Njeri in the US and told her even though Maggie was gone, her family had been slapped with a hospital bill of Kshs 2.5 million and we needed to help the them,” he explains.

He contacted Mariam who confessed they had planned to sell the family land to clear the hospital bill so as to be allowed to collect the body for burial. He went straight to his Facebook page and re-lived the tragic events leading to Maggie’s death. He called for justice, as the responsible police officer was still at large. He encouraged people to share and hype the story on social media. The intention was to expose the injustice Kenyans faced in the hands of police officers and how Maggie’s poor family had been left on it’s own to deal with the situation.

Within three days, the information had been shared more than 10,000 times. It had captured the attention of many Kenyans on social media. He was in a dilemma on where to seek help. He rightly settled for Mariam to go on air in one of the local radio stations and seek help.

He asked Njogu wa Njoroge of Kameme fm to join hands with him in this crusade. He made travel arrangements for Mariam to Nairobi and took her to the studio on March 10, 2015. Within two hours, the listeners had raised a staggering Ksh 2.8 million!

“We managed to clear the hospital bill and had a balance to help in the burial expenses. Maggie was laid to rest in Mpeketoni on March 14, 2015. Through this campaign for justice, the police officer resurfaced and we hope justice will prevail,” says Ndung’u.

The beginning…

It was through chance that he understood the power of social media and how it can bring people together for noble causes. It was in 2012 when someone sent him an inbox about his former primary school, Mona Primary School in Molo, Nakuru. The school needed help to improve the standard of education. He felt the need to bring together the school’s old boys and girls to steer this campaign. He made a proposal on his Facebook page and many former students responded that it was a good idea.

“I formed a Facebook page for interaction. Some members were in Kenya while others were in South Africa, USA, UK and other countries. We started discussing about our former school and how to make it better. Today, the old boys and girls club has a membership of over one hundred and there are many successful activities going on in the school courtesy of the alumni,” Ndung’u explains.

Last year, they sponsored the entire class eight for a trip to various monumental and educational sites in Nairobi to expose them. The trip climaxed with motivational talks from various speakers.

“We have now grown and are linking with NGOs to assist the school. In March this year, we partnered with Ahadi Kenya, the anti-jigger campaign organisation to motivate the pupils. Since we don’t have jiggers issue there, the CEO Dr. Stanley Kamau, and other key leaders gave various donations including two thousand pairs of shoes. They also gave motivational and mentorship talks to the pupils,” he explains.

He adds, “I desire to create a brother’s keeper foundation, an organisation to take care of the less privileged in the society that would channel efforts wholesomely to help the disenfranchised in society.”

Ndung’u is married to Mary Njeri, who is very supportive. He believes firmly in the family institution.

Contacts:

Facebook: Ndung’u Nyoro

Twitter:   @ndungu-nyoro

Email: ndungunyoro2011@gmail.com

Mobile: 0722 447 358

mwaura@parents.co.ke

 

Published in April 2015

 

 

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

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She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

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Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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