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The Shame of Africa

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Please don’t let us become the shame of Africa.

Frustrations of landing to a dark airport by Eunice Mathu.

Sunday December 10, 2023. I arrive at Lilongwe Airport in Malawi for my short flight to Nairobi. Upon arrival at the airport, the now too familiar message from Kenya Airways frequent fliers arrives (glad I am not one of them) –  Flight delayed! Not again KQ – the Pride of Africa or (Shame of Africa)? You did the same with my flight from JKIA to Lilongwe a few days before. Reasons on both flights being delayed – “operational issues” – whatever that means.

We eventually left Lilongwe two hour late with a stopover at Nampula, Mozambique. I was looking forward to a late dinner at home as estimated arrival into JKIA was 10.05 pm. The nightmare began on landing – the airport had experienced another blackout! There were long chaotic queues in Terminal 1A, everyone trying to clear through immigration from all the KQ flights that had arrived from various destinations. Every time darkness engulfed the terminal, and it did several times, my phone became handy.

But the real nightmare was in the baggage hall. Frustrated passengers hurdled together like in a cattle market, waiting for their luggage or rummaging through suitcases and suitcases scattered everywhere. I don’t know how many times I walked from one carrousel to another, hoping my bag would be there. Eventually, after close to two hours of waiting, it appeared at a carrousel marked for other flights.

Then onto the even longer Custom’s queue. Having not seen the inside of a shop in Malawi, I joined ‘the nothing to declare’ line. But did it matter? Those on my line went through more scrutiny than those on ‘goods to declare’ line.

I have lived through all the presidents of this country but only became a traveler during Moi’s presidency. If you went out of the country and purchased a gift for your mother, you would be thoroughly harassed at the airport – not to pay tax but to give ‘kitu kidogo’. To avoid this harassment, those who could, organised to be met at the baggage hall and escorted through customs.

I was saddened to witness that we have gone back to the Moi days. I observed many travelers with escorts being ushered through the customs without having their luggage screened. I lost my cool when it was my time to pass and this lady customs officer told me to place my small carrier bag and handbag into the screening machine, and guys with suitcases and suitcases – obviously coming from destinations like London or Johannesburg where you can do some shopping being let through. I placed my bags but not without giving the custom’s officer a piece of my mind – “Can this rule apply to everyone!” I told her. She just looked at me as if I was talking to myself.

Please, President Ruto, don’t let our country become the “Shame of Africa.” I travel a lot and going through airports, even in our neighboring countries, is always a pleasant experience. I just couldn’t imagine the impression first time visitors to Kenya on that Sunday thought about our country. To be honest, I would not travel to such a chaotic airport unless I had to.

I know a couple who were thinking of having their destination wedding in Mt Kenya Safari Club next year but they have changed their plans if coming to Nairobi means even the wedding gown will be taxed!

I eventually arrived home at 1.30 am, hungry, angry and exhausted, to a dark. Thank God for the blessing of a generator. I could warm my food.

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

Click here to read our March issue 2026

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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