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JAMLICK KOGI From shy boy with a stammer to confident successful man

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Twenty-nine-year-old Jamlick Kogi oozes with confidence, which is ideal considering his profession – or professions if you prefer – as a marketer, brand manager, TV show host, MC, entertainer and entrepreneur. Determined to not only make it in life but to inspire others as well, it is hard to believe that Kogi was once a shy boy with a stammer and whose future was almost curtailed due to lack of school fees. He shares with ESTHER AKELLO on his journey toward self-confidence and leveraging on it to succeed.

“We are products of our past, but we don’t have to be prisoners of it” goes a quote by Rick Warren, author of the critically acclaimed and best-selling inspirational book, The Purpose Driven Life. What on Earth Am I Here For? Though not Jamlick Kogi’s favourite quote, it embodies his life’s spirit in a nutshell. He is the author of the book, The X-matrix: The 7P’s of Success, which talks about how to not only discover one’s purpose in life but how that purpose should be used in service to others.

“I believe in people and their ability to lead fuller, more fulfilling lives through not only their skills, but innate talents as well.

Unfortunately, a lot of people wade through life struggling, simply because they have not tapped into their purpose,” says Kogi.

It is only fitting that Kogi should write a book on the subject of life’s purpose. All things considered, if his life had followed the script he had been dealt with, he should have ended up as another unfortunate statistic, swallowed by the seemingly insatiable jaws of poverty.

“My parents separated when I was 11 years old and my mother had sole custody of my six siblings and I. Unfortunately, her income as a casual labourer could only cover so many expenses and our education suffered. Three of my older siblings never made it to secondary school while two others never finished due to lack of fees,” explains Kogi.

The pattern seemed likely to repeat itself on Kogi but his mother was awake to the fact that life would only change if she did something differently. Convinced that her two last-born children could have a different future, she transferred them to a different primary school and convinced the head teacher to allow Kogi and his brother to stay on because they were bright students. The two did not disappoint. Both boys moved

to the top of their classes and maintained the streak until they finished primary school education.

As if life was acknowledging their efforts, both boys won scholarships to the Starehe Boys Centre. It is here that Kogi’s leadership skills were nurtured. “For some reason, the students’ leadership and school administration believed in me and appointed me a sub prefect. I moved through the ranks to become senior prefect and eventually house captain in charge of 80 students. These positions forced me to deal with my shy nature as now not only did I have an opportunity to address people, but enforce school rules as well. Eventually, my confidence grew and I lost my stammer,” says Kogi.

Being a leader to other students also meant that they looked up to him for solutions to their problems and being a school that predominantly took in needy students, those needs were sometimes financial as pocket money for most was a luxury. “I started selling biscuits and would appoint a different boy each term to be in charge of sales. That way, each salesperson earned a commission from the profits and whatever remained was shared with other needy students,” he explains.

With his newfound voice and confidence, Kogi became acutely aware of opportunities around him even as he proceeded to the University of Nairobi, school of business to pursue marketing studies. He became an airtime agent and rented a tuck shop, which sold vegetables among other small wares

to students and earning him a handsome income. However, it was not until his second year in campus that Kogi felt as if he finally ‘discovered’ himself.

Story Moja, a writing company, came looking for storytellers. On a whim, Kogi signed himself up. He put in a stellar oral performance of a reprised rendition of a tale he had been told by one of his former deans and finished in the quarterfinals stage of the competition. In 2009, when Story Moja came calling the second time, Kogi auditioned again.

“This time I wrote a 10-minute original story about women empowerment and made it all the way to the finals. I also qualified to attend a writing workshop in the UK. Additionally, KBC, the national broadcaster, happened to be filming the festival during my performance and when they aired the story, Story Moja sent me a cheque of Ksh 5,000. It was then I realised that talent can pay,” says the marketer.

Convinced that he was on to something, Kogi decided to take his act to a larger audience. “Soon after the Story Moja Hay festival, I saw an advert at Alliance Francaise calling on comedians to audition for a new show, Kenya Kona. I did not fancy myself a comedian but I knew I could infuse a bit of humour in my stories and decided to audition. Out of 97 people who auditioned, 15 of us went on to perform on a live stage to an audience of close to 1,000 people,” he says.

Soon after, a producer from popular stand up comedy show, The Churchill Show (formerly, Churchill Live), called him and asked him to audition for Daniel Ndambuki (Churchill). He sailed through and moved on to the live recording of the show under the moniker MC Kogi. Unfortunately, due to programming difficulties experienced by NTV, that particular show never aired.

Seemingly unbothered, Kogi who describes himself as an optimist, moved on to work as an auditor for KPMG before leaving to join Fountain Enterprises Group Kenya (FEP) as marketing and brand ambassador. In mid 2015, he left FEP Kenya to run the events, MC and entertainment company, KEIJEI, which he had inadvertently birthed following his foray into the storytelling world. It was then that he pitched a show idea, Kogi Live to various media houses. WTV Kenya took it up.

The show, which was renamed and rebranded as ABLE (Africa, Business, Leadership and Entertainment) Live last year, combines entertainment with a question and answer session with inspirational industry and business leaders.

“ABLE Live was inspired by the popular TED talks and it’s shot in front of a live audience. It combines inspiration, business, entertainment and leadership with an aim of bringing leaders in various industries closer to regular folks who may want to learn more from them,” says Kogi.

In December 2015, Kogi also started another company, TCM Africa. “TCM Africa stands for training, coaching and mentoring Africa and has two pillars. One facet concentrates on youth and women empowerment while the other is geared towards corporate clients. We provide training in terms of issues of governance, entrepreneurship, branding and financial literacy,” explains Kogi.

His passion for service and mentorship has seen Kogi volunteer his time in several non- governmental and humanitarian organisations in various capacities including chairperson of the Big Brother Mentorship Society formed by alumni of Starehe Boys and Girls Centre. He is also a member of the recently formed Lions Club of Nairobi South. He has also worked with US President Barrack Obama’s Young African Leaders Initiative (YALI) as a volunteer mentor.

“I am of the school of thought that we can empower our society one person at a time and we can still do that with values such as integrity and trust being our core pillars,” says Kogi who is quick to dismiss critics who call him idealistic. “Dismissing me as idealistic is akin to saying that I become comfortable with the status quo. Sure, the process of change may be slow but it has worked in other countries and can also work in Kenya provided people are empowered to vet and question their leaders from informed points of views. Are you aware that there are people who do not know the contents of a document as fundamental as the constitution?” poses Kogi.

Despite his busy schedule, in his free time, the bachelor not only catches up with friends and his favourite TV shows such as Empire, but he reads a lot as well. His current read is Soaring Like an Eagle by real estate developer George Wachiuri, CEO of Optiven Limited and who graced the cover of the July 2015 issue of Parents magazine. Kogi is in the process of writing his second book and his advice to young people who want to make it is: “Be patient. Take the stairs and not the short cuts. Success is not only material gain, but also making measurable progress every hour, every day, every year.”

Published in July 2016

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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