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SECRETS TO AGEING WELL FROM GRACEFUL AGERS

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Ageing is inevitable but wouldn’t you want to get better with each passing year just like fine wine? If you analyse the lives of some graceful agers, you will learn that they have regimes they stick to that work for them. Here are some of the things they do differently for that youthful look.

They avoid too much make up. With age, the skin becomes more fragile and thins out, making the most common signs of ageing – fine lines, wrinkles, loss of elasticity and skin sagging – more apparent. It is common for people to apply too much make-up in an attempt to hide wrinkles, brown spots, and bags. However, make-up only enhances one’s natural beauty and too much of it will backfire on you. Simple does it.

They always wear sunscreen. When it comes to wrinkles, everyone is looking for that mythical fountain of youth only that it is elusive. And since it is almost impossible to avoid the lines and wrinkles due to the sun’s rays, skin care experts advice people to religiously wear sunscreen on their face from as early as their 20s in order to keep their skin looking younger and healthier throughout the ages. Therefore, investing in a good sunscreen and applying it every morning is a must. In order to get optimal protection against harmful, cancer-causing ultraviolet (UV) rays, it is recommended that you use sunscreen with a broad-spectrum sun protection factor (SPF) of 30 or higher.

They watch their diet. Your diet affects the way you age. An unhealthy diet can do a lot more harm than causing you to put on extra weight. Sugar, for instance, is not your skin’s friend and according to experts, it is the most ageing food that we consume in addition to weakening the immune system. Eat a healthy, balanced diet made up of lean proteins, whole grains and vitamin C as found in brightly coloured fruits and vegetables. Don’t ignore fats, as your skin needs some fat, especially the good kind found in nuts and olive oil since it makes your skin supple.

If you must take alcohol, take it in moderation as alcohol dries out your skin and can lead to wrinkles and premature ageing. In addition, alcohol causes bloating and dark circles under your eyes – nothing youthful about that, right? While at it ensure that you take lots of water. Doctors recommend six to eight glasses of water daily for overall good health because water aids in digestion, circulation and absorption. Also, drinking water gives you a radiant, healthy, younger-looking complexion.

They tend to their hands. Nothing shows your real age like your hands. Whereas people tend to pay attention to their face, they often forget their hands and the protruding veins and wrinkles on it betray their age. Apart from the face, the other body part that gets the most sun is the hand. The sun causes the skin to lose its elasticity leading to sagging. This is in addition to the fact that hands have fewer oil glands meaning that the skin loses its elasticity faster and becomes wrinkly more rapidly. So it is important to get into the habit of moisturising your hands frequently as well as applying a good anti-ageing hand cream on them at least twice a day. As you apply sunscreen on your face, remember to rub some on your hands as well.

They keep stress at bay. Stress is part and parcel of life but how you choose to react to it is entirely up to you. You need to learn how to manage stress as it can cause an array of health problems such as lack of sleep, depression, and heart disease. Stress also ages you quickly; studies show that stress can make you appear up to 10 years older. Practice meditation, do simple regular exercises such as walking or jogging as these help tame your stress levels. Also ensure you get as much sleep as possible. The recommended sleeping time is seven to nine hours daily.

 

Published in September 2016

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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