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Ways to parent a hyperactive child

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Although most children are generally energetic, it can be a bit overwhelming when your child is hyperactive. Hyperactive children are often excited and engage in energy-intensive activities and play.

Hyperactivity in children may be a result of an underlying mental condition called Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder or a trigger of a diet, or the environment. For instance sugary foods. This eventually dies down.

The following are some tricks to help you deal with your hyperactive child.

Engage them in obstacle challenges

Redirecting the child’s energy to more constructive activities works for both of you. It ensures that their energy is spent on something constructive and you can take a break from watching them.  Be conscious of the amount of time they spend on these activities to avoid overwhelming them.

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Reassure them

Having a hyperactive child among other children may make them seem like a nuisance. Reassure your child by making them appreciate their difference and restoring their broken spirit. Also, help them establish their purpose in life at an early age to build their self-esteem.

ALSO READ: 6 easy hacks to raising an assertive child

Make learning time short

Unlike other children, hyperactive children tends to lose focus very fast, thus making their learning process a little difficult. To make sure they get the most out of a lesson, consider making the process interactive, practical and brief.

Immediately after, allow the child to rest or play. You may be required to repeat the same lesson severally to check their understanding.

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Protect them from negative comments

Not many people will understand your child. Therefore, protecting your child from negative comments is paramount.

Some parents go to the extent of running advocacy campaigns to raise awareness around their child’s condition. This they do with the hope that the world becomes a better and understanding place for their child to thrive.

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Plan for the experience early enough so that you are not dragging your toddler from one restaurant to the next. By the time you are leaving the house, you should know where you are going.

Establish a working routine

Being able to accomplish essential things before your child gets restless is important. This can be achieved by establishing a routine that they can follow daily.

For example, you can have your child make their bed the instance they wake up, followed by brushing their teeth, then taking breakfast. You can as well slip in a critical lesson like an art class or mathematics if they are of age.

Feed them

From the knowledge of basic biology, being engaged in energy-intensive activities requires a steady supply of food to supplement the high metabolism rate. Research shows that a hungry hyperactive child is likely to become unruly. Therefore, to prevent this, keep snacks within their reach.

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Ample rest

A child that is overactive will eventually get tired. Therefore, ensure they go to bed early enough to get adequate sleep. Also, try and include daytime nap sessions in their routine.

After all is said and done, be gentle with yourself. Know that you are doing your level best considering the circumstances.  Get help from experts like doctors and trained caregivers whenever necessary. Also, learn what works with your child and be gentle with your parenting.  

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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