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How to Host Your Relatives Without Losing Your Mind

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Let’s be honest, hosting relatives can be both heartwarming and exhausting. You love them, sure. But after the third day of “just one more night” and constant questions about your life choices, you start wondering if disappearing for a quick ‘errand’ might save your sanity.

Family visits can feel like a social marathon between cooking, entertaining, and making sure everyone’s comfortable, you might forget that you too live there. But here’s the thing: it doesn’t have to drain you.

With a few smart tweaks (and boundaries that actually stick), you can host your relatives, enjoy the time, and still keep your peace.

1. Prep like you’re expecting chaos

Because let’s face it, you kind of are. Whether it’s kids running around, your aunt wanting to rearrange your kitchen “for convenience,” or your cousin blasting music from your Bluetooth speaker. I mean, things will happen.
The trick? Prepare for it. Declutter shared spaces, stock up on snacks (trust me, snacks solve 80% of family drama), and plan a loose routine so the house doesn’t descend into madness.

2. Set boundaries (kindly, but firmly)

Boundaries are not rude; they’re survival. If you need your quiet mornings for sanity, say so. If you don’t want your bedroom to turn into a public lounge, close that door (literally).
You can be polite and still protect your peace. Try lines like:

I’m heading to my room for a bit to recharge, but I’ll catch up with you guys later.
It works like magic. No guilt, no drama.

3. Delegate. You’re not running a hotel.

One of the biggest mistakes hosts make is trying to do everything. No one handed you a “Chief Entertainment Officer” title. Let people pitch in; cooking, washing dishes, even entertaining the kids.
Not only does it lighten your load, but it also makes everyone feel more at home. Plus, nothing bonds family faster than collectively burning chapati.

4. Create tiny escapes

Even the most loving families can be a lot. It’s okay to take breaks. Go for a walk, read in your room, or hide in the bathroom scrolling TikTok (we’ve all been there).
Moments of alone time help you reset so you can return to the chaos with a fresh smile instead of plotting your early retirement from hosting duties.

5. Laugh through it

Relatives will always be… relatives. Someone will bring up an awkward story from 2008, another will ask when you’re getting married, and someone else will eat your hidden snacks. Laugh. Sometimes humor is the only way to survive family gatherings.
And later? You’ll have plenty of stories to tell, ones that remind you that family, despite all the madness, is kind of beautiful.

Hosting relatives doesn’t have to mean losing your mind. It’s about balance; showing love without burning out, being hospitable without being a doormat, and knowing when to say “enough for today.”
So the next time your cousin texts, “We’ll just stay for the weekend,” take a deep breath, grab your snacks, and remember, you’ve got this.

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Heartbreak as Body of 12-Year-Old Blessed Claire Muthoni Arrives Home from India

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Kenyans are mourning the loss of Blessed Claire Muthoni, a brave 12-year-old girl from Kihuri in Othaya, Nyeri County, who passed away while undergoing specialised cancer treatment in New Delhi. Claire had been fighting stage 4 cancer for over three years.

The aggressive disease took a heavy toll on her young body, eventually leading to the amputation of one of her legs. Despite the pain and the many challenges she faced, Claire remained hopeful and courageous throughout her journey, inspiring many who followed her story.

On January 19, 2026, she travelled to India with her mother in search of advanced treatment aimed at saving her remaining leg and managing the cancer that had spread to her lungs. The journey was filled with hope, supported by Kenyans from all walks of life who contributed towards her treatment and kept her in their prayers.

A brave fight

While in India, Claire underwent several chemotherapy sessions. Unfortunately, her condition worsened after developing complications, leading to her admission to the Intensive Care Unit. She passed away in hospital last week, leaving behind a grieving family and a nation that had stood with her.

On Monday, March 30, 2026, her remains arrived at Jomo Kenyatta International Airport. The atmosphere at the airport was filled with grief as family members, friends and well-wishers gathered to receive her. Her mother returned home alone, carrying a loss no parent should have to endure.

Claire will be laid to rest in her home area of Othaya in the coming days, as her family begins the difficult process of saying their final goodbyes.

Her story touched thousands across the country, many of whom followed her journey through updates and fundraising efforts. She became a symbol of strength and resilience, and her passing has deeply affected those who had hoped to see her recover.

Beyond the grief, her story has once again brought attention to the challenges families face when dealing with childhood cancer in Kenya. The high cost of specialised treatment, limited access to advanced care locally, and the emotional and financial strain on families often force many to seek treatment abroad.

Read our March issue here 

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Heartbreak as Body of 12-Year-Old Blessed Claire Muthoni Arrives Home from India

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Kenyans are mourning the loss of Blessed Claire Muthoni, a brave 12-year-old girl from Kihuri in Othaya, Nyeri County, who passed away while undergoing specialised cancer treatment in New Delhi. Claire had been fighting stage 4 cancer for over three years.

The aggressive disease took a heavy toll on her young body, eventually leading to the amputation of one of her legs. Despite the pain and the many challenges she faced, Claire remained hopeful and courageous throughout her journey, inspiring many who followed her story.

On January 19, 2026, she travelled to India with her mother in search of advanced treatment aimed at saving her remaining leg and managing the cancer that had spread to her lungs. The journey was filled with hope, supported by Kenyans from all walks of life who contributed towards her treatment and kept her in their prayers.

A brave fight

While in India, Claire underwent several chemotherapy sessions. Unfortunately, her condition worsened after developing complications, leading to her admission to the Intensive Care Unit. She passed away in hospital last week, leaving behind a grieving family and a nation that had stood with her.

On Monday, March 30, 2026, her remains arrived at Jomo Kenyatta International Airport. The atmosphere at the airport was filled with grief as family members, friends and well-wishers gathered to receive her. Her mother returned home alone, carrying a loss no parent should have to endure.

Claire will be laid to rest in her home area of Othaya in the coming days, as her family begins the difficult process of saying their final goodbyes.

Her story touched thousands across the country, many of whom followed her journey through updates and fundraising efforts. She became a symbol of strength and resilience, and her passing has deeply affected those who had hoped to see her recover.

Beyond the grief, her story has once again brought attention to the challenges families face when dealing with childhood cancer in Kenya. The high cost of specialised treatment, limited access to advanced care locally, and the emotional and financial strain on families often force many to seek treatment abroad.

Read our March issue here 

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Shock as Section of Gikomba Shoe Market Demolished Overnight

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Traders at Nairobi’s bustling Gikomba Market are counting heavy losses after a section of the popular shoe market (mitumba shoe section) was demolished overnight by Nairobi City County enforcement teams. The operation took place in the early hours of Tuesday morning.

Videos and photos circulating on social media show destroyed merchandise and devastated traders who arrived at the market this morning to find their businesses in ruins. According to reports, the county government carried out the demolition after an eviction notice lapsed. This happened even though the High Court (Environment and Land Court) had earlier issued and extended conservatory orders in March 2026, halting mass demolitions and evictions at Gikomba and surrounding areas along the Nairobi River.

Repeated demolitions

Demolitions at Gikomba are not new. As far back as 1977, the original market was brought down by the government to pave the way for light industries. In recent years, attention has shifted to the riparian land along the Nairobi River, with authorities proposing to expand the buffer zone from 30 metres to 50 metres in a bid to control flooding.

Many traders have raised concerns over what they describe as poor consultation, shifting relocation plans and the lack of a clear and secure alternative site. There are also growing fears that the process could open the door to land grabbing and cartel involvement.

Impact

For most traders at Gikomba, the market is more than just a place of business. It is their only source of livelihood. Repeated fires and demolitions have created a cycle of uncertainty, financial strain and constant rebuilding. Many small business owners say they struggle to recover after each loss, only to face another setback months later.

Calls for improved fire safety measures, fair relocation plans and meaningful engagement with authorities continue to grow louder. Without long term and sustainable solutions, Gikomba traders will continue to bear the high cost of operating in one of Nairobi’s busiest yet most vulnerable markets.

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