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PUNCTUALITY… Being on time

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George Washington the first president of the United States of America, was a stickler for time. He simply had no time for those who did not know how to keep time. For example, if he invited someone for dinner and the person arrived late, he would find Washington halfway through with his meal or even done with it. To his startled guest, Washington would say, “We are punctual here. My cook never asks whether the company has arrived, but whether the time has come.”

George Washington may be long dead and buried, but the virtue of punctuality is just as important now as it was then. Punctuality is synonymous with being on time and it refers to the characteristic of being able to complete a required task or fulfill an obligation at a previous or designated time.

As Kenyans, and Africans in general, we have a knack for rushing at the last minute and we rarely beat deadlines. A classic example would be, of course, filing returns with the Kenya Revenue Authority. Individuals and companies have from January to June to file their returns. However, very few people do this on time and end up making unnecessarily long queues or jamming the system when they could have done it earlier.

The same case applies to virtually every aspect of our lives and more so at our work places or schools. In the end, we end up with mediocre results because a project that was supposed to be done in one year is rushed so as to be completed in a month. We are so bad at keeping time that lateness has been given the term ‘African time.’ A joke goes that Africans will be locked out of heaven because they will find the gates locked after arriving late. Funny as it may seem, there’s nothing to laugh at.

People who are not good at keeping time find it hard to adapt at a fast paced environment for as the saying goes: ‘Time and tide waits for no man.’ Without doubt, a person who is punctual is always ahead of the pack in every sense of the word. They also do not suffer from the stress often associated with doing things the last minute and is definitely an asset to the organisation he works in.

Being a punctual person shows you are dependable and reveals your integrity. If you promised to meet someone at a certain time, do your best to uphold the time. They say time is money because it is a resource. You definitely don’t like it when someone wastes your hard-earned money; why would you want to waste someone else’s? Tough as it may sound, being late is a form of stealing as you rob others of their time, which they will never get back.

Benjamin Franklin, regarded as one of the founding fathers of the USA, once said to an employee who was always late, but always ready with an excuse: “I have generally found that the man who is good at an excuse is good for nothing else.” Agreed!

Today’s culture at the workplace places a lot of significance in teamwork. As such, members of a team are inter-dependent on each other to complete a given task. If someone in the chain does not keep time, then the entire project is delayed. Do not let your tardiness pull the team behind. Finally, as you reflect on punctuality, here is a French proverb to ponder upon: ‘the while we keep a man waiting, he reflects on our shortcomings.’

REFLECTIONS

I never could have done what I have done without the habits of punctuality, order and diligence, without the determination to concentrate myself on one subject at a time.

Charles Dickens (1812-1870), English writer and social critic

Better three hours too soon than a minute too late. William Shakespeare (1564-1616), English poet, playwright, and actor

Arriving late is a way of saying that your own time is more valuable than the time of the person who waited for you. Karen Joy Fowler (1950), American author of science fiction, fantasy and literary fiction

Time is more valuable than money. You can get more money, but you cannot get more time. Jim Rohn (1930-2009), American entrepreneur, author and motivational speaker

Unfaithfulness in the keeping of an appointment is an act of clear dishonesty. You may as well borrow a person’s money as his time. Horace Mann (1796-1859), American politician and educational reformer

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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