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Wilson Macharia- only legally blind

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Wilson Macharia, a lawyer, a tutor and researcher at the Centre for Human Rights University of Pretoria, and also a disability inclusion consultant with inAble, has the humour and confidence that blinds you to his blindness. He is legally blind, he says, but as far as living life is concerned, he is definitely exploring into his potential much better than many people who have no disability whatsoever.

He was not born with visual impairment, but it occurred very early in his life and so he has no recollection of life with normal eyesight. He learnt that his condition, Hydro chloroquine Retinopathy, was caused by chloroquine, a drug administered to him to treat malaria when he was barely two months old. The drug damaged the macula in his eyes, leaving only a few cells alive, which is why he still has a perception of light.

Wilson only started attending a special school when he was in class six. Until then, he went to normal schools, where he was allowed to take exams orally. When he finally went to a special school, it was St. Lucy’s Primary School for the blind in Meru, where he excelled. He was the top pupil in his class, and proceeded to attend the same school’s High School, in which he and his classmates were pioneers.

He chose to do law, and he got the chance for it at the University of Nairobi, albeit the strangeness of his admission letter not having been specific to which course he had been called to do. “Later, I heard that there had been a disagreement between the Joint Admissions Board and the University,” he recalls, “It’s probably because one of them was not sure about a blind man taking law as a career, which would be why eventually they left the letter blank. I still took law,” he adds.

Inclusivity, for which Wilson is a champion, cannot be discussed away from technology, and even before he says it, it is evident he is savvy in the field. He acknowledges that even the technology that’s available for the visually impaired needs for one to have the initiative to learn in order to be able to maximize on them. As for him, he has nothing against braille, but has discovered and embraced modern technology that’s less cumbersome and makes things much easier.

Wilson when he was admitted to the bar on 5th February 2020

“I remember after high school, playing music on my brother’s computer. I had memorized the way to get to the music. I would press the start button on the far left of the keyboard, then using the arrow keys, go four steps down to open the folder then two steps to the right,” he still remembers vividly. Such was the determination that his brother saw, and acquired for him the first ever text-to-speech software, a screen reader called NVDA (Non-visual desktop access). He later took a computer packages course at Machakos Technical Institute for the Blind. Since then, he has used a myriad of assistive technology, and it is no wonder that he is an inclusivity consultant with inAble. “For everyone else, technology makes things easier,” he says, “But for someone like me, it makes things possible.”

At the university, he insisted that he did not need a braille machine, but a lap top with assistive technology, and he used his own until in his third year when finally, the university acquired for him a laptop with JAWS, the professional screen reader that he uses to date. He did excel and earned a scholarship to take his Masters in Human Rights and Democratization at the University of Pretoria in South Africa. Here, yet again, he earned himself a scholarship to undertake a PhD, which is awarded to only one student every year. Still, he believes it was not out of sympathy for his disability that he got it. “At my masters graduation ceremony, I was called up to the podium for so many awards that by the time they got to this one, I was overwhelmed with emotion and just teared up. I knew it was deserved because even my fellow students, from our interactions had mentioned that they saw me scooping these awards, yet none of them had anticipated that many,” he recalls.

His support system has been great, he acknowledges. Aside from his brother who not only allowed him to use his computer after high school but also installed for him a special software, he remembers, rather humourously, his sister reading his texts for him back then. Rather than look at the inevitable invasion of his privacy on this one, he says it worked for him when he needed to respond to girls’ texts and his sister, being a girl, came in handy. His parents, from the onset, never made him feel like he was any lesser that anyone else. They let him enjoy life like other children, and allowed him to explore his potential in every possible way, something his mother says they did intentionally. It is no wonder, then, the irony that one of the things he enjoys most is drama. He does go to theatres to watch plays and follows through what he hears, which he acknowledges has grown him into a great conversationalist. He also greatly appreciates applications such as Netflix, who have the option of Audio description, that make it easy for him to enjoy watching a movie.

He has had his share of troubles, including being denied a job even after passing all the interviews, because the company did not have the necessary software to enable him to work as a customer care executive. On this, he sued the company and just recently won the case, and is unapologetic about it. He doesn’t seek pity, rather he stands for what he truly deserves and is his right, evident even in his social life. He is dating, but unlike the common scenario of visually impaired people dating people with a disability like theirs, or ladies who can only be housewives, when asked, Wilson categorically states that in fact, he has never dated a girl with visual impairment- he does not discriminate against anyone himself, but he does not allow his standards to be lowered by his disability.

Clearly, no manner of discrimination can exclude Wilson because from the beginning, he chose to be included.

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

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Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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