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WHAT’S SECRETLY ageing you?

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While welcoming guests at our son’s recent wedding, the presiding pastor said something in jest that sent everyone laughing: “I have never seen so many aged people in one gathering!” While it was hilarious, I didn’t quite understand what he meant and thought it was an issue of language as there were only a handful of invited guests past the age of 70.

Why would he refer to us, in our forties, fifties and sixties, as aged? The answer was right in front of me two weeks later when the wedding pictures were delivered. Indeed, people our age have certainly aged before their years. The pictures tell the story of what the pastor was seeing from his vantage point – lots of grey hair, some overweight men and women, wrinkled faces, frail bodies… Are we ageing with grace like the generation ahead of us? May be not.

While you can’t turn back the clock, you can slow it down, not through cosmetics, surgery or any of those much heralded magic pills, but through following a holistic anti-ageing approach that focusses on eating right, managing stress, exercising regularly, taking supplements and minimising the health risks of your genetic inheritance such as high blood pressure, cholesterol and some cancers. It would appear our age group has put so much focus on the rat race, and no doubt most have done extremely well financially, but at what expense?

As we enter the season of giving and sharing, my gift to everyone past the age of 45 years this Christmas is sharing some wisdom from a book by Dr Nicholas Perricone, Forever Young, that recommends a holistic and natural approach to slowing down age. While you sit by the beach or merry make in the village with your folks, indulge in a copy of this book if you can get hold of one, or let the tips below guide you to discovering the hidden factors that could be making you old before your time and what you can do about them.

Are you eating healthily?Choosing the right foods not only staves off age-related diseases, it keeps you looking younger for longer. Research suggests including anti-inflammatory foods and antioxidants in your diet. Inflammation is thought to be a factor for many age-related conditions, from heart disease to premature wrinkles. When you eat the wrong kind of foods or are under stress, the body produces invisible inflammation that causes wrinkles and accelerates ageing.

The top anti-inflammatory foods include oily fish such as salmon, mackerel and sardines; seeds, nuts, beans, pulses, ginger, turmeric, garlic, avocado and fresh colourful vegetables and fruits, particularly anything that is red, purple, orange and yellow. When there is lots of natural colour in foods, you know they are rich in protective antioxidants – phytonutrients that have powerful anti-ageing and anti-inflammatory effect.

Aim to eat less meat and avoid caffeine and processed foods which all increase inflammation and speed up premature ageing, advises Perricone. Coffee causes a rise in insulin, which increases inflammation. A healthier alternative is green tea. Other top age-reversing superfoods include chia seeds, wheat or barley grass and supplements, including alpha lipoic acid, co-enzyme Q10, vitamins K and D and pycnogenol.

Also eat low glycaemic index (GI) foods to keep blood sugar levels stable and keep insulin low – high insulin levels are linked to inflammation. Cinnamon and cocoa are other useful anti-inflammatory foods. Cocoa contains procyanidin B-2, a chemical that has been shown to reduce inflammation. Also pack your diet with antioxidant-rich foods to help fight free radicals that can cause cellular ageing. Berries, red grapes, yellow and orange foods, such as carrots and squash, and spirulina are all rich in potent antioxidants.

It is important to take good quality multivitamins and mineral supplements every day because most of us are simply not getting the nutrients we need from our diet. Top on the list recommended by Perricone include pycogenol (extract of pine bark). Research shows this potent antioxidant has a powerful anti-inflammatory effect. It also protects collagen fibres and oxygenates the skin. Another is alpha lipoic acid (ALA). Although your body produces this antioxidant, it declines with age. ALA helps reduce cell damage and improves skin tone. Another is hyaluronic acid that helps keep the skin smooth due to its water retention capabilities and also helps maintain collagen levels in the skin. Fish oil supplement, a natural anti-inflammatory that is also excellent for dry skin, also makes it to the list.

Do you get at least six or seven to eight hours sleep a night? Sleep is restorative and triggers production of growth hormones, vital for healthy ageing. Studies show lack of sleep raises inflammatory markers within the body that can contribute to premature wrinkles and damage your health.

Do you go to the dentist regularly? As you age, gums recede and teeth wear down changing your face and making you look older. Unhealthy gums and teeth can also lead to age-related diseases so see a dentist regularly.

Do you drink coffee, tea and alcohol on a regular basis? These drinks are stimulants that get your adrenals working overtime and leach vitamins and minerals from your body affecting your skin, hair and nails, as well as your general health. As they are diuretics they also make you dehydrated, causing your skin to become dry and lined.

Do you regularly feel stressed or negative about something? Research shows that stress speeds up cell ageing. The stress hormone cortisol is also shown to leach calcium from bones and damage the collagen in your skin. Try to practice meditation or a breathing and relaxation technique daily.

Do you exercise every day? Regular exercise is vital for keeping your body healthy, supple and young. As well as protecting your heart, exercise promotes good circulation and keeps the skin healthy, firm and youthful looking. To beat stress, aim for 30-45 minutes of exercise, at least five times a week.

Have a merry Christmas and purpose to stay young!

emathu@parents.co.ke

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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