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Getting ready for pregnancy

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Unless unwanted, pregnancy is an exciting and important milestone in a woman’s life. It is generally considered the fulfillment of a woman’s purpose in life. Pregnancy involves much more than the initial excitement. A number of factors need to be considered before conceiving if you want to have a healthy pregnancy, safe delivery and a healthy baby. It is, therefore, important to start planning early for pregnancy, especially because you want to carry a pregnancy when you are healthy both physically and mentally.

Planning prepares you physically and psychologically for the changes your body will experience during pregnancy and for your new life as a mother. Planning for a pregnancy means deciding the right time to conceive, and also planning for the nine months ahead. A pregnancy plan includes a programme addressing the needs of the mother-to-be like nutrition status, weight, age, treatment of any existing health condition before getting pregnant and so on. Start planning as soon as you feel that the time is right to get a baby. The sooner you start the more you will enjoy your pregnancy. A baby’s organs begin to form soon after conception, long before you may realise you are pregnant. As this is a critical phase of development, if you plan your pregnancy you are more likely to give birth to a healthy baby as you will be taking great care of yourself, eating the right foods and ensuring you have a positive lifestyle, long before pregnancy occurs. There are no foolproof methods to ensure a healthy baby, but there are things you can do to improve your chances of a good outcome.

Body awareness

Start preparing for pregnancy one to three months before trying to conceive, especially if you have any existing medical conditions that might affect your ability to conceive, have a healthy pregnancy, or give birth to a healthy baby. A visit to the doctor will determine the health of your reproductive organs, your fertility status, your metabolism rate, and the condition of your heart, blood, lungs, urine, and hormones. It is also advisable to have your partner undergo thorough checkup and get healthy for the pregnancy to ensure production of healthy sperms.

Nutrition

Eat a balanced diet with the right amount of calories to enable you carry out your daily activities. Your diet should contain the six main dietary nutrients – water, protein, carbohydrates, fat, vitamins, and minerals. The healthier you are before you conceive, the more chances you have of a healthy pregnancy. Healthy eating will also help you maintain a healthy body weight.

 

Physical Fitness

Whether you are planning to get pregnant or not, physical fitness is important for your health. Staying active and fit before conceiving and also throughout your pregnancy is vital. It lowers your risk of developing complications during delivery. Keeping fit does not necessarily mean working out in a gym. You can achieve the same results by doing simple activities like jogging, walking or swimming. Exercising leads to all round improved health and fitness, and by extension, a healthier pregnancy. Physical activity in appropriate amounts can decrease the risk of developing conditions such as heart disease, high blood pressure, diabetes, some forms of cancer and osteoporosis.

Finances

Consider whether you can afford to support a child from birth through to adulthood, rather than simply meet the cost of the maternity fee and baby clothes and feeds. Maintaining a child can be expensive and you need to plan well in advance for the expenses of pregnancy, childbirth, as well as the child’s long-term financial needs.

Maternity caregiver

Decide which hospital or doctor will provide your prenatal care and where you will have your delivery. An established relationship with your caregiver is an important part of your support system and a trusted source of information throughout your pregnancy. Choose a maternity hospital and birth setting that will accommodate all your needs, especially if you have a medical condition that could complicate delivery, or you are on certain medication.

Harmful substances

Alcohol, drugs and tobacco can be harmful to your health and can interfere with your pregnancy or even reduce your chances of getting pregnant. Your health before pregnancy will affect the health of your baby and you should therefore consider quitting drinking, smoking and use of drugs before trying to conceive. Foetal exposure to these substances can result in serious health problems for the unborn child including deformities and low birth weight. Avoid self-medication with over-the-counter drugs as these could also have serious effects. If you are on prescription drugs, discuss this with your doctor. There may be need to adjust the dose or change the prescription during pregnancy.

Dental care

Have a thorough dental checkup before you get pregnant. Brush and floss your teeth regularly to prevent oral infections that can lead to poor maternal nutrition due to pain or discomfort while eating. Studies show that gum disease and oral infections can increase your risk of premature birth and low birth weight from either preterm labour or premature rupture of the membranes.

Relationships

The emotional demands of parenthood are enormous. You and your partner must be prepared to commit to communicating and connecting with the baby and accept the constant demands that will follow delivery. You are emotionally ready to have a baby if you are having it for the right reasons, with the right partner and at the right time. It is therefore important to ensure your relationship is strong and supportive and that you are both ready for the added responsibilities.

Stress

There is no evidence to suggest that stress can prevent you from becoming pregnant. However, stress can depress your immune system, raise your blood pressure and alter your hormonal functions. It is important that you avoid stress during pregnancy. Try to identify the possible causes of your stress and avoid them. When you are stressed, your body experiences hormonal imbalances that lead to mood swings, headaches, and high acidity, all of which could be harmful to the pregnancy.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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