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RESTFULNESS…Taking a break

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Woop! Woop! December is here and for most of us, it signals the end of an era or chapter. It isn’t uncommon to hear someone exclaim, “Can this year end already!” The exclamation sums up 365 days of toil and the person thus looks forward to a New Year hoping that whatever he went through in that year will be left behind.

 The other thing with December, and which most people look forward to, is the holiday between Christmas and the New Year, short as it may be. Others preserve their leave throughout the year so they can make the holiday longer and with good reasons. Who doesn’t want to start the New Year rejuvenated and on the right footing?

And what better way to rejuvenate than taking a restful break from the hustle and bustle of life? It’s been a long year of deadlines, incessant emails, ringing phones and annoying traffic.

Many are the times you have slumped on your seat at home and dozed off as the day’s demanding activities take a toll on you, not to mention the red eyes from sleepless nights trying to figure out that problem at work. Worse still, you might be a workaholic and the idea of a minibreak during the year sounded ludicrous. Well, here is a chance for you to recoup your energy levels for the year ahead. You will need it.

The disadvantage of going for long without taking a restful break is that you will wear out physically, emotionally and psychologically, which puts you at a health risk. It is thus important for us to take a rest, not just at the end of the year, but whenever we are tired.

On that note, even at our workplaces, it is recommended for one to take regular breaks during the day. A meaningful and rejuvenating break will call for you to completely switch off from the work at hand and do something that does not require concentration or willpower such as browsing through the Internet, reading a magazine, taking a walk or a brief chat with a fellow employee.

Ironically, it is during the most demanding time of your day, that moment when a break is the last thing on your mind, that you are required to take a break to prevent yourself from becoming exhausted.

The benefits of resting are many and varied. At work, rest decreases the tendencies  to make mistakes as you are able to focus better and when work is done properly, you will be at loggerheads with your managers. You also decrease the risk of becoming lethargic meaning you are in a better position to complete tasks on time.

By resting, you also reduce stress-induced diseases such as hypertension, migraine and stomach ulcers. Rest also enhances your frame of mind enabling you to be more friendly and fun to be around with instead of snapping at everyone and everything around you because you are tired. You will also be good-looking as there is nothing attractive about a tired face with baggy eyes. Rest also facilitates better eating habits.

Resting gives you time to do things you love such as spending time with your family and friends. And, God knows, nothing is as rejuvenating as spending quality time with those you love. We urge you, therefore, to take a restful break this holiday season. The following activities may help you do just that:

Read a book or novel Be in a natural environment Spend sometime alone Listen to music Do nothing in particular Take a long, leisure walk Daydream Watch TV or catch up with the latest

series Meditate

Sleep better

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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