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PURITY KAGWIRIA Nurturing young women leaders

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Purity Kagwiria has been advocating for women’s rights issues for over a decade. She stumbled into the women’s right movement accidentally during her college days while training as a journalist. As a requirement prior to graduation, one needed to submit a research paper linked to a current issue they felt passionate about.

“I struggled to find a topic that I could resonate with. But by sheer coincidence, I came across a book that highlighted the issue of violence against women in Kenya and it was then, out of curiosity, that I lurched into gender-related issues,” she explains.

Relentless pursuit for women’s emancipation…

The book became an eye opener for her and when she learnt that there were individuals and organisations working towards alleviating gender-based violence, Purity felt compelled to join this cause. She secured an internship in the advocacy department at Coalition on Violence Against Women (COVAW), an organisation that works to promote and advance women’s rights through working towards a society free from all forms of violence against women.

“I used to accompany Anne Gathumbi,  the then executive director at COVAW to various high–level meetings. It is in these meetings that I gained a lot of insight on the women rights movement,” she says.

Purity went on to be involved in mentorship of girls and young women at the institution. One of her highlights at COVAW was being part of the team that collected signatures from the public to petition the Kenyan government to ratify the Maputo Protocol – an African treaty advocating for comprehensive rights for women.

The rights included taking part in the political process, social and political equality with men, improved autonomy in women’s reproductive health decisions, and to put an end to female genital mutilation (FGM).

“I came face to face with victims of gender-based violence and listening to their stories was not only heartbreaking, but also served as a reminder that the efforts we were making towards fighting gender-based violence were going to directly make an impact,” she says.

Today, Purity is proud that she was part of those who contributed towards the protocol, which was eventually ratified in 2010.

She then transitioned to Young Women leadership Institute (YWLI), a feminist organization that was formed by a group of young women to address the intergenerational gap in the women’s movement.

YWLI recognizes that young women need a space to nurture their leadership capacities, and offer empowerment through different activities in leadership development, movement building, and sexuality programs.

She would go on to further her work with young women at the organisation by holding regular self-empowerment sessions.

As if the universe was steering her on the path to follow, Purity went on to work at the Education Centre for Women in Democracy (ECWD), an organisation that focuses on increasing the presence of women in leadership and decision-making positions, with a focus on quality and capacity and to work towards the creation of a more conducive environment for the equal participation of women.

Efforts were made to prepare many women political aspirants in a bid to increase the number of women at the decision making table.

At the helm of Akili Dada…

Purity is the current executive director of Akili Dada – a leadership incubator working to increase young African women’s access to decision making – a position she has served for three years. Purity’s conviction is that for there to be more women representation in leadership, young girls need to be molded and mentored from an early age to take up leadership.

“It is difficult for a girl who has never led anywhere to wake up one day as a young woman and pursue a leadership position. Therefore, mentorship helps to tap into a girl’s potential as a leader within herself first so that she can gain the confidence to lead others,” she asserts.

As a result, Akili Dada has built a wealth of network of mentors who volunteer their time and expertise to train and guide young girls in high school. Overtime, the mentorship programme has been solidified to a skills-based mentoring programme that equips girls with skills that can make them relevant in the job market.

A beneficiary of scholarships from well-wishers having been brought up by her grandparents who struggled to educate her, Purity understands too well that giving a hand to a girl can totally transform her life. Thus Akili Dada offers scholarship programmes to girls in various national schools in Kenya.

“The recruitment process for the scholarships is rigorous and involves the girls applying for it and going through a series of interviews. We also have a support system beyond Akili Dada because we believe that while money is a key factor in accessing education, it is not the only factor. Therefore, we work with a community that includes the guardian/parent, the beneficiary, the school and Akili Dada,” she expounds.

Purity believes that by educating young girls, Akili Dada is contributing towards gender equality and empowerment by intentionally nurturing, equipping as well as bringing young girls into the gender-empowerment conversations because they are the next generation of African women who will carry on the work.

“We are focused on growing a generation of girls and young women who can articulate the issues that affect them and others. And education is a powerful tool that will give them a voice,” she says with much conviction.

Once the girls have completed high school, they are enrolled in Akili Dada’s one-year Gap programme as they wait to join college. During that year, they volunteer in community primary schools in Nairobi County.

“The 2015 cohort started a library project in Kawangware during their gap year and mobilised the public for books and stocked it up. The 2016 cohort started a soap-making project with parents in the schools they were attached to in a bid to equip them with a skill they could use to earn some income,” she explains.

Akili Dada also runs an Innovation in Leadership Programme that focuses on young women over 18 years of age.

This programme works mainly with out of school young women and university students on leadership and leadership development. Recently, Akili Dada began working with young women political aspirants eyeing the 2017 general elections with an aim of increasing the number of young women vying for elective positions.

In addition, the organisation has a one-year fellowship programme that runs across East Africa that helps nurture young women’s projects through funding and training on how to run a start-up. This is Akili Dada’s way of passing along some of the lessons they have learnt along the way, so that these new start-ups’ learning curve is not as steep as it was for those who went ahead of them.

The programme echoes Michelle Obama’s words: “When you have worked hard and done well and walked through the doorway of opportunity, you do not slum it shut behind you, you reach back.”

The mother of one, who has been married for five years to Antony Muchiri, a quantity surveyor, says having a supportive spouse has been instrumental in her success. In addition, being Christians, Purity and Antony are intentional about ensuring their faith is key in how they live their lives.

Asked how a woman can implement this year’s International Women’s Day theme which is “Be bold for change” Purity says in conclusion, “Start by believing in yourself and overcome self-doubt through daily motivation and the rest will fall in place, one step at a time.”

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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