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The past century has seen great advances made in the area of family planning as a public health issue. In spite of this, public dialogue on family planning in many settings especially at the community level remains taboo. In addition, there are many myths and misconceptions about family planning. ESTHER KIRAGU sheds light on the subject.

The modern woman today wants one, two, or three children at most, which is still fewer number of children in comparison to those, women in the past generations had. This woman is informed and wants to plan for her family.

Family planning, according to the World Health Organization (WHO), allows individuals to control the spacing and timing of births, and to attain their desired number of children. In the short-term, this can create the potential for lower maternal and infant mortality rates through fewer unplanned pregnancies, and also reduce HIV/AIDS transmission, unsafe abortion practices, and enhance education and employment opportunities for women.

Research has shown that when parents and especially women plan their families, they are more likely to realise their education goals and have fulfilling careers that raise family income. The Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation is of the view that long-term family planning policies eventually lead to reduced pressure on natural resources, improved national economic growth and enhanced status for women. So why is the practice still viewed as strange and foreign in some communities?

Addressing key restrictions to family planning…

Acceptance and use of family planning is strongly shaped by social and gender norms including the perceived acceptability of family planning.Religious beliefs, limited involvement of male partners, poor access to family planning services, and public misconceptions are some of the key factors that determine whether family planning is acceptable in the society or not.

In traditional societies, family planning is seen as a preserve of the woman. This is partly blamed on the limited birth control options available for men, leaving the responsibility of preventing pregnancy automatically to the woman. But as times change, both women and men are now more actively involving themselves in planning for their families through the use of contraceptive compared to before.

Contraceptive methods available to men include use of condoms, which prevents sperms reaching and fertilizing an egg, and vasectomy, which is a minor surgical procedure that permanently stops sperms from being ejaculated during sex. Other natural birth control options for men include abstinence, withdrawal method, which entails withdrawing the penis from the vagina and away from a woman’s external genitals before ejaculation to prevent pregnancy. Scientific and research information available is that a male contraceptive pill is in the process of being developed.

Lack of adequate and consistent supply of contraceptives and effective dissemination of accurate family planning information still limit many women’s ability to plan for their pregnancies especially in rural areas and slum dwellings.As a result many women are ill equipped to prevent unwanted pregnancies.

According to the Population Services International (PSI), a global health organisation dedicated to improving the health of people in the developing world by focusing on serious challenges like lack of family planning, less than half of married couples in Kenya use modern family planning methods. To address this gap PSI/Kenya has implemented campaigns such as Tunza Family Network, Femiplan and C-Word to help distribute quality family planning products at highly subsidised prices, educate communities and distribute education materials, as well as improve the knowledge, skills, attitude and performance of health care providers in the provision of quality family planning services.

Jhpiego, a nonprofit organisation that works in developing countries to train health professionals in modern reproductive health care, especially family planning, leads a project known as the Tupange project. The project which is supported by Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation is one of the initiatives that works with the Kenya government and private health providers to reach some of the country’s most vulnerable people through increasing the capacity of local health workers to provide family planning options and services, as well as support Kenyan mothers.

Religious customs deeply rooted in the society play a role in influencing people’s view of family planning due to myths on family planning. Some of the myths include the belief that contraceptives cause abortion, which is murder and thereby ethically and religiously immoral.

The Catholic Church has been particularly strict on the use of contraceptives and condoms amongst believers saying it is against their values. The Islam belief on the other hand only allows women to use natural family planning such as safe days.

The United Nations Population Fund (UNFPA), an international development agency whose objective is to ensure that every pregnancy is wanted, safe, and every young person’s potential is fulfilled, launched a family planning programme in 2012, focusing on youth within the Muslim communities in Malindi in Mombasa County. The aim of the programme was to use innovative approaches to demystify myths and misconception around family planning and Islam.

Which is the best option?

At the end of the day, family planning includes both natural and artificial methods. Individuals can decide for themselves which of the two methods works best for them in consultation with a gynaecologist. While some people prefer natural family planning methods others prefer artificial ones.

Natural family planning involves the use of self-control to regulate one’s sexual activities, either by abstaining from sex or having it at specific times by examining a woman’s body functions and menstrual cycle to determine when she is least likely to conceive. Observing a woman’s cervical changes can help determine her fertility by looking out for variations in the position, firmness and openness of the cervix that relate to fertile and infertile days. This enables one to time when to have intercourse to avoid or achieve pregnancy.

While natural family planning works for many people, it is vital to note that the method requires accuracy in examining and interpreting a woman’s bodily and menstrual cycle for it to work. This method is not recommended for women with irregular monthly cycles, inability to interpret the fertility signs correctly, or persistent infections that affect the signs of fertility.However, she can still use natural birth control but is advised to seek consultation with a gynaecologist so as to use the method most effectively.

There are many artificial family planning methods to prevent the sperm from coming in contact with the egg, which in turn prevents its fertilization. Some popular ones include condoms. Today both male and female condoms are available.

Some women prefer inserts such as a diaphragm, a dome-shaped cup made of either silicon or latex that is inserted into the vagina to block the sperms from uniting with the egg.

Intrauterine devices such as copper IUD (a small T-shaped device) and hormonal IUD can be inserted by a doctor into a woman’s uterus to block the joining together of sperms with an egg. Once inserted an IUD normally stays in place for 5 to 10 years and inhibits the entry of sperms into the inner recesses of the vagina, which in turn prevents fertilisation. It should be inserted and removed when pregnancy is desired by a qualified medical professional to avoid complications.

If a couple has indulged in unsafe sex, the woman can take emergency pills to reduce her chances of getting pregnant. Emergency pills, also known as oral contraceptives, stop the development of the egg and also thicken the cervical mucus in the uterus. This restricts the passage of sperms to the egg and can be an effective method if the pills are taken regularly, and in the correct manner.

You can also consider hormonal shots, which are given every three months to block the joining of sperms with an egg and also to prevent the entry of the egg into the uterus. Some surgical methods to consider are vasectomy for males, or tubal ligation for females. These are permanent surgical procedures to avoid future pregnancies especially for couples that do not want to have any more children.

The results of using artificial family planning methods vary from person to person. It is, therefore, important to talk and discuss the matter as a couple with your gynecologist and gather accurate information about all the contraception options. It is also important that you learn about the possible side effects and effectiveness of family planning products before choosing one for yourself. Remember, just because a product worked or failed when used by one person doesn’t necessary mean it will work or fail when you use it.

Family planning enables people to make informed choices about their sexual and reproductive health. Additionally, it offers women an opportunity for enhanced education and participation in public life, including paid employment. The truth is having a manageable family allows parents to invest more in each child. As a result children with fewer siblings tend to stay in school longer, eventually transforming the economic and social impact of a country.

Myths versus truth about family planning…

Contraceptives have been linked to health issues such as cancer. This is a myth. Contraceptives do not cause cancer and have been proven safe for use worldwide after many years of research.

Some people are opposed to family planning for religious views. For instance some argue that major religions such as Islam and Christianity forbid contraception. This is not true as Islam and most Christian denominations allow couples to use modern and natural methods to plan their families.

 

Of great importance is the need to have adequate sex education as studies prove that age-appropriate sex education and contraceptive provision REDUCE sexually transmitted infections, DO NOT cause promiscuity, and even DELAY sexual experiences among youth.

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

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Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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