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Earthquake, Hurricane! Welcome to NYC

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It’s just after 10.30 a.m. US Eastern time on the morning of Tuesday, August 23, 2011. The pilot has switched on seat belt lights and announced we will be landing shortly at JFK Airport in New York City (NYC). I am close to the end of my journey, which started some twenty hours before at Nairobi with a short lay over at Heathrow, London. Flying into NYC always makes my body queasy, as I recall the afternoon of September 10, 2001 when I landed at the same airport, jetlagged, checked into my hotel in mid-town Manhattan, slept through the night, and woke up to the greatest terror the world has ever experienced – 9/11. I am not lost to the fact that in a few days, it will be the tenth anniversary of 9/11, and by such great coincidence I will be in the city. It’s a stark reminder of the evil that rules the world and can strike anywhere at any time. We touch down safely on this extremely humid day and I am off to immigration, as I look forward to enjoying NYC, as I always do, and this time in the company of my daughter who has become a proud New Yorker. It’s her birthday coming weekend and my two sons will be traveling to NYC from other states for a birthday party we have planned for her.

Finally at my daughter’s apartment, we are chatting excitedly as I unpack when I get this funny feeling like my head is going round and I assume it’s the jetlag and humidity after the cold Nairobi weather. My daughter asks whether I felt an earthquake. Earthquake? Are you joking? And, yes, there has been an earthquake.

Most of the East Coast, including NYC, has been hit by a 5.9 magnitude tremor and all news channels have the breaking news. People are evacuating from buildings and eyewitness reports have accounts of terrified people running to the security of the streets and open fields – difficult to find among the skyscrapers of NYC. Reality hits, I have arrived to an earthquake in NYC. What is it about me and bad things happening in the US when I am there? Believe you me; not only did I experience 9/11, I was also in the country during Katrina in 2005! Anyway we survive the earthquake – clearly hyped by the media.

With the earthquake behind us, it’s now time to savour NYC – Broadway, theatres, shopping, great food… But by Wednesday, news is coming in that a hurricane by the girly name Irene is headed our way. I take it for another media hype, but by Thursday things are appearing serious. The weathermen are predicting a direct hit in North Carolina, New Jersey, Connecticut and NYC. The media is warning of Armageddon. Anxious local and federal officials go into high gear preparedness. And I can tell you after 9/11 and Katrina, this country is prepared for disaster.

The president issues a statement: “Follow advice and evacuate if your area is on mandatory evacuation zone.” Massive coastal evacuations are ordered. Sixty five million people on the storm’s path are told to prepare for the worst. Scaring doomsday messages are all over the media. “The winds will topple trees, windows will be shattered, construction sites and outdoor furniture will become f lying missiles, power will go off in most areas, there will be massive f looding as rivers will break their banks, water could rise up to 14ft high…” My daughter’s apartment is four blocks from a river!

New York Mayor Michael Bloomberg does not want to be caught f lat-footed like New Orleans Mayor Ray Nagin during Katrina. He orders closure of the entire subway – the first time in its history. Most of the transport system in the East Coast is paralysed. Airports are shut. Trains have stopped. NYC is a ghost town – and I am in the middle of it!

We cancel my daughter’s birthday party and so my sons will not travel; actually can’t travel. We decide to evacuate from the apartment to a hotel in mid-town Manhattan, away from the water. We remove all furniture and fittings away from the windows and store them in the inner rooms. We pack our passports, cash, credit cards and other important documents in our hand luggage and off we go to the hotel.

Apart from a few tourists strolling the streets, the mass of humanity, which depicts NYC streets on a normal day, is not there. It’s a complete shutdown. We have been told Irene will hit NYC Saturday night/Sunday morning. It has already hit North Carolina with devastating destruction. By early evening, rains start coming down. We take shelter in our hotel room watching TV and sharing a bottle of wine.

We doze off. I wake up with a startle and check the time. It’s close to four in the morning. I peep through the window, careful not to be hit by a f lying object. I notice there is a bit of rain and wind, and surprise, surprise, there is a man walking down the street!

I put on the news. Some overzealous reporters are still at it – suddenly fallen tree branches have become monumental and some little f lowing water made to look like a huge river. What an anti-climax? As it turned out, hurricane Irene was a near miss: damaging and disruptive, but not devastating, a far cry from what happened in the Gulf Coast when hurricane Katrina hit, killing more than 1800 people across the region.

Irene never became the monster it was predicted to be. Though it followed the ominous path up the East Coast, it never intensified as much as predicted and had weakened to a tropical storm by the time it reached NYC – good news though an anticlimax after all the preparedness. We return to the apartment on Monday afternoon and start the backbreaking work of putting things back. Ouch… my back still hurts. Thanks Irene.

emathu@parents.co.ke

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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