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Teens and Body Image: Is your teen eating well?

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When we talk about adolescent health in Kenya, conversations often circle around academics, relationships, or the impact of social media. Yet quietly, beneath the surface, another concern is growing. Body image dissatisfaction and eating-related struggles are increasingly present among Kenyan teenagers, shaping not only how they see themselves but also how they participate in school, friendships, and family life.

Recent Kenyan research has found that eating disorders, while under-reported, are not rare. Binge eating disorder affects a small but significant percentage of adolescents, with symptoms such as eating large amounts in secret or feeling distress after meals showing up in more young people than many parents might assume. University studies in Nairobi have also highlighted how negative body image can chip away at self-esteem and influence mental health long after the teenage years.

For girls, the pressure often leans toward being thinner, while boys are more likely to focus on gaining size or muscle. In both cases, the dissatisfaction begins early, sometimes as puberty reshapes the body. By late adolescence, many young people are already caught in cycles of dieting, over-exercising, or comparison, habits that can be difficult to unlearn.

One reason is the pull of social media. Kenyan teenagers scroll through the same feeds as their global peers, where edited images and “fitness inspiration” accounts set unrealistic standards. The more time spent comparing themselves to influencers or even classmates online, the more likely teens are to report dissatisfaction with their own bodies.

Cultural shifts are also at play. Traditionally, in many Kenyan communities, a healthy appetite or a fuller body was not seen negatively. Today, globalised ideals of beauty are filtering in, creating a clash between cultural pride and imported standards. For some teenagers, this tension can spark shame or confusion.

Beyond appearance

It is important to remember that eating concerns are not just about food. They often overlap with wider mental health struggles. In Kenya, mental disorders are one of the leading causes of disability among young people, and body image plays a quiet but significant role. Disordered eating behaviours can also connect with substance use, depression, or anxiety, making early recognition essential.

What parents and schools should notice

Some signs are obvious, others more subtle. A teenager might suddenly avoid family meals, start cutting out entire food groups, or insist on strict exercise routines despite being unwell. Others might obsess over weighing themselves or checking mirrors. Even boys, often overlooked in this discussion, may push themselves into risky supplement use to achieve a “bigger” look.

Teachers and parents are often the first to notice these changes, but without awareness, the signs can be dismissed as “normal teenage behaviour.” Left unchecked, these habits can harden into disorders that are far more difficult to treat in adulthood.

What helps

Schools are a natural starting point. Kenya’s School Health Policy already gives a framework for promoting wellbeing in classrooms. By weaving in media literacy, screening tools, and clear referral pathways, schools could become safe spaces where body image issues are recognised early.

Parents, too, have a powerful role. That begins with language. Instead of praising a child’s appearance or commenting on weight, focus on strength, talents, and effort. Avoid making food a reward or punishment, and model balanced eating yourself. At home, encourage conversations about what teenagers see online, helping them question filters and trends without shame.

And when concerns are visible, professional support matters. Counselling can be framed positively—not as a crisis measure but as a way of giving young people tools to cope and thrive.

The bigger picture

Body image is not always easy to talk about, especially in a culture where children’s health has long been tied to weight. But recognising the quiet rise of eating concerns in Kenyan adolescents is a step towards protecting not only their physical wellbeing but also their confidence and mental health.

This is not about restricting joy or policing teenagers’ habits. It is about noticing, listening, and creating safe spaces where young people can grow into adulthood without the burden of shame about their bodies.

Because when we give adolescents the freedom to feel comfortable in their own skin, we hand them something more powerful than beauty. We hand them resilience.

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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