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HUMANITY… Live and let live

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In February this year, Morris Mwenda, a street boy, became famous when his video went viral on social media. The 15-year-old awed many with his competence in the Queen’s language as well as his ability to articulate matters that may seem too complex for his age. Morris has been living in the streets of Nairobi for the past one year due to squabbles in his family and had consequently dropped out of school and into the streets. But now, Morris has found a home thanks to the Homeless of Nairobi, a group that has dedicated itself to rehabilitating willing street children and helping them pursue education.

Needless to say, Morris became a darling of the nation, so to speak, as media houses and personalities rushed to his aid, and aid he did get. It was heartwarming to see Kenyans reaching out to Morris as they have done in other occasions in the past. Hot in the heels of Morris’ story came the news that a hospital in Nairobi would conduct free heart surgery for triplets with congenital heart condition whose parents were unable to raise Ksh 2.5 million needed to correct the defect. The surgery was a success and the toddlers were given a new lease of life.

See, in a society that has been subjected to negative news every day, it is refreshing to hear or experience an iota of positivity. In the same breath, it is heartrending to read stories of negligent doctors, of drunk drivers who endanger the lives of innocent road users, of wanton corruption, domestic violence, infanticide…sigh; the list is endless. Sadly, it is the disenfranchised, the helpless and future generations that bear the biggest brunt in the face of such callousness. That is why we should embrace humanity.

Humanity is synonymous with charity, and as the saying goes, it begins at home. It then spreads to the people we meet, the roads we travel and the places we visit. It is seeing someone else as a human before anything else. Gladly, humanity is still alive in each one of us; all we need to do is to activate it through building bonds in society that transcend religious, racial, gender and tribal boundaries. It is holding people, from all walks of life, in high esteem and it is best captured in the saying: “Do to others what you would like them to do to you.”

Ten to 20 years ago, calls to save the environment fell on deaf ears. The likes of the late Prof Wangari Maathai paid a huge price to secure the environment for generations to come but their efforts were not enough to stop some selfish individuals from mutilating it. Right now, the future has caught up with us and countries are in a mad rush to save the environment just because someone somewhere did not stop to think about the future generation and how their actions would impact it. Humanity thus calls for us to think with both our hearts and minds and envisioning the ripple effect our actions will have on others.

Admittedly, as life gets harder and harder each day, it is very easy to overlook the needs of others in our pursuit of happiness and that which money can buy. In this rush to acquire wealth and what have you, the deprived are forgotten and the outcome is terrible. There is a lot of hue and cry in the world today and more so in our country. People are starving; they are molested for one reason or the other, and are divided along petty issues of tribe, creed and political affiliations.

That humanity has sunk to new lows is in no doubt. The gravity of the matter unfolded on the shores of Europe last year in September when images of a lifeless three-year-old Syrian boy appeared in the media. The toddler was among 12 refugees who had drowned while escaping fierce fighting in Syria. He is part of the statistics of the millions of people who needn’t have died and for what? Power? Religion? Wealth? Is it worth it?

No, it isn’t. By respecting people, we respect life; we respect the Creator. Hatred leads to nowhere, love and caring goes a long way and humanity will make the world a better place to live in. The choice is solely ours.

Published April 2016

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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