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Shut-eye moment: What science says about sleep

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We spend around a third of our lives sleeping, but how many of you know exactly what goes on behind those closed eyelids? How many of you, especially women, miss out on this essential body function because of your various time consuming roles? Read on to know why sleep is essential.

Sleeping is life renewing. It is far from an idle state as most people think. In fact, you are labeled lazy if you sleep too much. While we are dozing, our brains and bodies are working at full intensity to repair what happened to the body and organs during the previous day and renew for the next. Though you may not be aware of what goes on when you are sleeping, some of your organs remain in another state of consciousness.

While you were sleeping…

Most living creatures get their bodies to rest in one way or another, while humans and other animals sleep. Sleep is not passive – many things happen while you are sleeping. Your immune system is boosting your defenses, your skin’s metabolic rate speeds up (hence the saying ‘beauty sleep’) and you produce HGH (human growth hormone), which helps maintain and renew your muscles and bones. Levels of sex hormones also reach a peak when you are sleeping.

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Women are notorious for not getting enough sleep as they try to cope with the many tasks they deal with each day, especially being wives and mothers and may be also holding full time jobs. To put the importance of sleep into context, we should look at the consequences of not getting any, or enough of it.

A lack of sleep has serious implications. Creative and working memory are reduced, there is deterioration in physical performance, a general lack of energy, and weariness. Missing out on sleep makes you less efficient and unable to function normally. It also lowers your immunity so you are more likely to get infections such as the common cold. More fatal car accidents are related to sleepiness than to driving while under the influence of alcohol or drugs.

And if you need any more convincing of its importance, a lack of sleep has also been linked to many serious conditions including Type 2 diabetes and depression.

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While you were dreaming…

Sleep can be broken down into structured phases or cycles where each lasts about 90 to 100 minutes, so you normally have around five per slumber. The first four are known as NREM (non-rapid eye movement) and the last is the deep, dream sleep or REM (rapid eye movement).

During NREM, our brain and body cells, which have been active during the day, tend to be less active and get rid of waste products to regenerate for the next day. The whole body gradually slows down and works more on its reflexes.

REM is so called because of the jerky movements under the eyelids that are linked to dreaming. We dream throughout our sleep, but it’s more intense in this stage. The cerebral cortex – the part of the brain that controls sensory information, initiates movement and experiences emotions – is active in a different way to wakefulness, so our dreams are illogical. Our muscles are relaxed, except for our breathing and hearing so our dreams aren’t physically acted out.

Why we dream is a matter of fierce debate. The greatest argument is that because we are processing memories at night and our dreams are related to events and people we have encountered during the day or the recent past, they are the mind’s way of fishing out what’s important, turning them into long-term memories and throwing out the rest. So don’t let dreams scare you – they have a purpose in your life.

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Your daily rest is important…

So how much shut-eye should we be getting? The average time you require is seven to eight hours a night. Modern life, however, has left most of us slumber-starved, particularly those working in urban areas where the commutes take much of their time. Experts say too little or too much of sleep is not good for your overall well being. When you get under six or beyond nine hours, there’s likely to be a problem. But we are all different. Some of us are simply better at entering a deep sleep – the stage that recharges us – so need less, just as some of us are biologically and socially geared towards early mornings. The most important is to ensure you are getting at least seven hours of shut-eye through a 24-hour cycle.

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When you can’t get to sleep…

Up to a third of people have one or other sleep disorder – snoring, insomnia or restless leg syndrome, for example. These can disturb our sleep patterns but once you have dealt with the underlying physical barrier, experts say there are fail-safe ways to ensure you sleep well. Regular sleeping and waking-up times, taking exercise and being exposed to bright light during the day are some of the recommendations.

In the evening, set aside time to wind down. Write a diary half an hour before getting into bed to cleanse your mind. Avoid mental and physical stimulants, such as exciting movies, social media and caffeine. A little alcohol may help entice sleep, but in excess it suppresses REM sleep and makes you feel tired the next day.

Eat foods that release the amino acid tryptophan such as oats, bananas, kiwi fruit, milk or turkey, to aid sleep. Tryptophan helps boost brain levels of calming neurotransmitter serotonin and the hormone melatonin. Also ensure your bed is comfortable and your bedroom is quiet, dark and not too hot or cold.

If you can’t get to sleep, get out of bed and listen to quiet soothing music or read, then go back to bed when you feel sleepy. Don’t watch TV or be on the phone, as these will disrupt your sleep even more.

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

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Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

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Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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