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SIGNS THAT TELL your child is not well

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Jane considers her two-year-old son to be typical of children his age – lively with just enough dose of self-entertainment; he is a mother’s dream. So when one evening he slept earlier than usual, fending off his dinner, Jane dismissed it as extreme fatigue hoping a quick catnap would restore him back to his energetic self. However, he slept through the night and the better part of the morning.

Going with her gut feeling, Jane knew something was amiss and made a doctor’s appointment. Her instincts were not far off. Several hours later, she walked out of the hospital with a barrage of drugs as her doctor confirmed an infection. It is easy to nip infections in the bud when it comes to children – it only calls for keen observation on the following signs.

Decreased activity: Aside from unusually long naps, drowsiness and extreme calmness to the point of no activity fall into this category. Watch out for decreased eye contact, response to noises, movement and extreme need to cuddle. The higher a baby’s level of drowsiness, the higher the risk of a serious illness. While occasionally, children may go off solids, going off liquids such as water or milk, is a more dangerous sign, as opposed to normal appetite loss. Consult your paeditrician immediately.

Incessant crying: This is usually a baby’s way of responding to pain and a parent’s fastest and best tool in terms of determining underlying dangers in an infant. Watch out also for whimpers as they could indicate pain. If your child cries alot, listen for the difference in the cry. Is it high pitched? Have their gestures pitched? For instance, do they recoil while crying? Do they keep on tagging their ears or refuse to swallow food. These could be indicators of an ear, throat or stomach infection among other issues.

High temperature: Fevers are the body’s external indicators for internal anomalies. Most fevers tend to be harmless but higher temperatures, above 38 degrees Celsius (normal is between 36 and 37 degrees Celsius), warrant a visit to the doctor.

Unusual breathing: This involves difficulty in breathing, fast breathing, grunting while breathing, or if your child sucks in their stomach under their ribs while breathing. Unusual breathing can be a sign of many things including choking, pneumonia or an asthma attack.

Rashes: Most rashes are harmless. However, any rash that develops into blisters, followed by fever or vomiting, or occurs after giving medication or a new food, is an indication of an allergic reaction. Any rash that spreads fast could be an indicator of a more serious disease such as bacterial meningitis, which is characterised by reddish to purplish rashes. On darker skin, check on paler areas such as the palms of the hands, soles of the feet, on the tummy, inside the eyelids and on the roof of the mouth. You can also do the glass test. Press a transparent glass against the rashes. If the rashes appear clearly through the glass, then seek treatment.

Vomiting: Vomiting is common in children and often times is caused by a stomach bug. However, if your newborn vomits repeatedly and forcefully, especially after every feed, it could be an indicator of pyloric stenosis, a thickening of the valve muscle between the stomach and the small intestine. If the vomit is yellowish or greenish in colour, your child could be vomiting bile, a liver secretion, which could indicate a gastrointestinal obstruction. Vomiting accompanied by blood, rashes, fever and stiff neck are also good enough reasons to visit your paeditrician.

Convulsions: Convulsions are states of altered consciousness and can happen in different forms and ways (as covered in depth in the Child Clinic column in the January 2015 issue). A child can appear to be in a trance, body stiffening and becoming unresponsive or may have a fit with her limbs twitching and eyes rolling in the back of her head. Their cause range from fevers to diseases such as epilepsy but either way, consult a doctor once they occur for a correct diagnosis, especially if it is the first time it has occurred.

 

 

 

Published in November 2015

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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