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5 tips for living with fibromyalgia

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Fibromyalgia is an illness that affects how your brain and spinal cord process non-painful and painful signals. It causes widespread musculoskeletal pain and fatigue, memory, sleep and mood disturbances.

It affects women more than men. People with the disorder also tend to have tension headaches, anxiety, depression, and or irritable bowel syndrome.

Disturbed sleep reduces your quality of life because of the consequent fatigue. You wake up tired as sleep is often disturbed by pain. You may also have restless legs syndrome or sleep apnea and fibro fog which is the inability to focus, pay attention and concentrate on mental tasks.

All these make it difficult to function at work or home. Here is how to manage this disorder:

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Medication

A rheumatologist will prescribe you medication to relieve the symptoms of the condition. Medication includes antidepressants, pain relievers and anti-epileptic drugs.

Keep taking your medication as this will take care of the pain, poor sleep and cognitive impairments. This will highly improve your productivity and functioning.

Use alarms, or other forms of reminders to alert you to take your medicine.

Therapy

Therapies have shown great results for patients who take them. Therapies include physical therapy, occupational therapy and cognitive behavioural therapy.

A physical therapist teaches you exercises that will give you improved overall stamina, flexibility and strength.

An occupational therapist adjusts your work area to reduce stress on your body. A cognitive behavioural therapist helps you manage emotional stress and get you to be more positive and open-minded.

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Exercise

Regular exercise helps to reduce pain and fatigue, as well as clear the mind. Target 20-30 minutes, for two or three days a week for you to feel the improvement that comes with being active.

Running, walking and swimming are particularly helpful but so is strength training and conditioning.

Keep exercise balanced, otherwise, it could end up making the condition worse. Note the good days and how you feel, then do your exercise just the point when it’s enough to avoid overdoing it. Then on the bad days, push just a little to the point of balance.

This balance on good and bad days goes a long way in keeping your situation steady.

Diet

As a fibromyalgia patient, your diet needs to focus on nutrient-rich foods to have more energy and to avoid other health problems. A diet full of processed sugar is particularly detrimental.

Avoid soft drinks and gluten-rich foods. Take in more vegetables and fruits. Have an uptake of roughages and reduce caffeine for better results.

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Sleep hygiene

Sleep hygiene is key. Since fibromyalgia tends to disrupt your sleep, make sure you sleep and wake up at the same time every day. This way you tend to have enough sleep. Also, limit daytime napping.

With proper sleep, you get more energy to do what needs to be done.

Final thoughts…

Though fibromyalgia, has no cure, taking the necessary precautions and actions can help you manage the condition and live a fulfilled life.

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

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Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

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Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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