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The Silent Love: How African Parents Show They Care

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In many African cultures, the phrase “I love you” is less a spoken and more a tapestry woven through daily actions, sacrifices, and expectations.

For children raised in these homes, the language of parental affection often exists in a realm of unspoken understanding, distinct from the verbal affirmations common in Western contexts.

Understanding these non-verbal expressions is key to appreciating the deep, enduring commitment of African parenthood.

Acts of service and provision

One of the most common ways African parents communicate love is through diligent provision and ensuring stability. Their commitment to securing a better future for their children is often the ultimate expression of care.

  • Going to great lengths, often sacrificing their own comfort, to pay for the best schooling available. An expensive school fee is a vow, “I love you enough to ensure you have opportunities I didn’t.”

  • A fridge or pantry full of food is a constant, tangible reminder of love. The focus is on making sure the child is never in need, communicating security and well-being.

  • Ensuring children are neatly dressed, especially for events, is a matter of pride.

Food as affection

Food is a universal language of love, but in African homes, it carries weight, symbolising health, community, and care.

  • Often, but not always, ensuring the child gets the most desired piece of meat, fish, or portion of a meal. Even if the parent secretly wanted it, the child’s enjoyment comes first.

  • When a child is sick, the intensive, personalised preparation of traditional herbal remedies or nourishing soups is a deeply caring act, communicating, “Your health is my priority.”

  • The sheer effort and time taken to prepare complex, traditional dishes, often specific favourites, is a laborious declaration of devotion.

Protection and strict discipline

They are strict and excessively worry, often rooted in a fierce, protective love. The goal is usually to equip the child with the character and resilience needed to thrive in a tough world.

  • Constant checking in, strict curfews, and intense interest in their child’s social circles are not just attempts to control, but an attempt to shield them from potential harm or bad influences.

  • While often misunderstood, disciplinary measures are generally intended to instil values like respect, diligence, and integrity. They teach the importance of “good character”

  • High expectations in academics and future career paths are an expression of confidence.

Pride and indirect praise

Direct praise is often reserved, as there is a fear that excessive flattery could lead to arrogance. Instead, love is communicated more subtly.

  • The ultimate sign of parental approval is when they brag about their child’s accomplishments to their friends, family members, or neighbours. Hearing a parent proudly recount your success to your auntie is the closest thing to a direct “I love you.”

  • A small, satisfied nod, a soft smile, or a disposition when you’ve done well speaks volumes.

  • Teaching the child their native language, cultural traditions, history, and family stories is a profound act of love, saying: “You are my legacy, and I want you to know who you are and where you come from.”

While the lack of verbal affirmation can sometimes create a disconnect, understanding these acts reveals a love that is deeply rooted in the well-being and future success of the child.

It is a love expressed through the enduring commitment of their lives not words.

Also Read: Balancing Career And Parenthood: Tips From Working Parents

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Heartbreak as Body of 12-Year-Old Blessed Claire Muthoni Arrives Home from India

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Kenyans are mourning the loss of Blessed Claire Muthoni, a brave 12-year-old girl from Kihuri in Othaya, Nyeri County, who passed away while undergoing specialised cancer treatment in New Delhi. Claire had been fighting stage 4 cancer for over three years.

The aggressive disease took a heavy toll on her young body, eventually leading to the amputation of one of her legs. Despite the pain and the many challenges she faced, Claire remained hopeful and courageous throughout her journey, inspiring many who followed her story.

On January 19, 2026, she travelled to India with her mother in search of advanced treatment aimed at saving her remaining leg and managing the cancer that had spread to her lungs. The journey was filled with hope, supported by Kenyans from all walks of life who contributed towards her treatment and kept her in their prayers.

A brave fight

While in India, Claire underwent several chemotherapy sessions. Unfortunately, her condition worsened after developing complications, leading to her admission to the Intensive Care Unit. She passed away in hospital last week, leaving behind a grieving family and a nation that had stood with her.

On Monday, March 30, 2026, her remains arrived at Jomo Kenyatta International Airport. The atmosphere at the airport was filled with grief as family members, friends and well-wishers gathered to receive her. Her mother returned home alone, carrying a loss no parent should have to endure.

Claire will be laid to rest in her home area of Othaya in the coming days, as her family begins the difficult process of saying their final goodbyes.

Her story touched thousands across the country, many of whom followed her journey through updates and fundraising efforts. She became a symbol of strength and resilience, and her passing has deeply affected those who had hoped to see her recover.

Beyond the grief, her story has once again brought attention to the challenges families face when dealing with childhood cancer in Kenya. The high cost of specialised treatment, limited access to advanced care locally, and the emotional and financial strain on families often force many to seek treatment abroad.

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Heartbreak as Body of 12-Year-Old Blessed Claire Muthoni Arrives Home from India

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Kenyans are mourning the loss of Blessed Claire Muthoni, a brave 12-year-old girl from Kihuri in Othaya, Nyeri County, who passed away while undergoing specialised cancer treatment in New Delhi. Claire had been fighting stage 4 cancer for over three years.

The aggressive disease took a heavy toll on her young body, eventually leading to the amputation of one of her legs. Despite the pain and the many challenges she faced, Claire remained hopeful and courageous throughout her journey, inspiring many who followed her story.

On January 19, 2026, she travelled to India with her mother in search of advanced treatment aimed at saving her remaining leg and managing the cancer that had spread to her lungs. The journey was filled with hope, supported by Kenyans from all walks of life who contributed towards her treatment and kept her in their prayers.

A brave fight

While in India, Claire underwent several chemotherapy sessions. Unfortunately, her condition worsened after developing complications, leading to her admission to the Intensive Care Unit. She passed away in hospital last week, leaving behind a grieving family and a nation that had stood with her.

On Monday, March 30, 2026, her remains arrived at Jomo Kenyatta International Airport. The atmosphere at the airport was filled with grief as family members, friends and well-wishers gathered to receive her. Her mother returned home alone, carrying a loss no parent should have to endure.

Claire will be laid to rest in her home area of Othaya in the coming days, as her family begins the difficult process of saying their final goodbyes.

Her story touched thousands across the country, many of whom followed her journey through updates and fundraising efforts. She became a symbol of strength and resilience, and her passing has deeply affected those who had hoped to see her recover.

Beyond the grief, her story has once again brought attention to the challenges families face when dealing with childhood cancer in Kenya. The high cost of specialised treatment, limited access to advanced care locally, and the emotional and financial strain on families often force many to seek treatment abroad.

Read our March issue here 

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Shock as Section of Gikomba Shoe Market Demolished Overnight

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Traders at Nairobi’s bustling Gikomba Market are counting heavy losses after a section of the popular shoe market (mitumba shoe section) was demolished overnight by Nairobi City County enforcement teams. The operation took place in the early hours of Tuesday morning.

Videos and photos circulating on social media show destroyed merchandise and devastated traders who arrived at the market this morning to find their businesses in ruins. According to reports, the county government carried out the demolition after an eviction notice lapsed. This happened even though the High Court (Environment and Land Court) had earlier issued and extended conservatory orders in March 2026, halting mass demolitions and evictions at Gikomba and surrounding areas along the Nairobi River.

Repeated demolitions

Demolitions at Gikomba are not new. As far back as 1977, the original market was brought down by the government to pave the way for light industries. In recent years, attention has shifted to the riparian land along the Nairobi River, with authorities proposing to expand the buffer zone from 30 metres to 50 metres in a bid to control flooding.

Many traders have raised concerns over what they describe as poor consultation, shifting relocation plans and the lack of a clear and secure alternative site. There are also growing fears that the process could open the door to land grabbing and cartel involvement.

Impact

For most traders at Gikomba, the market is more than just a place of business. It is their only source of livelihood. Repeated fires and demolitions have created a cycle of uncertainty, financial strain and constant rebuilding. Many small business owners say they struggle to recover after each loss, only to face another setback months later.

Calls for improved fire safety measures, fair relocation plans and meaningful engagement with authorities continue to grow louder. Without long term and sustainable solutions, Gikomba traders will continue to bear the high cost of operating in one of Nairobi’s busiest yet most vulnerable markets.

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