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FROM THE PULPIT: Generosity is the measure of love

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Love delights to give. Tell me how much you give and I will tell you how much you love. Giving is the acid test of loving. This is well recorded in many sections of the bible.

For instance, in Luke Chapter 19:1-10 “Jesus entered Jericho and was passing through. A man was there by the name of Zacchaeus. He was a chief tax collector and was wealthy. He wanted to see Jesus, but being a short man, he could not because of the crowd. So he ran ahead and climbed a sycamore fig tree to see Him. When Jesus reached the spot, He looked up and said to him, Zacchaeus, come down immediately. I must stay at your house today… But Zacchaeus stood up and said to the Lord, ‘Look Lord! Here and now I give half of my possessions to the poor, and if I have cheated anybody out of anything, I will pay back four times the amount’… Jesus said, salvation has come to this house…”

Zacchaeus was a short taxman who climbed up a sycamore tree to get a good look at Jesus. The teacher spotted him perched in one of the branches, told him to come down and then invited himself over a meal in Zacchaeus house. Luke’s record tells us nothing about the conversation, but when Zacchaeus emerged from the house that afternoon, he made a dramatic announcement. He promised to give half of his wealth to the poor people and return four fold the amount of money he had taken dishonestly.

We think we are generous if we give God ten percent of our income. Most pastors and deacons would be delighted if everyone in the congregation contributed five percent. The mark of Zacchaeus’ transformation was his staggering generosity. That’s why Jesus declared: “Today salvation has come to this house.” Obviously, salvation isn’t bought with money, but a measure of evidence of whether or not people have trusted Christ is how completely they trust in him with all they own.

Do we display a love and generosity that is compatible with God’s boundless grace to us? Christ paid the debt our sin incurred; he died to set us free so let’s now give back to him generously. When you think about giving to others, think about all-that God has given to you. The greatness of God’s love for us is demonstrated by his priceless gift to us. How much did God love a lost world? So much that He gave His only Son (John 3:16). In Ephesians Chapter 5:25 we read: “Christ also loved the church and gave himself for her.” Apostle Paul wrote in Galatians Chapter 2:20: “The life which I now live in the flesh, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.”

Just as God’s love and giving are inseparable, so too our giving is an expression of our love. This goes much deeper than just putting something in the offering basket on Sunday. It begins with giving ourselves to the Lord each day of the week.

In 2nd Corinthians, Chapter 8, Apostle Paul commended the churches in Macedonia for their generous giving. Their kindness was as a result of their dedication to Christ. In verse 5, Paul said: “they first gave themselves to the Lord.” When we do that, He then has all of us, including our possessions. How much do you love? The answer can’t be seen in how you love to give. You can give without loving, but you can’t love without giving.

I have sometimes wished I had wealth, thinking of all the good I could do with it. But would I? In 1st Timothy Chapter 6:9, Paul warned that coveting riches is a snare. Realising this, we should also thank God for the blessings he gives us and then give as lavishly as we can out of that abundance.

I think it was an act of true Christian kindness for my friend recently to give us a day of her life. It’s exactly the kind of thing brothers and sisters in Christ should be doing for one another when the opportunity arises. But so often we’re blocked by a schedule that is too tight, financial obligations that leave no room for anything but making money or a preoccupation to satisfy our own desires.

We have to “be rich in good work, ready to give,” as exemplified in 1st Timothy, Chapter 6:18. And that includes giving our time.

Published in May 2012

 

 

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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