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Proposal on top of Ngong Hills

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Rose Nyawira, 28, and Kennedy Muchiri Maina, 30, met at a time when they were both going about their lives and a relationship was the farthest thing in their minds. But even before they knew it, some magnet had drawn them together. This humble and fun-loving couple shared their love story with ESTHER KIRAGU.

“We have different versions of when we first met,” Kennedy says, as the couple laughs in unison. This will be an interesting interview, I think to myself as we settle down to it.

“I first met Rose in 2009 when she was introduced to me by my cousin Sophie, during one of the many visits I paid her at the University of Nairobi, Parklands campus. As Sophie was escorting me home, we bumped onto Rose and introductions were done. However there wasn’t much to it,” Kennedy explains.

Rose, an advocate, says that her recollection of meeting Kennedy for the first time was in 2010 during a work-related assignment. “He didn’t look familiar,” she says, adding that she doesn’t recall meeting him earlier.

Kennedy, a banker and property manager, says that during the work-related meeting, he struck a conversation with Rose and instantly felt drawn to her. He quickly did a background check on her and got her telephone number from Sophie. Coincidentally, Rose was also doing a background check on Kennedy as well.

Dating and courtship…

A friendship flourished with the two constantly communicating on phone. “He asked me to be his girlfriend a month later and I didn’t hesitate since I already liked him,” says Rose. The couple says dating was a period of getting to know more about each other and they often met in the evenings after work, as well as during weekends.

“We spent Sunday afternoons at Nairobi Park, enjoying each other’s company and getting to know each other better. With time, I learnt that we shared similar values and were serious about the relationship. When we were comfortable with our relationship, we introduced each other to our families,” says Kennedy.

The couple admits that they had various conflicts at the beginning of their courtship but were able to resolve them through open communication. Kennedy asked Rose to marry him on April 7, 2012 during a hike in the Ngong Hills. “It was a pleasant surprise. As we got to the top of the hill, Kennedy went on one knee and asked me to marry him. I said yes without any hesitation,” says Rose as she recalls the elating day.

The couple took pre-marital classes at their church in preparation for marriage life. They say this opportunity was a great eye-opener and it helped them to clearly understand what they were committing themselves to. “We had conversations on temperaments, dealing with finances and in-laws, among other useful topics,” Rose explains.

Beautiful wedding…

Rose and Kennedy involved their parents and family about their plans soon after the proposal. Dowry negotiations and other arrangements were set in motion. Their love story culminated in a beautiful garden wedding on December 1, 2012 at the Railway Training Institute in South B, Nairobi, followed by a reception at the same venue.

They had put together a wedding committee made up of close friends to help plan the wedding. Their ocean blue and white-themed wedding cost Ksh 320,000 and was financed through personal savings and contributions from friends and family.

“Ours was a simple wedding. We invested on what we felt was most important to us –food, photography and décor, then sought other services from friends who provided them at affordable costs,” says the couple, adding that it turned up to be the most memorable occasion. They flew to South Africa for their honeymoon.

We wish the couple God’s blessings in their marriage.

Published on May 2013

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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