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Women for women towards peaceful General-Elections

WSR is a non-partisan and neutral process at all times. It mobilizes women in collaboration with youth to ensure their active participation in peaceful electoral processes. It gets its mandate from the UN Security Council Resolution (UNSCR) 1325 and the Gender is My Agenda Campaign (GIMAC) of the African Union, which affirm the role of women in the peace process and peace-building in their countries.

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When we reached out to Pamela Akoth for an interview, she was in her garden. This is an economic activity she has embraced for the last couple of years. The single mother of one previously worked in a flower garden in Naivasha but went back to her home in Homabay county following the 2007 post-election violence.

“Around 3 in the afternoon, an announcement was made in the flower farm that things were not good. We were then asked to go back home. There were no vehicles on the road so we trekked in bushes,” the 45 years old lady recalls.

Thoughts of rape crossed her and she was scared. At this point, getting her teenage daughter to safety became priority. Being a weekend, her daughter who was in form two was at home. Pamela was lucky to find her daughter safe in their rental house. Unfortunately, they were no longer safe in their home and they fled with nothing but the clothes they were wearing.

“When we were running police officers were around but they were helpless. If there was a specific office where one could report, it would have been better,” she narrates her ordeal.

Before she moved to her native home in Homabay, she got temporary shelter for Internally Displaced Persons (IDPs) at Longonot centre in Naivasha, among other people who were affected by the violence.

Almost 15 years down the line, Pamela bemoans the fact that she never received any compensation despite making a report to the police and being in possession of documents that prove she was a victim of the post-election violence. Nevertheless, she is grateful that she and her daughter are alive.

The scenes from the violence are still etched in Pamela’s mind and her only desire is that the government protects women due to their vulnerability as the 9th August 2022 general election approaches.

“If there are people who can stand firm and guard women then let them be dedicated so that women can contact them just in case things don’t go well for them,” she says. Vulnerable women can report for help, she says in an exclusive interview noting, “I think this can save the lives of some people.”.

Same script, different victim

Like Pamela, Beatrice Waithera witnessed the effects of the 2007 post-election violence albeit slightly different. Waithera, a women rights journalist and activist was then a form one student. She was living in an informal settlement in Nairobi that also a recorded loss of lives and injuries due to election-related violence.

“One particular morning as I was leaving the gate for the shop I remember there was a person who had been assulted and was bleeding. It was just a few yards from where we lived in Kayole,” she recalls.

Beatrice Waithera. Photo||Courtesy

Waithera urges Kenyans to maintain peace so that such incidences don’t happen ever again in the country adding that there is need to respect cultural diversity, human dignity, and commitment to maintain peace during this election period. She further notes that Kenyans are already struggling to put food on their tables due to the increased cost of living and the absence of peace would only make the situation worse.

“Violence scares away investors. It makes people go hungry because they cannot afford food and their security is not guaranteed,” says the non-violent peace trainer.

Waithera was recently awarded by the National Women for Peace Convention Caucus as a national peace champion. She is currently conducting civic education, where she holds safe spaces with the youth at the grassroots levels. The participants are empowered with knowledge of good governance and their involvement in decision-making tables. Besides, they also discuss the setbacks that are pulling them back in the community.

Waithera says that for the last two years, these sessions have given the youths a gratifying space. Discussions about peace as an integral part of safeguarding women and youths’ rights are the main areas of her focus.

“As young people, we are learning a lot from the past generation. It is time that Kenyan youths remain vigilant and guard their country and by all means, refuse to be used as tools to spread violence in Kenya,” she told Parents magazine.

Just like Pamela, Waithera also says that if there was a hotline or a signal call that people could use then to report when they sensed looming tension, more lives could have been saved.

The Women Situation Room to the rescue

It is the challenges that people like Pamela and Waithera experienced in the 2007 post-election violence that have prompted the Inter-Religious Council of Kenya (IRCK) to establish a team of eminent women to preach the gospel of peace. The team will operate under a program known as Women Situation Room (WSR), a women’s peace-building mechanism to mitigate conflict before, during, and after elections in African countries.

Dr Grace Ongile, the adviser for the implementation of the women leaders’ involvement in peace, says gender monitors for peace have also been trained across respective counties in Kenya. They will be at different polling stations on the election day and will use a tool known as incidence form, to record cases of violence targeted at women.

“This form will help capture what is not going right for women as voters and aspirants. The person in charge should record and convey that message to us.” Dr Ongile told Parents magazine.

She describes WSR as a useful platform that gives women space to talk. Part of the gender monitors for peace is the police officers. Dr. Ongile, says this will see perpetrators of violence get arrested. She adds that the eminent team will also ensure that women get help in situations where they will need to be taken to hospitals.

“Women’s role in society is extremely important and when there is war, there are many issues that come with it. With this program in mind, we are going to see how best to capture and amplify the voices of women during the elections,” says Dr Ongile.

Irene Kizito, Deputy Executive Director, IRCK addressing the Women Gender Monitors during a training. Photo by Mary Ndulili.

Deputy Executive Director, of the Inter-Religious Council of Kenya, Irene Kizito says WSR is very critical in this General-Elections because women’s issues are very different from those of the general public. She says the council would like women to take an active role in the early response and rolling of any issues that may jeopardize peace in the communities.

“I believe that in the past we were caught unaware because many women did not think they could play a role in mitigating some of the things that happened. We are now taking leadership and also training other women to take leadership and manage situations from wherever they are,” she says with optimism adding, “the program is about securing peaceful elections because women do not want their children and community to suffer,”

WSR, was first used in Liberia in the 2011 General Elections before it was replicated in Senegal and Sierra Leon respectively in 2012. Kenya replicated it in the 2013 and 2017 General Elections. The Kenya National Peace and Security chair under the ministry of interior and public service and gender, Shamsha Abubakar, says a lot has been done to make the program more effective in the country. This includes the introduction of, the KoboCollect Application that will be used to collect information in the field before submitting to the eminent team in the WSR.

“This KoboCollect tool gives us options to report the perpetrators, type, and extent of harm done to the woman, whether the woman is a candidate, a voter or a standby woman, he explains. “It also gives us the option to indicate where the incident took place, the County, time, the witnesses identity and telephone numbers,” says Abubakar, — “describing the process as a dream come true.

Other countries that have also replicated the WSR are Nigeria in 2015, and Uganda and Ghana both in 2016. Despite the program having been applied in Kenya during the two previous General Elections, Abubakar says women who were assigned then did not have enough skills. This made it hard for them to report appropriately.

“This toolkit will be a matrix for us to know how many cases have been reported,” she says.

WSR is a non-partisan and neutral process at all times. It mobilizes women in collaboration with youth to ensure their active participation in peaceful electoral processes. It gets its mandate from the UN Security Council Resolution (UNSCR) 1325 and the Gender is My Agenda Campaign (GIMAC) of the African Union, which affirm the role of women in the peace process and peace-building in their countries.

Featured Photo: Women Gender Monitors during a training. Photo by Mary Ndulili.

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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