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EVEN WITHOUT ARMS I still dream big

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 By Tabitha Onyinge 

Martin Ngugi, born with deformity on his hands, is living his life, creatively pursuing his dream and passion – art – and not one to let any obstacle come his way. Marti’s story will inspire you and fill you with admiration for this young Kenyan, unhindered by nothing.

and A little boy was born in rural Nakuru, 28 years ago. His birth did not however bring the expected joy and pride, but great sorrow and shame to his unmarried mother, who was already raising another son. She was so disappointed she did not even invite friends to come and see her bundle of joy. Instead she got busy knitting. Knitting a refuge for her shame – a poncho. So the young boy spent most of his early years with his upper torso covered in poncho, upon poncho, to conceal the embarrassment he brought his mother.

Things have since changed, and Martin Ngugi and his mother, whom he adores, can laugh at her ignorance then. “Imagine a little boy moving around draped in ponchos,” he laughs lightly. I tell him that he probably looked like a little girl because of his striking looks. I have only met Martin and all the fears I earlier had about discussing his deformity with him are gone. He is real, honest, funny, charming, confident and happy. All these and more make him so inspiring!

Martin was born with deformed hands. He lacks forearms, and in place of the normal five fingers, he has two on each hand, a state that would probably make a weaker willed person in his shoes self-conscious, bitter and dependent. Today I meet him in a neat, short-sleeved white shirt with navy-blue stripes, totally unapologetic about the state of his exposed arms. He gives me a firm handshake. He is at work at Jacaranda Designs, where, as an artist, he does graphic design and illustrations.

With a wealth of experience from working with various publishers and individuals, Martin is confident that he can do just about anything in his field. “I’m more than an artist. I do crafts, drawing, designing, and all manner of things creative, including printing of T-shirts,” he says. Art means so much to him that he is already training upcoming artists privately to look beyond painting and drawing. “I inspire the youth I train to look for that extra oomph in art. I hope to go into full time training in future,” he shares confidently.

With his artistic mind roaming various industries, the soft-spoken youth believes he has what it takes to redefine advertising concepts in Kenya. “I don’t limit myself to one field – advertising concepts is also my area,” he discloses. In fact, he is currently studying animation with a view to pushing a new edge in advertising. “I want to give a new twist to image presentation,” he says, adding that the secret is to always be driven by the desire to create unique pieces that stand out from the rest.

Martin loves merchandising art – which goes well with advertising concepts – too. In this field, all that he creates has to sell. “If, for instance, I’m working on a newspaper cartoon, it has to communicate to a majority and be a concept that would sell anywhere. I believe I can artistically package and sell tribalism and sheng language, among other ‘undesirable’ things in Kenya,” he shares.

A lover of documentaries, Martin, who is very eloquent, has an eye that sees beyond the ordinary. For instance, from watching a piece on US President, Barack Obama, he could tell that the seats of the president’s Cadillac are hand-made. It is this eye that he brings into his work, always adding a detail that takes everyone by surprise. “Some of these qualities you pick up from your superiors,” he shares, adding that his director of art at Jacaranda Designs has helped in sharpening his skills.

He is a dreamer with so many big ideas that leave me awed. “The problem with dreaming is that making your dreams tangible or earning an income from them needs proper planning. You need to be good at thinking and executing to be a successful dreamer,” he states. Is Martin an executor? I ask, to which he answers, “I always want to see every good story I read in drawing. I am already seeing to it with some…”

Known as Artist Mchoraji on facebook and other social circles, Martin has touched quite a number of people with his artwork. His portfolio is large and impressive too. He did a portrait of former president Moi, which he handed over to the ex-statesman on the last Moi Day celebrations. Martin also has a number of portraits of Wangari Maathai and several famous people. Of the portraits, one has an interesting story to it; that of TV personality, Jeff Koinange. “I did a portrait of him and liked it so much, I used it as my facebook profile. Someone told Jeff about it and he asked to have a larger version of it. Now he also has it on his facebook profile,” he laughs. Martin has since appeared on Jeff’s show.

Clearly, art is an inborn thing in this youth, who proudly states that he had three mothers: his biological mother, an aunt who has since passed on, and Gillan Scott Kelley, the administrator of the primary school he attended. Of these three, his late aunt was the artsy one. “Everything she created was so aesthetic and appealing,” he offers the praise. “I realise more of her creativity as I grow older,” he says. Martin’s elder cousin is also an accomplished artist – and the person who inspired him into the profession. “Were art paying, my family would have been very rich,” he says wistfully.

The youth has travelled long and rough to be where he is today. Not only did he have to battle the obvious – stigma caused by his uniqueness, but poverty was also in the mix. When he attained school-going age, Martin joined Tumaini Primary School in Molo, an integrated school with children who are normal and those coping with different disabilities. This was by chance, his mother having been referred by someone who was better enlightened. The administrator of the school, Gillan, subsidised Martin’s fees, and later got him sponsors who saw him through primary, and secondary education at Joy Town School in Thika.

He knew from an early age that he would end up an artist. “Never in any of my classes was there a better artist than me,” he says humbly. He liked to draw and paint. By the time he joined high school, and with facilities such as an art room and good teachers, Martin became very serious with art. His aim was to join Kenyatta University to study Art and Special Education, because of the stigma he had experienced throughout his life. High university fees however drove him to Buru Buru Institute of Fine Art, from where he graduated as a graphic designer.

Stigma is rampant for people with disability. “A lot of people don’t know how to handle us. Some stare, others try to be good by giving us hand-outs, always assuming that we are beggars…it is not good at all.” Because he is older, Martin knows how to deal with it better. “I live a simple and low life not to attract attention,” he says, adding that it was not always his style. “While younger, and because children are very innocent, they teased me a lot and I in return developed a hot temper. I would kick and hit them on the head,” he recalls.

A lot of times Martin is not conscious of his physical deformity until people’s reactions catch his attention. “I could be having a wonderful day then someone does something with prejudice and my mood shifts totally. Some times I get emotional and even want to be rude, but then I hold myself back, knowing that a majority of people don’t know how to relate with people with disability,” Martin intimates. The cheerful youth has watched a lot of documentaries and news clips of inspiring people with disability, and knows that there is always something new to learn from others.

Having attended an integrated primary school, and a secondary school exclusively for people with disability, Martin believes integration is best. “It helps us develop strong life skills, like in sports.” The go-getter, who lives in a commune, can perform all his tasks unassisted. “I wash my clothes and cook, but most people close to me, especially my mother, believe they should spoil me,” he discloses un-accusingly. “My mother hates to see me performing any tasks. She is trying so hard to make up for her earlier goofs,” he teases further.

A confessed lover of life, music and reading inspirational books are Martin’s hobbies. After reading Who moved my cheese? Martin, who is still single, believes people should never anticipate to receive things for free. He professes Christianity, and is a social drinker, but “art is my thing. It is like a drug; it takes you, impacts in your brain and makes you unique,” concludes the entrepreneurial youth.

Published in February 2012

 

 

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

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Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

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Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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