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ONLY GOD CAN GIVE MEANING TO OUR LIVES

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What is the meaning of all our toils under the sun? What do we gain by amassing money beyond what we need in our lifetime and acquiring parcels of land that we never get to develop? Simple! Because every day we are looking for more and we want to have more than the other person. We want to be the talk of town about how much we own and the kind of exotic lifestyles we lead. But this is meaningless!

Consider these two scenarios. A man who derived great pleasure in talking about his “immense wealth,” how he became a billionaire at 30, the kind of “palatial home” he built and the type of cars he owned recently died. Another man, who lived from hand to mouth, and whose poverty could not allow him the pleasure of dreaming about owning a home or driving his own car and who struggled to educate his children also died. They are no longer here with us. Despite the fact that one was buried

in an expensive casket and his burial attended by dignitaries while the other was accorded a burial befitting his stature, the two now share everything in common: they are dust. What was the meaning of all their toiling? Does it now matter that one lived a more privileged life than the other? No.

The writer of Ecclesiastes opines, “Everything is meaningless, utterly meaningless” as he expounds in Ecclesiastes 2:11, “Yet when I surveyed all that my hands had done and what

I had toiled to achieve, everything was meaningless, a chasing after the wind: nothing was gained under the sun.” This wise man had decided to experiment with life. He resolved to have everything his heart desired. Slaves, gold and silver, buildings, farms, women, name it and he had it! But in the end he came to one conclusion; everything under the sun is meaningless.

But God could not have placed us down here to experience a life of absurdity because if everything is meaningless, then God was involved in a meaningless act of creation. Yet the Bible cannot be telling a lie that everything is “chasing wind.” And it cannot also be telling a lie when Jeremiah proclaims these words in Jeremiah 29:11 which he attributes to God, “For I know the plans I have for you; plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and future.” How then are we to live a meaningful life in the midst of meaninglessness? These two texts from the Bible are not contradictory. What the writer of Ecclesiastes is telling us is that to live only for the flesh and worldly things is to live a meaningless life. If we seek wealth, fame, property and money for the sake of it, then we are missing the point. These things should be a means to an end and not the end itself. Therefore, while it is good to have money and all the property we can acquire, we must ask ourselves how these can help us to attain meaning in life.

Whatever we acquire here must be for the service of God; and the service of God is only possible through service to mankind and the entire creation. This is to say that using our resources to ease the suffering of others is what gives our life meaning. Wangari Maathai found meaning in life by caring for the environment; Mother Teresa found meaning in life by helping the poor and so on. How does what you have contribute to making your life meaningful? The talents you have, the wealth and knowledge are meaningless unless you expend them in the service of others and the rest of creation.

And that is why God has a plan to prosper you. It is because he wants you to be a blessing and not a curse to other human beings and his entire creation. But the only way to go there is by “renouncing yourself (the flesh)” and “giving your wealth away” and living for God. God is the only one who can give meaning to our otherwise meaningless existence. Without God we are nothing. We may appear like we are in control, like we are living meaningfully, enjoying life and living large. But in the end what does it all add up to? Nothing.

Therefore, brothers and sisters, live for God. Choose God and God will give your life meaning just as it is promised in Matthew 6:33: “But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.”

Published in July 2016

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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