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The POWER of meditation

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Do you have occasions when you are beset with stress, work overload or everyday frustrations? We all do. It is at such times when we reach out for things that bring order, peace and calmness into our lives. Some of us do the wrong things like indulging in alcohol, smoking or overeating, but there are many healthier ways of getting your life back in balance including exercise, spirituality and meditation.

I want to share with you the power I have found in meditation. I discovered meditation as a great healing tool some two years ago when my doctor found I had slightly elevated blood pressure and put me on medication. My pharmacist advised me to try yoga and meditation to manage my blood pressure. Since that time, I try to include a few minutes of meditation in my morning routine, which includes exercise, long relaxing baths and bible and motivational books reading during breakfast. I call this my “me time” and unless I have early morning meetings, I will strictly adhere to this routine.

I have found that meditation really works wonders in calming you down and helping you set your day’s agenda and stick to it. Just a few minutes a day in meditation helps you ease stress, and gives you the power to stick to your goals. My days are more productive and less stressful when I meditate in the morning.

Meditation is a state of deep physical relaxation combined with acute mental alertness – it’s like taking a nap, but you don’t fall asleep, you fall awake. There are many ways to achieve this including meditative silence, prayer, listening to calming music, or purely focusing on something that will hold your attention. Observing your breath, which naturally tends to become slower and deeper as you relax, is a key part of meditation.

I have no one way of meditating – sometimes I will lie on a warm scented bath and just relax while breathing in deeply and trying to get in touch with every part of my body, other times I will sit quietly and do the exercise I have given below, other times I will just put on relaxing music, while at other times I will just get into deep prayer. In all these I seek to get in touch with my soul, achieve inner peace, relax and focus.

Meditation has been practiced for thousands of years in Eastern cultures, but it’s only in the last century that the rest of the world noticed it. Researchers and doctors in many parts of the world today endorse meditation’s proven health benefits, which are many, and include:

Decreases respiratory and heart rates, and elevated blood pressure.

Relieves muscle tension when combined with progressive relaxation.

Causes stress hormones in the blood to drop.

Boosts immunity.

Is more restful than a nap – it causes oxygen consumption (a measure of how hard the body is working) to drop more than it does when you sleep.

I always thought I was a relaxed person because I am quite active and exercise is part of my lifestyle, until I tasted that sweet sensation of head-to-toe peace during meditation. You discover how great it feels not to be tense in your neck and shoulders when you meditate. You learn to tap into the exercise of taking a few slow, calming breaths when faced with challenging situations, including work tensions and even physical pain.

Besides relaxation, in meditation you cultivate the art of paying attention. After meditation you feel a little more present with yourself all day. That presence, or mindfulness, can improve the quality of almost everything you do. It helps you stop living in the past or the future but to savour the present moment – the only place you can find pleasure and fulfillment now.

Aside from the beneficial effects on your health and body, meditation also leads to improvement in the way you work. My work requires order to meet strict deadlines and concentration to turn out excellent work. Meditation helps me achieve my work-related goals. Meditation also helps remove fear from your life, which can impair your decision-making skills, through controlled breathing techniques. But mark you, meditation is not the kind of thing you do once and forget. To reap the benefits you have to practice it regularly.

As with anything that’s truly worth doing, you need to be motivated. You have to make time for meditation and not wait until you can find time. You can meditate in any place as long as it’s quiet and without disruptions. While walking in the streets, taking a shower, or before falling asleep, take a few conscious breaths and savour the sensory pleasure of the moment. In it’s many forms, meditation is a pleasurable indulgence, and above all, it’s about yourself. So, go ahead and give it a try.

MEDITATION EXERCISE

De-stress instantly with this simple exercise, which I find easy to do most mornings. You can’t begin to imagine how good it makes me feel, until you try it for yourself:

1. Sit quietly in a comfortable position and close your eyes. Deeply relax all your muscles, beginning at your feet and progressing up to your face. Keep them relaxed.

2. Breath through your nose. Become aware of each inhalation and exhalation, but don’t force deep breaths. As you breath out, silently say a positive word like “love.” Breathe easily and naturally, and continue for 10 to 20 minutes.

3. When your thoughts inevitably wonder, direct your attention back to breathing and repeating the word “love.”

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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