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PRAY WITHOUT CEASING

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Flowering is arguably the most important season of a plant’s life. One can tell whether the crop will bear fruit or not depending on how it flowers. And yet that is the most delicate period of the plant’s life, as the flowers can be destroyed before pollination takes place and thus will not bear fruit.

Because flowers are beautiful and smell nice, they attract a myriad of different insects – both useful, like bees that transport pollen, and destructive like caterpillars. Little children too, especially girls, love plucking flowers and putting them on their hair. Strong winds, heavy rains and even strong sunshine can destroy the flowers before their time.

We too are like plants that flower. God has created us with the potential to bear much fruit in the form of the gifts of the Holy Spirit plus other mental and physical abilities. Some of us have ability to become world-class musicians or coaches, teachers, preachers, interpreters, model parents, friends and so on. If every talent and ability were to blossom and get to the level of legendary, this would truly be “heaven on earth.”

But just like the animals that destroy the flowers before they are ready to form into fruit, the devil lies in wait to put all our abilities and plans asunder. He is jealous and naturally destructive. He reaps where he did not sow; he places roadblocks and bumps where there shouldn’t be.

That is why would-be great musicians become drug addicts and responsible men turn into alcoholics; that is why would-be legendary teachers lounge in the staffroom demoralised, while some don’t go to school; talented boys and girls die before their time and girls destined to be great leaders become mothers at 16. It’s such a dangerous environment.

And brethren, nothing can redeem us from these evils of indolence, envy, alcoholism, sexual promiscuity, laziness and what have you, but prayer to God. Jesus told us to pray without ceasing. We should pray while sitting, while walking, while relaxing and while working. The destructive forces in the world are so cunning and timing that they come when our star is about to shine – when the flower is about to turn into fruit.

That is why King Solomon prays in Song of Songs 2:15: “Catch for us the foxes, the little foxes that ruin the vineyards, our vineyards that are in bloom.”

He realised that in as much as the farmer puts his best foot forward in tending to his crop, there were these little foxes that came while he was away and destroyed the crop and thus denying him the fruit that was his main expectation.

Are there little foxes in your life dear brother and sister? What are the little foxes that threaten your God-given abilities dear sister? What is preventing you from becoming the person God intended on the day he placed you in your mother’s womb? Surely, you were not created to be a loser in life, nor to live on the periphery, or to play small and never quite win in the game of life. I believe God intended you to light the entire world with your gift and for your name to be mentioned far and wide – and not for your shortcomings but for your overcoming.

Pray sister, pray brother. The evil one never sleeps and is always lying in wait to destroy anything that shows promise. Only prayer and determination to keep on the straight and narrow path will keep you on the course for which God created you. That is how you get back at the foxes too and how you keep focus on the end result.

Nothing is as painful as a child’s death. Many times I wonder what that flower that has been plucked would have become were it not for disease and accidents. And what about the many men and women that are rotting in the filth of sexual sins and alcoholism… What could they have given to the world to make it a better place? What about the youth that are addicted to drugs… Will they ever bear fruit?

Your foxes may not be as destructive as the ones mentioned above but they are foxes all the same. They are destroying your vineyard. Pray without ceasing. Again I say pray. Tell God to confuse and dismiss the foxes that are gathering against you; and to bless you with the power to bring your plans to fruition. Amen.

Published April 2016

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

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Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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