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How to Deal With Your One-Year-Old Child…

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…And Discipline Them With Love

There’s a special kind of chaos that comes with a one-year-old. They’ve just discovered mobility, curiosity is at an all-time high, and honestly, if they could climb the curtains to see what’s up there, they would.

This age is beautiful, frustrating, hilarious, and confusing all at once. And because they’re not quite babies anymore, yet not fully toddlers, parenting them becomes a delicate balancing act.

Still, with the right mindset and a little structure, guiding a one-year-old becomes far less overwhelming.

Understand Their World

A one-year-old isn’t “being difficult”…they’re learning. Their brain is growing fast, they don’t understand rules yet, and words like “stop” or “no” don’t register deeply. They are driven by impulse and curiosity.

That means most of the behaviour parents interpret as “naughty” is really:

  • Exploration
  • Sensory curiosity
  • Testing boundaries
  • Seeking connection

Once you understand this, it becomes easier to respond with patience instead of frustration.

Create a Safe Environment

The real hack? Childproof instead of chasing and shouting every five minutes.

  • Secure cabinets
  • Block unsafe areas
  • Remove breakables
  • Cover sockets
  • Keep cleaning supplies locked

A safe environment reduces the need for discipline. They can explore without danger, and you can breathe.

Use Simple Language and Clear Cues

One-year-olds understand tone more than words. Use short, consistent phrases:

  • “Gentle hands.”
  • “Hot.”
  • “Stop.”
  • “Sit down.”

Pair the words with actions. If they’re climbing the table, calmly lift them down as you say, “Down.” Repetition helps them learn faster.

Redirect, Don’t Punish

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At this age, discipline means guiding, not punishing.

If they’re hitting the TV:
Redirect: “We don’t hit the TV. Here, baby, hit the soft ball.”

If they’re throwing food:
Redirect: “Food stays on the table. You can throw this toy instead.”

Redirection works because it acknowledges their need while teaching boundaries.

Stay Calm (Even When You’re Tired)

One-year-olds feed off your energy. If you raise your voice, they become scared or overstimulated; if you stay calm, they follow that energy.

Easier said than done, of course, but pausing before reacting saves both of you a meltdown.

Establish Routines

Routines give one-year-olds a sense of security. Predictability helps them behave better.

Have regular times for:

  • Meals
  • Naps
  • Play
  • Bathing
  • Bedtime

A well-rested, well-fed baby is far less likely to act out.

Gentle Boundaries Matter

You’re not being “too hard” for setting limits. Children thrive with structure.

Examples:

  • “We don’t bite.”
  • “No hitting.”
  • “No touching that.”

Say it firmly, kneel to their level, keep your voice calm. Physical punishment at this age is not only ineffective, it causes fear, not understanding.

Praise Good Behaviour

Don’t just correct; reinforce the good moments.

  • “I love you.”
  • “Good job sharing!”
  • “Thank you for listening.”

Positive reinforcement teaches faster than reprimands.

Handle Tantrums With Grace

Yes, even at one year, tantrums happen. They’re overwhelmed, overstimulated, or simply hungry.

What to do:

  • Stay close
  • Speak softly
  • Validate (“I see you’re upset”)
  • Offer comfort
  • Keep them safe

Never shame them for crying. Emotion regulation starts here.

Know When They’re Too Young

A one-year-old cannot:

  • “Obey instantly”
  • Sit still for long
  • Understand complex instruction
  • “Think about what they’ve done”

Don’t expect what their brain can’t deliver.

Remember, parenting a one-year-old requires patience, consistency, and a whole lot of redirection. They’re discovering themselves and the world, and you are their guide, not their judge.

Build safety, model calmness, set gentle boundaries, and celebrate the small wins. And remember: this phase will pass, but the emotional foundation you build now lasts a lifetime.

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Heartbreak as Body of 12-Year-Old Blessed Claire Muthoni Arrives Home from India

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Kenyans are mourning the loss of Blessed Claire Muthoni, a brave 12-year-old girl from Kihuri in Othaya, Nyeri County, who passed away while undergoing specialised cancer treatment in New Delhi. Claire had been fighting stage 4 cancer for over three years.

The aggressive disease took a heavy toll on her young body, eventually leading to the amputation of one of her legs. Despite the pain and the many challenges she faced, Claire remained hopeful and courageous throughout her journey, inspiring many who followed her story.

On January 19, 2026, she travelled to India with her mother in search of advanced treatment aimed at saving her remaining leg and managing the cancer that had spread to her lungs. The journey was filled with hope, supported by Kenyans from all walks of life who contributed towards her treatment and kept her in their prayers.

A brave fight

While in India, Claire underwent several chemotherapy sessions. Unfortunately, her condition worsened after developing complications, leading to her admission to the Intensive Care Unit. She passed away in hospital last week, leaving behind a grieving family and a nation that had stood with her.

On Monday, March 30, 2026, her remains arrived at Jomo Kenyatta International Airport. The atmosphere at the airport was filled with grief as family members, friends and well-wishers gathered to receive her. Her mother returned home alone, carrying a loss no parent should have to endure.

Claire will be laid to rest in her home area of Othaya in the coming days, as her family begins the difficult process of saying their final goodbyes.

Her story touched thousands across the country, many of whom followed her journey through updates and fundraising efforts. She became a symbol of strength and resilience, and her passing has deeply affected those who had hoped to see her recover.

Beyond the grief, her story has once again brought attention to the challenges families face when dealing with childhood cancer in Kenya. The high cost of specialised treatment, limited access to advanced care locally, and the emotional and financial strain on families often force many to seek treatment abroad.

Read our March issue here 

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Heartbreak as Body of 12-Year-Old Blessed Claire Muthoni Arrives Home from India

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Kenyans are mourning the loss of Blessed Claire Muthoni, a brave 12-year-old girl from Kihuri in Othaya, Nyeri County, who passed away while undergoing specialised cancer treatment in New Delhi. Claire had been fighting stage 4 cancer for over three years.

The aggressive disease took a heavy toll on her young body, eventually leading to the amputation of one of her legs. Despite the pain and the many challenges she faced, Claire remained hopeful and courageous throughout her journey, inspiring many who followed her story.

On January 19, 2026, she travelled to India with her mother in search of advanced treatment aimed at saving her remaining leg and managing the cancer that had spread to her lungs. The journey was filled with hope, supported by Kenyans from all walks of life who contributed towards her treatment and kept her in their prayers.

A brave fight

While in India, Claire underwent several chemotherapy sessions. Unfortunately, her condition worsened after developing complications, leading to her admission to the Intensive Care Unit. She passed away in hospital last week, leaving behind a grieving family and a nation that had stood with her.

On Monday, March 30, 2026, her remains arrived at Jomo Kenyatta International Airport. The atmosphere at the airport was filled with grief as family members, friends and well-wishers gathered to receive her. Her mother returned home alone, carrying a loss no parent should have to endure.

Claire will be laid to rest in her home area of Othaya in the coming days, as her family begins the difficult process of saying their final goodbyes.

Her story touched thousands across the country, many of whom followed her journey through updates and fundraising efforts. She became a symbol of strength and resilience, and her passing has deeply affected those who had hoped to see her recover.

Beyond the grief, her story has once again brought attention to the challenges families face when dealing with childhood cancer in Kenya. The high cost of specialised treatment, limited access to advanced care locally, and the emotional and financial strain on families often force many to seek treatment abroad.

Read our March issue here 

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Shock as Section of Gikomba Shoe Market Demolished Overnight

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Traders at Nairobi’s bustling Gikomba Market are counting heavy losses after a section of the popular shoe market (mitumba shoe section) was demolished overnight by Nairobi City County enforcement teams. The operation took place in the early hours of Tuesday morning.

Videos and photos circulating on social media show destroyed merchandise and devastated traders who arrived at the market this morning to find their businesses in ruins. According to reports, the county government carried out the demolition after an eviction notice lapsed. This happened even though the High Court (Environment and Land Court) had earlier issued and extended conservatory orders in March 2026, halting mass demolitions and evictions at Gikomba and surrounding areas along the Nairobi River.

Repeated demolitions

Demolitions at Gikomba are not new. As far back as 1977, the original market was brought down by the government to pave the way for light industries. In recent years, attention has shifted to the riparian land along the Nairobi River, with authorities proposing to expand the buffer zone from 30 metres to 50 metres in a bid to control flooding.

Many traders have raised concerns over what they describe as poor consultation, shifting relocation plans and the lack of a clear and secure alternative site. There are also growing fears that the process could open the door to land grabbing and cartel involvement.

Impact

For most traders at Gikomba, the market is more than just a place of business. It is their only source of livelihood. Repeated fires and demolitions have created a cycle of uncertainty, financial strain and constant rebuilding. Many small business owners say they struggle to recover after each loss, only to face another setback months later.

Calls for improved fire safety measures, fair relocation plans and meaningful engagement with authorities continue to grow louder. Without long term and sustainable solutions, Gikomba traders will continue to bear the high cost of operating in one of Nairobi’s busiest yet most vulnerable markets.

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