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PASTOR ROSELYN GITONGA : Driving the Mercy Train

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Pastor Roselyn Gitonga and the Second Chance Church in Kikuyu town believe that one doesn’t need a lot of money to change someone’s life, but just a willing heart. Roselyn and her church began the Mercy Train initiative to offer children from the neighbouring Soweto slum an education. Pastor Roselyn shares her mission of hope with MWAURA MUIGANA. 

“They wake up early in the morning; quickly don their school uniforms, hopeful that their mothers will be there and in a sober state to give them breakfast. By 7a.m they are out of their slum dwellings and into the school bus, paid for by the church, to their different schools around Kikuyu and Thogoto. Apart from learning in school, they are assured of a mid-morning cup of tea and a hot lunch every day. At the end of their school day the bus drops them outside the Second Chance Church in Kikuyu town,” Pastor Roselyn Gitonga begins to explain what prompted her church to start a project to help children in Soweto slum near Kikuyu town.

Roselyn and two other teachers assist the children with homework before they go to their respective homes.  “Since majority of their mothers are either not bothered, illiterate or don’t understand the need for education, the teachers and I take an initiative to help the children out whenever they have homework” says Roselyn.

At 5.30 p.m. the children take tea, snacks and fruits before getting into a session of devotion after which the younger ones  – from pre-unit to standard three – leave for their homes. The older ones – from class four upwards – remain behind until 7.15 p.m. to catch up on their studies. Some of these children are behind in their schoolwork because they started school late.

“While this may sound like normal life for any child, for these children it is not,” says Roselyn.  The children they take care of have been rescued from a difficult life of neglect and poverty. Some of their mothers cannot afford to give them food or would not be bothered to take care of them. Some engage in sex work, others are drunkards or trade in illicit brews. Other children have no one to take care of them, as their mothers are languishing in jail.

When the Second Chance Community Church was established in Kikuyu town in 2000, little did Senior Pastor Fred Geke and Roselyn know that they would be called upon to take care of many slum children and their mothers within the community they serve. The children were suffering and lacked basic needs and most did not live in an environment that offered love and friendship. The church came up with the Mercy Train initiative whose goal is to rescue children from the slums and offer them an opportunity that will define their future away from life in the slums.

As Roselyn, who is in charge of the project, and her colleagues interacted with the community, the children, aged between five and eight years, began attending Sunday school service. Their Sunday school teachers were shocked to learn that most of them had not been enrolled in school.

“On approaching their parents to find out why they didn’t take their children to school, we found out that they had no plans of educating their children since they didn’t see the need to. Most of them were illiterate or school dropouts who engaged in drinking and prostitution,” says Roselyn.

The church realised they bore a greater responsibility to these children than just teaching them the bible. The children were hungry and they needed food; some were sick and needed medical attention; others did not have anyone to take care of them, and most importantly, all of them needed to be in school.

The wider community was not sympathetic to the plight of these children as they judged them harshly because of their parent’s behaviour. There were even some in the community who believed that offering these children an education was a fruitless venture, as they would go back to the slum to be just like their parents.

However, the church was firm that the children were not responsible for the choices their parents had made and was determined to do something that would change their lives and remove them from the life they had been condemned to. The church decided that no child should be denied school, and it had a duty to do all it could to meet the children’s basic human needs. A decision was made to start a programme that would assist these children. And this was the birth of the Mercy Train in January 2001.

The search begins…

“We moved from house to house in the slums trying to convince mothers to let us take their children into a programme that would provide them with education, food, medical care and guidance. We also asked them to convince their friends to do the same. Some of them responded and registered their children, while others were suspicious and skeptical about our intentions with their children,” says Roselyn.

The other major challenge was to find good schools that would accept to enroll the children, granted that most had never stepped in a classroom before. The church’s intention was to give the children high quality education and their desire was to enroll them in schools that would make a real difference in their lives.

“We wanted the children to attend schools that would not only help them academically, but also offer them positive values, build their self-esteem and confidence, and also help them integrate with the rest of the community,” says Roselyn.

The church explained to the school heads what the programme was about, as well as the background of the children they wished to have enrolled in their school. They also wanted the schools to work with the church to make the programme a success. Some schools were supportive while others refused, saying parents in their schools would not accept to have children from the slums interacting with their own children.

“We thank God that many schools were supportive. For example, one school took many children and even offered to give them extra coaching for two hours each day to help them catch up with other children. The programme started with 11 children between the ages of four and eight, who were enrolled in different schools all within Kikuyu town. Most of these children are doing very well and we are encouraged,” says Roselyn.

Community support…

The church made an appeal to its members to commit a certain monthly contribution towards the programme. Most people committed to give whatever they could, although it was not enough to meet their entire budget.

“When people from the community, who were previously negative, started noticing positive changes in the lives of children we were helping, they started supporting the project quietly. Some bought school uniform, others brought foodstuffs, while others contributed money to pay for school fees,” adds Roselyn.

However, the programme had its own challenges. Some children would miss school often because their parents were too drunk to wake up in the morning to prepare them for school. Some of the children also came from unstable homes where parents would fight and one parent would take off with the children, thus denying them access to school. There were also many children missing school because of illness. Most of these illnesses were a result of poor nutrition and their health dramatically improved once they were put on a feeding programme.

Inspiring others…
The church invites different people to talk to the children and inspire them. Children needing individual counseling because of issues and circumstances at home are given attention. For example, some are faced with domestic violence while others have their parents in jail after committing various crimes. The programme has interventions that ensure that children in such circumstances are helped to adjust.

Breaking the vicious cycle…

The programme has also been striving to find a way of helping the mothers in order to break the vicious cycle. It offers skills such as cooking nutritious foods and childcare to equip the mothers so that they can abandon their destructive lifestyles. We also teach them the values of taking care of their families, as well as trying to bring them closer to God. It has been a slow process trying to change the women but there have been some achievements.

“It is not easy to convince a woman, for example, to abandon prostitution, and do other work such as casual labour or assist at the church. We have to approach it from many angles including health, moral issues and self-respect,” says Roselyn.

“We have made some success and some have joined the programme, assisting with cooking and cleaning in the church where the feeding programme operates from. We have seen a change of attitude in many, as well as improved discipline, for example, reporting to work on time, and also a growing interest in their children’s education and general welfare,” she adds.

The future…

The programme relies on goodwill from individuals and organisations and needs a lot of assistance to achieve its objective of helping as many children as possible. There are many unmet needs including finances, foodstuffs, and provision of school uniforms, volunteers such as counselors, doctors, nurses and teachers to help with coaching the children.

Today the programme has  160   children. Demand has grown so much that there is a long waiting list of children waiting to join because resources are not available to take them all. Some of the children who began from pre-unit are now in class seven and will be K.C.P.E. candidates next year.

 

E-mail: info@mercytrain.org, Roselyn@mercytrain.org

Website: www.mercytrain.org

Phone N.o:0722 719 379

Published in June 2012

 

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

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Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

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Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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