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WAS BLIND, But now I can see

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Simon Njihia is a lesson in persistence. Born in a humble family, he had to toil to make ends meet. And just when things were looking up and he was settling down to enjoy life, a mysterious blindness struck him leaving him in a hopeless pit but God’s miracles prevailed. He shares with FAITH MURIGU how he has overcome the many hurdles that have threatened his life.

Simon Njihia, 30, was born and brought up in Nakuru. His parents purchased a piece of land in Kiambu and relocated there to do farming when Simon was still in his formative years. However, farming wasn’t rewarding for them and they relocated to Kibera in Nairobi to pursue business. By this time, Simon was in class six.

“My siblings and I enrolled at Toi Primary School in Kibera. Although it was difficult to get school fees, I still managed to sit for the Kenya Certificate of Primary Education (KCPE) and was admitted to Kiambu High School. Rasing school fees proved difficult for my parents and I had no choice than to work during the school holidays to supplement the little they could afford. I worked as a water vendor in Kibera and the money I made went to pay for my school fees, as well as supplement that of my siblings,” says Simon, the third born among eight siblings.

The weather at Kiambu High School proved problematic to Simon and he constantly had chest congestion. While in form three, he transferred to a school near their Kiambu home. He was made head boy as the teachers saw a sense of responsibility and leadership in him. In addition, he served in the Christian Union’s praise and worship department.

Making ends meet…

“Many residents in Kibera knew me and supported me by buying water from me. In the beginning I used a wheelbarrow to transport the water but later bought a cart (mkokoteni) when my clientele increased. By the time I was sitting for the Kenya Certificate of Secondary Education (KCSE) in 2000, I was determined to complete my secondary education without any fee arrears,” he explains.

After completing high school, Simon’s life didn’t get any easier as he had to work extra hard to raise money for his college education as well as pay school fees for his siblings. He also assisted in buying food for the family, which was no easy task. His determination to see his siblings get an education kept him focused unlike most of his peers who were lost in chang’aa dens.

“Frequent water shortages adversely affected my income and I eventually left that business and focused on clearing flying toilets in Kibera. By all means, this was a dirty business but I had no other option. From the income I made, I enrolled at the Kenya Medical Training College (KMTC), Nairobi, for a certificate course in medical laboratory,” says Simon.

“In 2002, I saw an advertisement in one of the local newspapers on a pending recruitment to the police force and applied for it. I got admission to the Recruit Training School in Eldoret for six months and was later posted to the department of defence in Nairobi. I worked there for sometime before been transferred to Forces Memorial Hospital, Nairobi. I pursued a laboratory technician diploma at the Memorial hospital, which was sponsored by the government. My life was turning up well and I was happy,” Simon narrates.

Struck by a strange blindness…

Simon married almost immediately after completing high school. He did not stay in the staff quarters at his work place but opted to commute home daily to his wife and their young son. He started a business for his wife, which was doing well. Two years into working at the Memorial Hospital, Simon woke up one day with a throbbing headache. He took some drugs to soothe the pain away but all in vain.

“I had several tests done at the hospital and was diagnosed with tapeworms. Although the doctor prescribed some drugs, which I took, the problem persisted. I went for more tests but there was no change. Then I started experienced sharp pain in my eyes and my vision became blurred. When I felt that things were getting out of hand, I sought a month’s leave from work to get more personalised medical attention,” he recalls.

“On the day I left work, I passed by my wife’s business and rested on a seat then dozed off. When I woke up, all I could see was darkness. My wife found this ridiculous since it was only four in the afternoon and it was still bright outside. It then dawned on me that I had lost my sight. I called my pastor and explained to him what had happened and he came over and we prayed. He told me that my condition was not treatable in hospital and that I needed to pray aggressively for healing. I did not understand his statement,” Simon recalls the shocking first moments of his long journey to the dark world.

“Although I went for many check ups at the Memorial Hospital the doctors couldn’t identify what the problem was. My leave came to an end but I could not report back to work. Instead, I sent my wife to the human resource manager to have my leave extended. It was a trying time for my family and me,” says Simon.

“My wife’s business was suffering as she spent a lot of time with me at the expense of the business but we hang on, hopeful that things would brighten up. I visited Kikuyu Eye Hospital in pursuit of specialised medical attention but they, too, could not identify what the problem was,” Simon explains the agonising journey he has walked.

Simon turned to God for mercy and grace. To escape from the pain and maybe appease God, he became a born-again Christian. Many people prayed with him for healing and restoration but nothing seemed to work and he almost gave up.

“I purposed to get serious with the things of God and desperately sought Him. Meanwhile, my employer had stopped paying my salary arguing that I had been out of work for a long period of time,” he adds.

“A prophet of God advised me to fully re-dedicate my life to God. Although at first I was at a loss to accept her advice, I still obliged. Miraculously, after a few days, my eyes began to see a beam of light and I knew I was regaining my sight. After a month, I could see blurred imaged of people. It was a slow process but I was hopeful. Within two months, I fully regained my sight,” says an elated Simon.

 Termination from employment…

Having regained his sight, Simon returned to work to find that his employment had been terminated. Efforts to plead to have his job back bore no fruits. He was told that absence from work for over one year warranted a dismissal. He could also not get his benefits. However, he persistently reported to the offices pleading that his case was a genuine one and needed to be reviewed. This cost him his freedom when he was locked up for one and a half months at the Department of Defence and charged with disturbance of peace.

“After serving my term, I dejectedly went back to my former life in Kibera.  It was demoralising but I kept hope alive,” Simon recalls the painful events he has gone through.

“While I was blind, I composed many songs but couldn’t release them due to financial constraints. I started a shoe business, which picked up well and I raised enough money to record my first music album Ihoya riakwa, which is a prayer to God asking him to heal me. Most of the songs in the album are a testimony of my life. I have released my second album: It’s over, which is a thanksgiving to God for helping me overcome storms in life. My music is played in several local radio stations, which I thank God for,” Simon says.

Simon has dedicated his life to serving God through music and says that it has been rewarding. He no longer lives in Kibera as God has promoted him. He is grateful to his wife and his two sons for standing with him through thick and thin. Simon advises young people to work hard and not be selective in their job choices because one can start small but that does not necessarily mean that they will remain there forever.

“Even the bible says that whatever one finds to do with their hands, they should do it well and unto the Lord. Just acknowledge God in your life and don’t give up,” he says in conclusion.

Published on April 2013

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

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Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

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Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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