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RADHIKA LEE’S Redemption Song…

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Before Radhika Lee released her memoir, Rainbows in My Clouds, many of those who knew her could only identify her as the successful founder and director of Nairobi International School (NIS). But as the memoir reveals, the 54-year-old has risen above tremendous personal tribulations to get to where she is today. She took ESTHER KIRAGU through her turbulent past and how she finally redeemed herself.

A glance at a rather joyful Radhika Lee cannot give a true picture of what she has gone through in life. You have to interact with her to know what lies beyond the warm personality you first encounter. As with most success stories, Radhika’s begins with humble beginnings in a tiny village called Cherai in Kerala, India. She has fond memories of a rather normal childhood marked largely by family and religion.

“I spent a huge chunk of my formative years in India. I lived with nuns, despite being born a Hindu, during my schooling years,” she kicks off the interview at her offices in Lavington, Nairobi County.

A disrupted life…

Her life was rather smooth up until her family fortunes changed forcing her to seek employment in Kenya in 1986 at the age of 24. “In the 80’s, the socialist policy in India was unfavourable for job creation and I needed a job badly to provide for my family,” she says, adding that she found her way to Kenya with the help of an Indian friend whose father had come here.

But Radhika was soon to learn the highs and lows of life living in a foreign land, coupled with the struggles of the teaching profession. Her first job as a teacher of English in Mombasa was at a school in dilapidated conditions. “The classrooms were ramshackle but despite this, I still enjoyed being around students, attesting that my calling truly is to children,” she says.

Young and naïve, the Master of Arts (MA) degree holder hadn’t even bothered to find out what her salary would be prior to travelling miles away from home for a job. Luckily, after a rocky patch in Mombasa, she landed a teaching job in Nairobi and years later would go on to work in various schools some of which were of international status.

“My fiancée followed me here from India and we later on got married, excited to spend our lives together,” she explains. However, the joys would only last for so long. As she settled into her marriage, she soon found out that her husband was an alcoholic.

Despite the many dire, life-threatening incidents, she stayed on in her marriage, losing her voice, dignity as well as friends.

“In the end , I left home with my son who was then 17 years. And when my son pleaded with me not to go back to the house, I knew I had to do something as we had suffered enough,” says Radhika recalling the day she decided to break free from her 20-year-old violent marriage.

Setting up a school of international status…

Armed with her son, an enormous teaching experience, as well as a dream to start a school, Radhika ventured to a new path, recalling how parents regaled her with compliments on her seamless ease with youngsters. Having worked in the education sector for over 20 years in various positions ranging from teacher to school principal, she knew first hand the many problems that plagued Kenyan schools.

“Sometimes as a teacher you want to make changes to a rather rigid system and you end up feeling frustrated and helpless when nothing changes,” she explains.

And so when the challenge of trying to express her ideas for improvement to her employers continued to yield no results, she eventually decided that the only solution would be to take matters into her own hands. Thus the idea of the Nairobi International School was born.

“I approached several local financial institutions to help me raise raise funds but soon learnt the nightmare that start-ups face when looking for funding. I was turned away for lack of collateral,” she recounts.

Through the help of a friend, Radhika got to know about GroFin, a venture capitalist company that helps in financing and supporting small and growing businesses across Africa and the Middle East. “They agreed to partner with me and literally held my hand,” she explains.

Alas! On September 15, 2008, Nairobi International School opened its doors to 35 students from grade seven to 13. Three years later, she opened the preparatory section and six years later the kindergarten. It has been eight years since the inception of the school and it has over 600 students in its three arms – pre-school, prep – school and senior school. The school not only serves the local community, but also the international community.

A tour round the school attests to the state-of-the-art technology as well as a beautiful and spacious art studio, a music room complete with various instruments, two basketball courts and spacious playgrounds for students. The school provides laptops for every student and teacher, with the latter being offered endless training opportunities. A big believer of the need to conserve the environment, Radhika has ensured the school is eco-friendly. Each year, students and teachers alike commit to an eco-friendly project.

Her son is actively involved in running the school, a succession strategy to ensure smooth continuity of the school’s legacy. The two have a close-knit relationship. “We hang out and enjoy each other’s company,” she says lovingly adding she unwinds by listening to rock music, cooking and attending musical concerts.

Becoming an author…

Radhika says when she began to put down her life experiences in a journal; she had no idea that these would one day translate into a book. “I had been writing on and off for about 12 years, as a form of therapy because I didn’t have someone I could really talk to about my feelings,” she explains.

A nudge by Jeff Koinange, whom she met by chance at Heathrow Airport in London, led to a conversation about books and writing. She ended up sharing her manuscript with him and he thought it had huge potential. “I am glad he pushed me to finish writing the book and publish it,” she says of her memoir – Rainbow in My Clouds – whose title was inspired by the many dark moments in her life (clouds) as well as moments of hope (rainbows), a line inspired by the late American author and poet Maya Angelou.

So inspiring is her story that in 2012, John Couch, Apple’s Vice President (Education), asked her to speak to a gathering of 700 delegates at a conference in Vienna, Austria. In addition, her memoir has been selected as one of the books to be studied at the University of Nairobi.

Radhika hopes that those who read the book will find inspiration to never give up on life despite their circumstances. “Don’t get stuck in life no matter what you are going through. We all have the strength within us to move forward,” she says.

She has dedicated all the proceeds from the sale of the book to the Cancer Awareness and Treatment Support Initiative (CATSI) that she set up in 2008 as a corporate social responsibility arm of the school.

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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