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HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE Left me almost blind

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Many people are falling victim to high blood pressure, also known as hypertension, because of poor lifestyles. One such person is Rahab Wakarema, 60, who was diagnosed with the disease at the age of 25. Due to ignorance, Rahab did not seek medical attention immediately she started experiencing symptoms and when she did, she failed to follow doctors’ instructions with disastrous results. Almost blinded by the disease, she is today careful with her lifestyle and advises Kenyans not to take health issues for granted. She shares her experience with MILLICENT KAMAU.

In 1976 at the age of 25, I started experiencing severe headaches and dizzy spells. I was married and living in Kariobangi South, Nairobi, with my husband Johnston Muturi, who is now 65. I assumed the headaches were a result of fatigue and calmed them down through self-medication with painkillers. By the second year of great suffering and self-management, I started experiencing fainting spells. I ignored my husband’s plea to see a doctor fearing I would be diagnosed with a serious condition.

I ended up in hospital after I fainted while running errands in my neighbourhood and a Good Samaritan rushed me to Kenyatta National Hospital (KNH). I was diagnosed with severe high blood pressure. Not knowing what that meant, the news sounded like a death knell and I cried for several hours convinced I was headed to an early grave. I couldn’t imagine my husband as a widower after only two years of marriage.

The doctor explained to me in great detail what high blood pressure meant. He told me it was a result of a poor lifestyle including lack of exercise and a poor diet. I was guilty of all these. I had never exercised all my life and my diet comprised of highly refined foods and lots of sugar. I also worked hard in our restaurant, always on the move with little time for relaxation. The doctor also told me that while blood pressure could be fatal; it was manageable through medication, diet and regular exercise. I was discharged from hospital when my blood pressure stabalised, put on medication and instructed on changes I needed to make in my lifestyle. The doctor emphasised the need to take the medication as directed as failure to do so could lead to other complications such as kidney, lung and heart problems.

I changed my lifestyle as instructed by the doctor and faithfully took medication and my condition improved tremendously. I also went in for regular check-ups. Then in 2004, thinking I was fully cured because I did not experience the symptoms anymore I stopped taking medication. The headaches and dizzy spells recurred, turned, and this time with a vengeance. My husband was unhappy with my decision to stop taking medicine and feeling he was pressuring me, we argued often. I was bedridden by 2005, and because of my stubbornness would still not agree to see a doctor. I panicked when my eyesight became affected but I did not think it was anything serious.

By the time I was admitted at KNH, several tests and x-rays revealed I had suffered cerebral haemorrhage due to high blood pressure. Doctors explained I was loosing my eyesight because blood vessels in the brain had ruptured, causing bleeding in the brain, commonly referred to as brain haemorrhage. The bleeding potentially kills brain cells and can lead to a stroke. Symptoms of a stroke include confusion, loss of speech, numbness in affected areas and in severe cases, paralysis.

Luckily, the bleeding in my brain was in the early stages and was easily arrested through medication without needing surgery, as would be the case in severe cases. After a month’s stay in hospital the haemorrhage stopped, but there were still traces of blood in my brain. My condition didn’t improve much and I could not get out of bed. My speech was slurred and at times I was incoherent and the headaches were killing me. I was in so much pain that at times I would pluck my hair to distract me from the pain. I was heavily sedated and out of touch with reality.

The doctor informed my husband that they had done their best and I should go home and continue with drugs and hopefully with time the condition might improve. My husband took me home and hired a nurse to take care of me. By this time I had completely lost my sight. I will forever be grateful to my husband for his concern and care. I don’t think I would have survived without his help. We incurred high medical bills that completely depleted our savings. Because of my illness, we closed down a restaurant that was our only source of income. We relied on relatives and close friends for money to buy drugs and pay hospital bills.

With time, my condition started improving. I started to comprehend a few things and recognise voices of people close to me. My speech became clearer and the headaches were not as severe. X-rays showed blood was also clearing from my brain. Doctors were pleased with my progress and amazed that despite the haemorrhage, I didn’t have any permanent brain damage. They reassured me that I would regain my sight with time but I needed to take good care of my health and not ignore doctors’ advice again. I was happy to be alive and didn’t worry too much about my eyesight.

When my eyesight didn’t seem to return as the doctor had predicted, I started losing hope of ever seeing again and accepting my condition. It hurt that I could not lead a normal life and had to depend on other people to move around. I blamed myself for my condition regretting that I didn’t seek medical attention in good time, and even after I did, I still did not follow doctor’s advice. I cried a lot and at some point went into a depression.

Then, as if through a miracle, I woke up one morning and saw some light. I thought it was a dream. I rubbed my eyes and opened them and the light was still there. I called my husband and told him I could see some light. Worried that it may be a sign of a bigger problem, he rushed me to KNH where doctors confirmed my sight was coming back. I was thrilled that I would be able to see once again.

Slowly, I regained my complete sight but needed to use prescription glasses for reading. I still take blood pressure drugs and I am extremely careful with my diet. I also do some light exercise. I want to advise those reading this article to always consult a doctor if they feel unwell and not result to self-treatment. You should also follow doctor’s advice without fail. I regret that I brought unto myself all this suffering through sheer ignorance.

 Published in June 2011

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

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Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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