As Kenyans thronged polling stations in their droves yesterday to vote for the leaders of their choice, a local daily run the photograph of a woman who was seemingly consulting with her husband before casting her vote. The headline accompanying the story with the photograph, however, painted a different picture. According to the story, the husband had already chosen the candidate his wife was going to vote for since according to him ” she has little education and thus he would decide who he votes for”. As despicable as that sounds, it is also the reality. Hard as it is to believe, for women in Kenya, elections are riddled with numerous challenges. While some are denied the chance to express themselves by exercising their democratic right to vote for their preferred candidate, others have to contend with violence.
For example, former sports cabinet secretary Rashid Achesa allegedly roughed up a female journalist at a polling station in Mumias Township because she was taking photos of some of the activities going on in the station which involved the exchange of money. According to the story, the former CS then forced the journalist to delete the photos she had taken. These are just a few of the incidences that made it to the public eye.
According to the National Peace and Mediation team, there were enough reports on violence against women to raise concern. In a press release earlier today, the team noted that data collected by their moderators and observers stationed across the country and relayed to their Women Situation Room at the Radisson blue hotel in Nairobi shows that there were about 200 cases of violence against women. According to the NPMT, most of the violence reported was physical violence against women candidates, agents and voters.
This is an unfortunate situation. While the country has made tremendous progress with more women putting themselves out in the political space and taking their positions, the ground is far from level for women. It will take more than the two-thirds gender rule for women to finally be in an environment that enables them to exploit their full potential. The Kenyan society needs a paradigm shift in the way women across the divide are viewed and treated. Otherwise, we shall keep making five steps forward and ten steps backwards.
Featured Image: Women Situation Room trainees during a past training exercise. Photo||Mary Ndulili
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As the crescent moon appears in the night sky, marking the end of the ninth month of the Islamic lunar calendar, millions of people around the world transition from a period of deep reflection to one of vibrant celebration. Eid ul-Fitr, often called the “Festival of Breaking the Fast,” is one of the most significant dates in the calendar, representing a harmonious blend of spiritual accomplishment and communal joy.
Why is Eid al-Fitr celebrated?
Eid al-Fitr marks the conclusion of Ramadan, a month-long period where observers fast from dawn until sunset.The celebration is, at its core, a way to show gratitude.After thirty days of practising self-discipline, patience, and increased charity, the festival serves as a reward for the spiritual “marathon” completed during the holy month.
It is also a time to celebrate the revelation of the Quran, which is believed to have begun during the final ten days of Ramadan. By completing the fast, individuals celebrate the strength and willpower they gained, reinforcing their commitment to their values for the year ahead.
The importance of the day
Eid ul-Fitr is far more than just a day off from work or a festive meal; it serves several critical functions:
It acts as a bridge between the intense devotion of the previous month and a return to daily life, carrying forward the lessons of empathy and mindfulness.
The day begins with a special congregational prayer. This gathering brings together people from all walks of life, emphasising equality and unity within the community.
A key pillar of the holiday is Zakat al-Fitr, a mandatory charity given before Eid prayers.This ensures that everyone, regardless of their financial status, can enjoy a festive meal and join the celebration.
What does Eid al-Fitr mean?
While the literal translation is “the feast of breaking the fast,” the deeper meaning of Eid revolves around renewal.
Many view the day as an opportunity to start fresh. It is a traditional time for reconciling differences, forgiving past grievances, and strengthening bonds with family and neighbours.
After experiencing the hunger and thirst of a fast, the “Fitr” (breaking of the fast) takes on a profound meaning. It is a moment to appreciate the necessities of life (food, water, and health) that are often taken for granted.
Beyond the religious context, it is a day defined by hospitality. Homes are opened, special sweets are shared, and children often receive gifts or Eid (money), creating a sense of wonder and belonging that lasts a lifetime.
Common traditions around the world
While customs vary by region, a few hallmarks remain constant:
Wearing new or best-quality clothes to honour the occasion.
In many cultures, the holiday is nicknamed the “Sweet Eid” due to the variety of desserts, like sheer khurma or baklava, served to guests.
The universal phrase used to wish others well is “Eid Mubarak,” which translates to “Have a blessed Eid.”
In essence, Eid al-Fitr is a beautiful reminder that discipline leads to joy, and that the greatest celebrations are those shared with others.
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As the crescent moon appears in the night sky, marking the end of the ninth month of the Islamic lunar calendar, millions of people around the world transition from a period of deep reflection to one of vibrant celebration. Eid ul-Fitr, often called the “Festival of Breaking the Fast,” is one of the most significant dates in the calendar, representing a harmonious blend of spiritual accomplishment and communal joy.
Why is Eid al-Fitr celebrated?
Eid al-Fitr marks the conclusion of Ramadan, a month-long period where observers fast from dawn until sunset.The celebration is, at its core, a way to show gratitude.After thirty days of practising self-discipline, patience, and increased charity, the festival serves as a reward for the spiritual “marathon” completed during the holy month.
It is also a time to celebrate the revelation of the Quran, which is believed to have begun during the final ten days of Ramadan. By completing the fast, individuals celebrate the strength and willpower they gained, reinforcing their commitment to their values for the year ahead.
The importance of the day
Eid ul-Fitr is far more than just a day off from work or a festive meal; it serves several critical functions:
It acts as a bridge between the intense devotion of the previous month and a return to daily life, carrying forward the lessons of empathy and mindfulness.
The day begins with a special congregational prayer. This gathering brings together people from all walks of life, emphasising equality and unity within the community.
A key pillar of the holiday is Zakat al-Fitr, a mandatory charity given before Eid prayers.This ensures that everyone, regardless of their financial status, can enjoy a festive meal and join the celebration.
What does Eid al-Fitr mean?
While the literal translation is “the feast of breaking the fast,” the deeper meaning of Eid revolves around renewal.
Many view the day as an opportunity to start fresh. It is a traditional time for reconciling differences, forgiving past grievances, and strengthening bonds with family and neighbours.
After experiencing the hunger and thirst of a fast, the “Fitr” (breaking of the fast) takes on a profound meaning. It is a moment to appreciate the necessities of life (food, water, and health) that are often taken for granted.
Beyond the religious context, it is a day defined by hospitality. Homes are opened, special sweets are shared, and children often receive gifts or Eid (money), creating a sense of wonder and belonging that lasts a lifetime.
Common traditions around the world
While customs vary by region, a few hallmarks remain constant:
Wearing new or best-quality clothes to honour the occasion.
In many cultures, the holiday is nicknamed the “Sweet Eid” due to the variety of desserts, like sheer khurma or baklava, served to guests.
The universal phrase used to wish others well is “Eid Mubarak,” which translates to “Have a blessed Eid.”
In essence, Eid al-Fitr is a beautiful reminder that discipline leads to joy, and that the greatest celebrations are those shared with others.
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Modern times have pushed the narrative of moving out at 20 or 21, and it has largely been embraced. While the parents’ home is seen as a free place you pay for with your mental health, it is a strategic base for many and a point of debate for others.
Let’s explore both sides of this dilemma, using the case of Kenyan creator Hoch Muhoro to anchor the conversation.
Is moving out a strategic sanctuary or stunted growth?
For decades, the metric of success for a young African adult was defined by finishing school, getting a job, and getting your own roof. To stay a day longer was to invite whispers of a failure narrative. However, as the cost of living in cities like Nairobi skyrockets and the digital economy changes how we work, the rules of independence are being rewritten.
Hoch Muhoro redefining narratives
The conversation recently reached a fever pitch following the story of Hoch Muhoro, a Kenyan digital creator who lives with his mother. To traditionalists, his situation is an anomaly, perhaps even a failure. But to a growing number of digital nomads and strategic savers, Hoch represents a bold counter-narrative.
Hoch argues that his choice isn’t about an inability to provide but about companionship, care, and the rejection of societal timelines that don’t serve the individual. His relationship with his mother, documented with transparency, highlights a shift from dependence to intentional cohabitation.
The argument for moving out
Proponents of moving out early argue that the cold world is the only place where true character is built. There is a unique psychological drive that comes from knowing your next meal depends entirely on your hustle. This survival mode often sparks the creativity and resilience needed to excel in competitive industries.
Living alone offers the freedom to fail, to host, and to explore one’s identity without the background noise of parental expectations or curfews. In many circles, including the dating market, living at home carries a stigma of immaturity that can be hard to shake, regardless of your bank balance.
The argument for staying home
On the flip side, the Hoch Muhoro approach offers benefits that the struggle-to-pay-rent lifestyle cannot match. By eliminating rent, individuals can funnel that capital into investments, equipment for digital creation, or emergency funds.
The isolation of life alone can be brutal. Multigenerational living provides a support system that wards off the loneliness often associated with early adulthood. Living at home also allows adult children to support ageing parents, creating a symbiotic relationship rather than a parasitic one.
Context is necessary
Is it better to move out? The answer is not a yes or no, but a when and why. If staying at home makes you lazy, complacent, and fearful, it is a cage. But if, like Hoch Muhoro, it provides the peace of mind to create and the opportunity to cherish family bonds, then it is a strategic advantage.
Independence isn’t just about having your name on a lease; it’s about the ability to make decisions that best serve your future self. Maybe the most adult thing you can do is ignore the neighbours and stay where you are supported.
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